{"id":65407,"date":"2026-10-29T16:13:51","date_gmt":"2026-10-29T13:13:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=65407"},"modified":"2026-10-29T16:13:51","modified_gmt":"2026-10-29T13:13:51","slug":"hayatin-sonbaharinda-ogrendiklerimiz-insan-gider-iyiligi-kalir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/hayatin-sonbaharinda-ogrendiklerimiz-insan-gider-iyiligi-kalir\/","title":{"rendered":"HAYATIN SONBAHARINDA \u00d6\u011eREND\u0130KLER\u0130M\u0130Z: \u0130NSAN G\u0130DER, \u0130Y\u0130L\u0130\u011e\u0130 KALIR!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><strong>RAFET ULUT\u00dcRK<\/strong><\/div>\n<div>\n<p>Bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyunca para kazanmak, makam sahibi olmak, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek ve insanlara kendimizi kabul ettirmek i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele ediyoruz. Oysa hayat\u0131n sonbahar\u0131na geldi\u011fimizde anl\u0131yoruz ki ger\u00e7ek zenginlik biriktirdiklerimizde de\u011fil, payla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zda; ger\u00e7ek ba\u015far\u0131 y\u00fckseldi\u011fimiz makamlarda de\u011fil, dokundu\u011fumuz kalplerde sakl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2>Hayat\u0131n En B\u00fcy\u00fck Ger\u00e7e\u011fi: Her \u015eey Ge\u00e7iyor, Herkes Gidiyor<\/h2>\n<p>\u0130nsan hayat\u0131 ne garip bir yolculuk\u2026<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnyaya gelirken hi\u00e7bir \u015feyimiz yoktur. Bir annenin kuca\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6zlerimizi a\u00e7ar, bir baban\u0131n ellerinde y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyi \u00f6\u011freniriz. B\u00fcy\u00fcr\u00fcz, hayaller kurar\u0131z, d\u00fcnyay\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirece\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7li\u011fimizde zaman\u0131n hi\u00e7 bitmeyece\u011fine inan\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6n\u00fcm\u00fczde uzun y\u0131llar vard\u0131r. Yapacak i\u015flerimiz, ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirecek hayallerimiz, kazanacak paralar\u0131m\u0131z, ula\u015facak hedeflerimiz vard\u0131r.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3216559211\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Ko\u015far\u0131z\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Daha fazla kazanmak i\u00e7in ko\u015far\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmak i\u00e7in ko\u015far\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnde de\u011ferli g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek i\u00e7in ko\u015far\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen bu ko\u015fu\u015fturma i\u00e7inde annemizin sesini duymay\u0131, babam\u0131z\u0131n elini tutmay\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rmeyi, dostlar\u0131m\u0131zla bir bardak \u00e7ay i\u00e7meyi unuturuz.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1756326014\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-10-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Sonra bir g\u00fcn dururuz.<\/p>\n<p>Bir sonbahar ak\u015fam\u0131nda, sararm\u0131\u015f yapraklar\u0131n alt\u0131nda, akan bir suyun kenar\u0131nda oturur ve geriye bakar\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>O zaman anlar\u0131z ki \u00f6m\u00fcr dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey, asl\u0131nda birka\u00e7 hat\u0131radan ibaretmi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuz bir foto\u011frafta kalm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7li\u011fimiz eski bir \u015fark\u0131da\u2026<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1757477953\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-15-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Anne babam\u0131z\u0131n sesi haf\u0131zam\u0131zda\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Kaybetti\u011fimiz dostlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015fleri y\u00fcre\u011fimizde\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ve y\u0131llarca pe\u015finden ko\u015ftu\u011fumuz bir\u00e7ok \u015fey, art\u0131k hi\u00e7bir anlam ta\u015f\u0131m\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte insan o zaman kendisine \u015fu soruyu soruyor:<\/p>\n<p>Ben bu d\u00fcnyada ne kazand\u0131m, ne kaybettim ve geride nas\u0131l bir insan b\u0131rakt\u0131m?<\/p><div id=\"bghab-536522275\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-20-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Belki de hayat\u0131n en \u00f6nemli muhasebesi budur.<\/p>\n<h2>\u0130nsan Ya\u015fland\u0131k\u00e7a De\u011fil, Anlad\u0131k\u00e7a Olgunla\u015f\u0131r<\/h2>\n<p>Toplumumuzda s\u0131k\u00e7a duydu\u011fumuz bir s\u00f6z vard\u0131r:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ya\u015fl\u0131 insan tecr\u00fcbelidir.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Elbette y\u0131llar insana \u00e7ok \u015fey \u00f6\u011fretir. Fakat her ya\u015flanan insan bilgele\u015fmez.