{"id":65411,"date":"2026-10-29T16:25:39","date_gmt":"2026-10-29T13:25:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=65411"},"modified":"2026-10-29T16:25:39","modified_gmt":"2026-10-29T13:25:39","slug":"iyilik-vefa-ve-insanin-kendine-saygisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/iyilik-vefa-ve-insanin-kendine-saygisi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130yilik, Vefa ve \u0130nsan\u0131n Kendine Sayg\u0131s\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Rafet ULUT\u00dcRK<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan\u0131 her zaman d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131 yaralamaz. Bazen en derin yara, zor g\u00fcn\u00fcnde elinden tuttu\u011fu ki\u015finin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r. Sofras\u0131na buyur etti\u011fi, derdini dinledi\u011fi, kendi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 erteleyerek yard\u0131m\u0131na ko\u015ftu\u011fu birinin g\u00fcn gelip y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7evirmesi, kolay anlat\u0131labilecek bir k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc orada kaybedilen yaln\u0131zca bir dostluk olmaz. \u0130nsan, kendi muhakemesini de sorgulamaya ba\u015flar: \u201cBen bu ki\u015fiyi nas\u0131l tan\u0131yamad\u0131m? S\u00f6ylediklerine neden inand\u0131m? Bir daha kime g\u00fcvenebilirim?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Su i\u00e7tikten sonra testiyi k\u0131ran insan benzetmesi, i\u015fte bu duyguyu anlat\u0131r. K\u0131r\u0131lan testi, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n eme\u011fiyle kurulmu\u015f g\u00fcveni temsil eder. \u0130\u00e7indeki su ise zaman, emek, merhamet ve bazen de insan\u0131n kendi ihtiyac\u0131ndan vazge\u00e7erek sundu\u011fu imk\u00e2nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat bu benzetmenin bizi g\u00f6t\u00fcrmesi gereken yer, b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlara kar\u015f\u0131 kapanmak olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. As\u0131l mesele, iyili\u011fi s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilecek kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc; onun k\u00f6t\u00fcye kullan\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 fark edebilecek kadar dikkatli kalabilmektir.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1521688349\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<h3>\u0130yilik bir bor\u00e7 senedi de\u011fildir<\/h3>\n<p>\u00d6nce kendimize kar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmal\u0131y\u0131z: Birine yard\u0131m etti\u011fimizde ondan ne bekliyoruz?<\/p>\n<p>Te\u015fekk\u00fcr edilmesini istemek insani bir duygudur. Eme\u011fimizin g\u00f6r\u00fclmesini, zor g\u00fcnde uzatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z elin unutulmamas\u0131n\u0131 bekleyebiliriz. Ancak yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her yard\u0131m\u0131 gelecekte tahsil edilecek bir alacak gibi g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, ili\u015fkinin anlam\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131n elinden tutmak, onun hayat\u0131 \u00fczerinde s\u00f6z sahibi olmak de\u011fildir. Ona destek olmak; kararlar\u0131n\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini ve tercihlerini bize teslim etmesini gerektirmez. Bizden farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesi, her iste\u011fimizi kabul etmemesi veya kendi yolunu \u00e7izmesi tek ba\u015f\u0131na nank\u00f6rl\u00fck say\u0131lmaz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vefa beklemekle itaat beklemek aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 g\u00f6zetmek gerekir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yap\u0131lan iyili\u011fi s\u00fcrekli hat\u0131rlatmak, yard\u0131m edilen insan\u0131n onurunu incitebilir. Her kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmada ge\u00e7mi\u015fte verilen deste\u011fi g\u00fcndeme getirmek, bir s\u00fcre sonra iyili\u011fi ta\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131 a\u011f\u0131r bir y\u00fcke d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr. Bu nedenle iyilik yapan\u0131n da bir ahlak\u0131 vard\u0131r: Yard\u0131m etmek, ard\u0131ndan o yard\u0131m\u0131 bir \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck arac\u0131na \u00e7evirmemek.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3719585308\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-10-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<h3>Nank\u00f6rl\u00fck, bir te\u015fekk\u00fcr\u00fcn eksik kalmas\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr<\/h3>\n<p>Birinin te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmeyi unutmas\u0131 bizi \u00fczebilir. Fakat tek bir unutkanl\u0131kla, bilin\u00e7li bir vefas\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ayn\u0131 yerde de\u011ferlendirmek adil olmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Nank\u00f6rl\u00fck daha a\u011f\u0131r bir davran\u0131\u015fta kendini g\u00f6sterir: Al\u0131nan deste\u011fi bile bile ink\u00e2r etmekte, g\u00fcveni ki\u015fisel \u00e7\u0131kar i\u00e7in kullanmakta, yard\u0131m eden insan\u0131n itibar\u0131n\u0131 zedelemekte, ihtiya\u00e7 an\u0131nda yak\u0131n durup ihtiya\u00e7 bitince onu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemekte\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zellikle de kendisine a\u00e7\u0131lan kap\u0131y\u0131, ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in kapanacak h\u00e2le getirmekte.<\/p>\n<p>Birinin iyi niyetini tekrar tekrar kullanmak yaln\u0131zca o ki\u015fiye zarar vermez. Onun ba\u015fkalar\u0131na yard\u0131m etme iste\u011fini de a\u015f\u0131nd\u0131rabilir. Aldat\u0131lan insan\u0131n zihninde \u015fu c\u00fcmle b\u00fcy\u00fcr: \u201cBir daha kimse i\u00e7in u\u011fra\u015fmayaca\u011f\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte nank\u00f6rl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn toplumsal bedeli burada ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. Bir ki\u015finin k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015f\u0131, birbirini hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mayan ba\u015fka insanlar aras\u0131ndaki g\u00fcveni de etkileyebilir. Yard\u0131ma ihtiyac\u0131 olan bir ba\u015fkas\u0131, hi\u00e7 i\u015flemedi\u011fi bir kusurun sonucuyla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabilir.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3600676320\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-15-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<h3>Bizi yaralayan, verdi\u011fimizden \u00e7ok inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r<\/h3>\n<p>Bazen insan kaybetti\u011fi paray\u0131 yeniden kazanabilir. Harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131 da zamanla hafifleyebilir. Fakat birine ili\u015fkin kanaatinin y\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131 daha uzun s\u00fcrer.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yard\u0131m etti\u011fimiz ki\u015fide \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bir imk\u00e2n g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Aya\u011fa kalkaca\u011f\u0131na, sorumluluk alaca\u011f\u0131na, kendisine uzanan eli bir g\u00fcn ba\u015fkas\u0131na uzataca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131r\u0131z. O inan\u00e7 bo\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, yaln\u0131zca kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye k\u0131r\u0131lmay\u0131z; birlikte kurulabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz gelece\u011fe de \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu y\u00fczden baz\u0131 k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar sessiz ya\u015fan\u0131r. \u0130nsan anlatmakta zorlan\u0131r. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yard\u0131m\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klasa kendini \u00f6v\u00fcyormu\u015f gibi hisseder; susarsa ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez kalaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa incindi\u011fini kabul etmek, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 iyili\u011fi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltmez. \u201cBu davran\u0131\u015f beni yaralad\u0131\u201d diyebilmek, insan\u0131n kendi eme\u011fine ve duygular\u0131na sahip \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h3>Merhametin yan\u0131nda s\u0131n\u0131rlar da gerekir<\/h3>\n<p>\u0130yi bir insan olmak, her talebe evet demeyi gerektirmez.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2862024568\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-20-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Kendi ge\u00e7imini tehlikeye atarak s\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kapatmak, ayn\u0131 s\u00f6zlere tekrar tekrar inanmak, hakareti ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc ad\u0131na sineye \u00e7ekmek zamanla insan\u0131 t\u00fcketebilir. \u00dcstelik baz\u0131 durumlarda verilen yard\u0131m, kar\u015f\u0131dakinin sorumluluk almas\u0131n\u0131 da geciktirebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu nedenle iyilik yaparken yaln\u0131zca niyetimize de\u011fil, ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan sonuca da bakmal\u0131y\u0131z. Verdi\u011fimiz destek bir insan\u0131n aya\u011fa kalkmas\u0131na m\u0131 yar\u0131yor? Yoksa ayn\u0131 sorumlulu\u011fu s\u00fcrekli bize b\u0131rakmas\u0131n\u0131 m\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor?<\/p>\n<p>Bu sorular merhameti azaltmaz; yard\u0131m\u0131n daha anlaml\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen en do\u011fru destek, bir ihtiyac\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamakt\u0131r. Bazen yol g\u00f6stermektir. Bazen de a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a, \u201cBu sorumlulu\u011fu art\u0131k senin \u00fcstlenmen gerekiyor\u201d diyebilmektir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130nsan\u0131n kendi huzurunu, ailesinin hakk\u0131n\u0131 ve eme\u011fini korumas\u0131 da ahlaki bir sorumluluktur.<\/strong><\/p><div id=\"bghab-2828599084\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-25-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<h3>Affetmek ve yeniden g\u00fcvenmek farkl\u0131 kararlard\u0131r<\/h3>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131 affetmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u0130\u00e7imizdeki \u00f6fkeyi ta\u015f\u0131maktan vazge\u00e7ebilir, ge\u00e7mi\u015fin hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 y\u00f6netmesine izin vermeyebiliriz. Ancak bu, ayn\u0131 ili\u015fkiyi ayn\u0131 \u015fartlarla s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek zorunda oldu\u011fumuz anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcven, yaln\u0131zca bir \u00f6z\u00fcrle eski h\u00e2line d\u00f6nmeyebilir. Onar\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n kabul edilmesi, do\u011fan zarar\u0131n m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca giderilmesi ve davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n zaman i\u00e7inde de\u011fi\u015fmesi gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu y\u00fczden yeniden yak\u0131nla\u015fmak konusunda acele etmemek do\u011fald\u0131r. \u0130nsan mesafesini koruyarak da nezaketini s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilir. Kin tutmadan da kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 kapatabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Her k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n sonunda kavga etmek gerekmez. Baz\u0131 ili\u015fkiler, sakin bir geri \u00e7ekili\u015fle daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir yere oturur.<\/p>\n<h3>Bir insan y\u00fcz\u00fcnden herkesten vazge\u00e7memek<\/h3>\n<p>Vefas\u0131zl\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131nca b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlara ayn\u0131 g\u00f6zle bakmak kolayla\u015f\u0131r. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fanan\u0131, hen\u00fcz tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ki\u015filerin \u00f6n\u00fcne koyar\u0131z. Her yak\u0131nl\u0131kta bir hesap, her talepte bir tuzak aramaya ba\u015flayabiliriz.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3679789704\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-30-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bu tutum bizi bir s\u00fcre koruyor gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de zamanla yaln\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131rabilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fcveni b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcyle reddetti\u011fimizde, hayat\u0131m\u0131za girebilecek d\u00fcr\u00fcst insanlara da yer b\u0131rakmay\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken, ya\u015fanan\u0131 unutmak de\u011fildir. Ondan daha dikkatli kararlar \u00e7\u0131karabilmektir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n s\u00f6zleri kadar davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 izlemek, yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamana b\u0131rakmak, b\u00fcy\u00fck sorumluluklar\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00fcven deneyimlerinden sonra payla\u015fmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ki\u015finin vefas\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlar\u0131n de\u011feri hakk\u0131nda h\u00fck\u00fcm vermez.<\/p>\n<h3>Vefa, ge\u00e7mi\u015fi hat\u0131rlaman\u0131n ahlak\u0131d\u0131r<\/h3>\n<p>Vefal\u0131 insan, kendisine yard\u0131m edeni \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu memnun etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ki\u015fi de\u011fildir. Kendi iradesini korurken g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc deste\u011fi ink\u00e2r etmeyen ki\u015fidir.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131nda ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n eme\u011fine yer a\u00e7abilendir. Zor g\u00fcn\u00fcnde yan\u0131nda duran birini, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc oldu\u011fu g\u00fcnlerde de insan yerine koyabilendir. Aralar\u0131nda anla\u015fmazl\u0131k \u00e7\u0131ksa bile ge\u00e7mi\u015fi \u00e7arp\u0131tmayan, kendisine g\u00f6sterilen samimiyeti k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmeyendir.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3161017879\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-35-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Vefa bazen k\u0131sa bir telefon konu\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bazen hastal\u0131kta sorulan bir h\u00e2l hat\u0131rd\u0131r. Bazen de bir ortamda, \u201cO g\u00fcn bana destek olmu\u015ftu; hakk\u0131n\u0131 teslim etmeliyim\u201d diyebilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fck s\u00f6zlerden \u00e7ok, insan\u0131n i\u015fine gelmedi\u011fi zamanlarda g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fckte belli olur.<\/p>\n<h3>\u0130yili\u011fi korumak<\/h3>\n<p>Su i\u00e7ti\u011fi testiyi k\u0131ran birinin ard\u0131ndan insan\u0131n eli bir s\u00fcre ba\u015fka bir testiye uzanmayabilir. Bu yorgunlu\u011fu anlamak gerekir. Herkesin toparlanmaya, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmeye ve s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 yeniden kurmaya ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n geri kalan\u0131n\u0131 o k\u0131r\u0131lman\u0131n etraf\u0131nda kurmak, bize yap\u0131lan haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n etkisini uzat\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Yard\u0131m etmeye devam edebiliriz; imk\u00e2n\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6zeterek, insanlar\u0131 tan\u0131yarak, sorumlulu\u011fu payla\u015farak. Gerekti\u011finde hay\u0131r diyebilir, gerekti\u011finde mesafe koyabiliriz. Bunu yaparken kalbimizi b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlara kapatmak zorunda de\u011filiz.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1862842998\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-40-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc iyilik, yaln\u0131zca onu alan ki\u015finin karakterini g\u00f6stermez. Onu yapmay\u0131 se\u00e7en insan\u0131n hayata kar\u015f\u0131 duru\u015funu da anlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Testiyi k\u0131ran\u0131 tan\u0131mak bize s\u0131n\u0131r koymay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmeli; susayan herkese s\u0131rt \u00e7evirmeyi de\u011fil.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div id=\"bghab-672619642\" class=\"bghab-yazi-altinda bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- bghaber-yaz\u0131-sonu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"4222328180\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rafet ULUT\u00dcRK \u0130nsan\u0131 her zaman d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131 yaralamaz. Bazen en derin yara, zor g\u00fcn\u00fcnde elinden tuttu\u011fu ki\u015finin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r. Sofras\u0131na buyur etti\u011fi, derdini dinledi\u011fi, kendi<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":65164,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65411","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yorum"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pc2PfJ-h11","jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/rafet-soylu.jpg?fit=1600%2C783&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65411","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=65411"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65411\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":65412,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65411\/revisions\/65412"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/65164"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=65411"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=65411"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=65411"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}