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 insanlar yetmi\u015f ya\u015f\u0131na gelir, h\u00e2l\u00e2 ayn\u0131 hatalar\u0131 yapar. H\u00e2l\u00e2 ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 su\u00e7lar, h\u00e2l\u00e2 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131kla ya\u015far, h\u00e2l\u00e2 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hesaplar\u0131n pe\u015finden ko\u015far.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2300952357\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-25-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Baz\u0131 insanlar ise k\u0131rk ya\u015f\u0131nda \u00f6yle ac\u0131lar ya\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ki hayat\u0131n bir\u00e7ok ger\u00e7e\u011fini \u00e7oktan \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<p>Demek ki insan\u0131 olgunla\u015ft\u0131ran yaln\u0131zca ge\u00e7en y\u0131llar de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fananlardan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lan derslerdir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan ihanete u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlara d\u00fc\u015fman olmuyorsa olgunla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kendisi haks\u0131zl\u0131k yapmamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015fse olgunla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1437199834\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-30-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>G\u00fc\u00e7 kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda zay\u0131f insanlar\u0131 ezmiyorsa olgunla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Kaybetti\u011finde sabretmeyi, kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda payla\u015fmay\u0131 biliyorsa olgunla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek olgunluk, insan\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na gelenlerden sonra nas\u0131l bir karakter geli\u015ftirdi\u011finde sakl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0131llar y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00e7izgiler b\u0131rak\u0131r; ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z dersler ise karakterimizi \u015fekillendirir.<\/p>\n<h2>Kendinden Ba\u015fka Kimseyle Yar\u0131\u015fma: Herkesin Yolculu\u011fu Farkl\u0131d\u0131r<\/h2>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn\u00fcn d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda insanlar s\u00fcrekli birbirleriyle yar\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3305018475\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-35-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Kim daha zengin?<\/p>\n<p>Kim daha ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Kimin evi daha b\u00fcy\u00fck?<\/p>\n<p>Kimin arabas\u0131 daha pahal\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Kim daha fazla tan\u0131n\u0131yor?<\/p><div id=\"bghab-945391943\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-40-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Sosyal medya bu yar\u0131\u015f\u0131 daha da b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n en g\u00fczel anlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyor, kendi hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n eksikleriyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa hi\u00e7 kimsenin hayat\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcl\u00fcmseyen y\u00fczlerin arkas\u0131nda gizlenen ac\u0131lar vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fck evlerin i\u00e7inde yaln\u0131z ya\u015fayan insanlar vard\u0131r.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-4270996787\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-45-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Makam sahibi olup huzur bulamayanlar vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ok paras\u0131 oldu\u011fu h\u00e2lde bir dostun samimiyetine hasret kalanlar vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir evde, m\u00fctevaz\u0131 bir sofran\u0131n etraf\u0131nda d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck mutlulu\u011funu ya\u015fayan aileler de vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>O h\u00e2lde neden kendimizi ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yoruz?<\/p>\n<p>Hayatta as\u0131l yar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z kendimizle olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2423250300\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-50-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>D\u00fcn k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir kalbi bug\u00fcn onarabiliyor muyuz?<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcn g\u00f6steremedi\u011fimiz sabr\u0131 bug\u00fcn g\u00f6sterebiliyor muyuz?<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcn yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hatay\u0131 bug\u00fcn tekrar etmemeyi \u00f6\u011frenebiliyor muyuz?<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ek ba\u015far\u0131 budur.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7mek insan\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 g\u00f6sterebilir. Fakat kendi nefsini yenmek insan\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2834563342\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-55-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<h2>Dostluk Kalabal\u0131k Sofralarda De\u011fil, Bo\u015falan Sandalyelerde Anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r<\/h2>\n<p>Hayat\u0131n insana \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fi en ac\u0131 derslerden biri, dost bildi\u011fi insanlar\u0131 tan\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan gen\u00e7ken herkesi kendisi gibi zanneder.<\/p>\n<p>Kendi s\u00f6z\u00fcnde durdu\u011fu i\u00e7in herkesin s\u00f6z\u00fcnde duraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Kendi dostunu yar\u0131 yolda b\u0131rakmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kimsenin kendisini yar\u0131 yolda b\u0131rakmayaca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat y\u0131llar ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e ba\u015fka ger\u00e7eklerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-4196909383\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-60-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u0130\u015fleriniz iyi giderken etraf\u0131n\u0131z kalabal\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Sofran\u0131z doluyken misafiriniz \u00e7oktur.<\/p>\n<p>Makam\u0131n\u0131z varken telefonunuz susmaz.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar sizi arar, sorar, ziyaret eder.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bir g\u00fcn i\u015fler tersine d\u00f6ner.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1125864777\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-65-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Paran\u0131z azal\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Makam\u0131n\u0131z biter.<\/p>\n<p>Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bozulur.<\/p>\n<p>Bir yard\u0131ma ihtiya\u00e7 duyars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o g\u00fcn kalabal\u0131klar\u0131n i\u00e7inden kimlerin kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcn sizinle foto\u011fraf \u00e7ektirmek i\u00e7in yar\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n baz\u0131lar\u0131 bug\u00fcn selam vermekten ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcn sofran\u0131zdan kalkmayanlar\u0131n baz\u0131lar\u0131 bug\u00fcn telefonunuzu a\u00e7maz.<\/p>\n<p>Ve insan\u0131n y\u00fcre\u011finde derin bir k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k olu\u015fur.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131 as\u0131l yaralayan maddi kay\u0131p de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>De\u011fer verdi\u011fi insanlar\u0131n kendisine de\u011fil, sahip oldu\u011fu imk\u00e2nlara de\u011fer verdi\u011fini anlamas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat hayat yaln\u0131zca vefas\u0131z insanlardan ibaret de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen hi\u00e7 beklemedi\u011finiz bir insan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p gelir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir bardak \u00e7ay getirir.<\/p>\n<p>Omzunuza dokunur.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u00dcz\u00fclme, ben yan\u0131nday\u0131m&#8221; der.<\/p>\n<p>Ve siz o g\u00fcn anlars\u0131n\u0131z ki ger\u00e7ek dostluk b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u00f6zlerle de\u011fil, zor g\u00fcnlerde g\u00f6sterilen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck fedak\u00e2rl\u0131klarla ya\u015far.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u00fczlerce tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z olabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Ama zor g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fczde kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alabilece\u011finiz birka\u00e7 insan varsa, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en zengin insanlar\u0131ndan birisiniz demektir.<\/p>\n<h2>\u0130yilik Yap, Fakat \u0130yili\u011finin Seni T\u00fcketmesine \u0130zin Verme<\/h2>\n<p>Hayat boyunca insanlara yard\u0131m etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fc\u015fenin elinden tutar\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Zor durumda kalana destek oluruz.<\/p>\n<p>Birinin derdi varsa dinleriz.<\/p>\n<p>Birinin i\u015fi varsa ko\u015far\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen kendi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 erteler, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ne koyar\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan olman\u0131n en g\u00fczel taraf\u0131 payla\u015fmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat zamanla ac\u0131 bir ger\u00e7ekle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 insanlar yap\u0131lan iyili\u011fi unutmaz, minnetle hat\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 ise yap\u0131lan iyili\u011fi zamanla kendi hakk\u0131 gibi g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>Bir defa yard\u0131m edersiniz, ikinciyi bekler.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130kinci defa yard\u0131m edersiniz, \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fcy\u00fc ister.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn yard\u0131m edemedi\u011finizde ise y\u0131llarca yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z b\u00fct\u00fcn iyilikleri unutabilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte burada eski bir \u00f6\u011f\u00fct akla gelir:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u00c7atlak testiyi doldurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n beklentileri s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ne kadar verirseniz verin yetmez.<\/p>\n<p>Ne kadar fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k yaparsan\u0131z yap\u0131n daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 isterler.<\/p>\n<p>Ancak bu durum bizi iyilikten uzakla\u015ft\u0131rmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130yilik yapmak bir insanl\u0131k g\u00f6revidir. Fakat kendimizi korumak da bir sorumluluktur.<\/p>\n<p>Herkesin derdini dinleyebiliriz ama herkesin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc tek ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131mak zorunda de\u011filiz.<\/p>\n<p>Herkese merhamet g\u00f6sterebiliriz ama herkesin bizi kullanmas\u0131na izin vermemeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130yilik karakterimizin, s\u0131n\u0131r koymak ise hayat tecr\u00fcbemizin g\u00f6stergesidir.<\/p>\n<h2>Anne ve Baban\u0131n K\u0131ymeti, Yokluklar\u0131nda Daha Derinden Anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r<\/h2>\n<p>\u0130nsan hayat\u0131n\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck pi\u015fmanl\u0131klar\u0131ndan baz\u0131lar\u0131 anne ve babas\u0131yla ilgilidir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir zamanlar bizi bekleyen bir annemiz vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Eve ge\u00e7 kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda merak eden\u2026<\/p>\n<p>A\u00e7 m\u0131y\u0131z, tok muyuz diye soran\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Hastaland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ba\u015fucumuzda bekleyen\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Biz b\u00fcy\u00fcsek de bizi h\u00e2l\u00e2 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u00e7ocuk gibi g\u00f6ren\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bazen nasihatlerinden s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen sorular\u0131na k\u0131sa cevaplar verirdik.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen aramay\u0131 ertelerdik.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bir g\u00fcn o ses susabilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o zaman insan d\u00fcnyan\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn kalabal\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7inde kendisini yapayaln\u0131z hissedebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir bayram sabah\u0131 annesinin elini \u00f6pmek ister.<\/p>\n<p>Bir hastal\u0131k an\u0131nda onun \u015fefkatini arar.<\/p>\n<p>Bir sofrada onun haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yemekleri hat\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>Ve g\u00f6zleri dolar.<\/p>\n<p>Babalar ise \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sevgilerini sessizce g\u00f6sterirler.<\/p>\n<p>Sabah erkenden i\u015fe giderler.<\/p>\n<p>Ak\u015fam yorgun d\u00f6nerler.<\/p>\n<p>Evlatlar\u0131n\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamak i\u00e7in kendi isteklerinden vazge\u00e7erler.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n gelece\u011fini kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken kendi \u00f6m\u00fcrlerini t\u00fcketirler.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra ya\u015flan\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>Bir zamanlar da\u011f gibi g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz babam\u0131z\u0131n ad\u0131mlar\u0131 yava\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>Ellerindeki g\u00fc\u00e7 azal\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6zlerindeki \u0131\u015f\u0131k de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/p>\n<p>Ve bir g\u00fcn onun da elinden tutmam\u0131z gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u0131n en dokunakl\u0131 anlar\u0131ndan biri, \u00e7ocukken elinden tutarak y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz babam\u0131z\u0131n ya\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bizim kolumuza tutunmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>O an insan bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi daha iyi anlar:<\/p>\n<p>Anne baban\u0131n evlad\u0131na b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en b\u00fcy\u00fck miras yaln\u0131zca mal m\u00fclk de\u011fil, fedak\u00e2rl\u0131kla ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f bir \u00f6m\u00fcrd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Bu y\u00fczden anne babalar\u0131m\u0131z hayattayken k\u0131ymetlerini bilelim.<\/p>\n<p>Onlar\u0131n sevgisini kaybettikten sonra mezar ta\u015flar\u0131na yazaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fczel s\u00f6zleri, bug\u00fcn g\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bakarak s\u00f6yleyelim.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir g\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn imk\u00e2nlar\u0131m\u0131z olsa da ge\u00e7mi\u015ften tek bir g\u00fcn\u00fc geri sat\u0131n alamayaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n<h2>Evlatlar B\u00fcy\u00fcr, Evler Sessizle\u015fir, Hat\u0131ralar Kal\u0131r<\/h2>\n<p>Bir zamanlar evlerimiz \u00e7ocuk sesleriyle doluydu.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ayaklar\u0131n ko\u015fu\u015fturmas\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Oyuncaklar\u0131n sesi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Okul tela\u015f\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bayram sabahlar\u0131n\u0131n heyecan\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Okudular.<\/p>\n<p>Meslek sahibi oldular.<\/p>\n<p>Evlendiler.<\/p>\n<p>Kendi yuvalar\u0131n\u0131 kurdular.<\/p>\n<p>Biz ise bir g\u00fcn evin i\u00e7inde sessizce otururken eski foto\u011fraflara bakmaya ba\u015flad\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Bir zamanlar kuca\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u015fimdi kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 var.<\/p>\n<p>Bu hayat\u0131n do\u011fal ve g\u00fczel ak\u0131\u015f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ama insan yine de \u00f6zler.<\/p>\n<p>Bir telefon bekler.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ziyaret bekler.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen yaln\u0131zca birka\u00e7 kelime duymak ister:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Anneci\u011fim nas\u0131ls\u0131n?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Babac\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir ihtiyac\u0131n var m\u0131?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fl\u0131 bir insan i\u00e7in bazen bu sorular, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en k\u0131ymetli hediyesidir.<\/p>\n<p>Burada hem anne babalara hem evlatlara d\u00fc\u015fen g\u00f6revler vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Anne babalar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 kendilerine bor\u00e7lu bireyler olarak de\u011fil, vicdanl\u0131 ve ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z insanlar olarak yeti\u015ftirmelidir.<\/p>\n<p>Evlatlar ise kendi hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 kurarken anne babalar\u0131n\u0131n sevgisini ve eme\u011fini unutmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc aile yaln\u0131zca ayn\u0131 evde ya\u015famak de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Aile, birbirinin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissettirmektir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131n ya\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda en \u00e7ok ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu \u015fey, b\u00fcy\u00fck hediyeler de\u011fil, unutulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmektir.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00d6fkeyle S\u00f6ylenen S\u00f6z, Y\u0131llar\u0131n Sevgisini Y\u0131kabilir<\/h2>\n<p>\u0130nsan bazen bir anl\u0131k \u00f6fkeyle hayat\u0131n\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatas\u0131n\u0131 yapar.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden konu\u015fur.<\/p>\n<p>Kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakini k\u0131rar.<\/p>\n<p>Gururuna yenilir.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra g\u00fcnler ge\u00e7er, \u00f6fkesi diner.<\/p>\n<p>Ama s\u00f6yledi\u011fi s\u00f6z\u00fcn b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yara kalabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 kazanmak i\u00e7in y\u0131llar\u0131n dostlu\u011funu kaybetmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.<\/p>\n<p>Bir anl\u0131k gurur y\u00fcz\u00fcnden karde\u015fler birbirine k\u00fcsebilir.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir mesele b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fclerek aileler par\u00e7alanabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa hayat \u00e7ok k\u0131sad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn konu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insan yar\u0131n aram\u0131zda olmayabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc almad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z dostumuzla yar\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme f\u0131rsat\u0131 bulamayabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu nedenle \u00f6fkeliyken karar vermemeyi \u00f6\u011frenmeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>Hakl\u0131 oldu\u011fumuzda bile merhametli olabilmeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>Her tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 kazanmak zorunda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 anlamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan ili\u015fkilerinde bazen en b\u00fcy\u00fck zafer, kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 yenmek de\u011fil, sevgiyi koruyabilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131 k\u0131rmak birka\u00e7 saniye s\u00fcrebilir. Fakat o k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 onarmak bazen y\u0131llar al\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2>G\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn G\u00f6rmedi\u011fine Kula\u011f\u0131nla \u015eahitlik Etme<\/h2>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn i\u00e7inde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck problemlerinden biri, insanlar\u0131n duymad\u0131klar\u0131 s\u00f6zleri duymu\u015f, g\u00f6rmedikleri olaylar\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f gibi anlatmalar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir s\u00f6ylenti \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n<p>Birileri \u00fczerine ekler.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131 h\u00fck\u00fcm verir.<\/p>\n<p>Sonunda hi\u00e7 ya\u015fanmam\u0131\u015f bir olay, toplumun g\u00f6z\u00fcnde ger\u00e7ekmi\u015f gibi kabul edilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zellikle sosyal medya \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda bu tehlike daha da b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131n y\u0131llarca emek vererek kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 itibar, do\u011frulu\u011fu ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f birka\u00e7 c\u00fcmleyle zarar g\u00f6rebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa insan\u0131n en \u00f6nemli sorumluluklar\u0131ndan biri adaletli olmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Birini yarg\u0131lamadan \u00f6nce dinlemek gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir habere inanmadan \u00f6nce ara\u015ft\u0131rmak gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmadan \u00f6nce vicdan\u0131m\u0131za dan\u0131\u015fmak gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc iftira yaln\u0131zca bir insan\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 kirletmez; toplumun g\u00fcven duygusunu da zedeler.<\/p>\n<p>Ve g\u00fcven kayboldu\u011funda insanlar birbirlerinden uzakla\u015fmaya ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>Bir toplumun \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fc\u015f\u00fc bazen ekonomisinden \u00f6nce insanlar\u0131n birbirine duydu\u011fu g\u00fcvenin y\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131yla ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<h2>Makam Ge\u00e7icidir, \u0130nsanl\u0131k Kal\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r<\/h2>\n<p>Hayat boyunca bir\u00e7ok insanla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 makam sahibidir.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 zengindir.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 ise sessiz, m\u00fctevaz\u0131 ve g\u00f6steri\u015fsiz bir hayat s\u00fcrer.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat y\u0131llar ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e \u015funu g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz:<\/p>\n<p>Makamlar de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/p>\n<p>Servetler el de\u011fi\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnen insanlar ya\u015flan\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir zamanlar herkesin \u00f6n\u00fcnde e\u011fildi\u011fi ki\u015filer unutulabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Ama iyilik yapan, adaletli davranan, insanlara de\u011fer veren ki\u015filer hat\u0131rlanmaya devam eder.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc sahip oldu\u011fu makamda de\u011fil, o makamdayken nas\u0131l davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n<p>Bir y\u00f6netici d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6revi boyunca insanlar\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemi\u015f, kendisine yakla\u015fanlar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131na g\u00f6re de\u011ferlendirmi\u015f, g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ezmek i\u00e7in kullanm\u0131\u015f olsun.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6revinden ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda etraf\u0131ndaki kalabal\u0131k da\u011f\u0131labilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ba\u015fka y\u00f6netici ise insanlar\u0131 dinlemi\u015f, adaletli davranm\u0131\u015f, ihtiya\u00e7 sahiplerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmu\u015f olsun.<\/p>\n<p>O g\u00f6revinden ayr\u0131lsa bile insanlar\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcnde ya\u015famaya devam edebilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7 budur.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fczde e\u011filmesi sizi b\u00fcy\u00fck yapmaz. Sizden g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz insanlar\u0131n yan\u0131n\u0131zda kendilerini de\u011ferli hissetmesi sizi b\u00fcy\u00fck yapar.<\/p>\n<h2>Bir Milletin Gelece\u011fi de \u0130nsanlar\u0131n\u0131n Vicdan\u0131nda Sakl\u0131d\u0131r<\/h2>\n<p>Bu \u00f6\u011f\u00fctler yaln\u0131zca bireyler i\u00e7in de\u011fil, toplumlar ve devletler i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc toplumlar\u0131n da karakteri vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir toplumda menfaat dostlu\u011fun \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7erse dayan\u0131\u015fma zay\u0131flar.<\/p>\n<p>Liyakat yerine yak\u0131nl\u0131k tercih edilirse adalet zarar g\u00f6r\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar do\u011fruyu s\u00f6ylemekten korkar h\u00e2le gelirse g\u00fcven sars\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7lere yaln\u0131zca para kazanmak \u00f6\u011fretilir, vicdanl\u0131 olmak \u00f6\u011fretilmezse gelece\u011fin temelleri zay\u0131flar.<\/p>\n<p>Bir milletin b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yaln\u0131zca ekonomik g\u00fcc\u00fcyle veya asker\u00ee imk\u00e2nlar\u0131yla \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclmez.<\/p>\n<p>O milletin ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131na nas\u0131l davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131na, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l yeti\u015ftirdi\u011fine, yoksullar\u0131na nas\u0131l sahip \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131na ve farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen insanlara ne kadar adaletli yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131na da bakmak gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Tarih boyunca nice b\u00fcy\u00fck devletler kurulmu\u015f, nice g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc imparatorluklar y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ama insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ortak haf\u0131zas\u0131nda en \u00e7ok adalet, ilim, merhamet ve medeniyete katk\u0131 b\u0131rakanlar ya\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn de g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir gelecek istiyorsak \u00f6nce insan yeti\u015ftirmeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn arkas\u0131nda duran insanlar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Eme\u011fe sayg\u0131 g\u00f6steren insanlar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Kendi \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131 i\u00e7in ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hakk\u0131n\u0131 yemeyen insanlar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fc\u00e7 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda e\u011filmeyen ama g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcze de zulmetmeyen insanlar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc iyi insan yeti\u015ftiremeyen bir toplumun yaln\u0131zca g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc kurumlar kurmas\u0131, gelece\u011fini g\u00fcvence alt\u0131na almaya yetmez.<\/p>\n<h2>Sonbaharda D\u00f6k\u00fclen Yapraklar Bize Ne Anlat\u0131yor?<\/h2>\n<p>Sonbahar geldi\u011finde a\u011fa\u00e7lar yapraklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6ker.<\/p>\n<p>Bir zamanlar yemye\u015fil olan dallar \u00e7\u0131plak kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>R\u00fczg\u00e2r eser.<\/p>\n<p>Yapraklar savrulur.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 topra\u011fa d\u00fc\u015fer.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 suya kar\u0131\u015f\u0131p uzaklara gider.<\/p>\n<p>D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hayat bitmi\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa a\u011fac\u0131n k\u00f6klerinde yeni bir bahar\u0131n haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan hayat\u0131 da b\u00f6yledir.<\/p>\n<p>Her kay\u0131p bir son de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Her k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k insan\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011fe s\u00fcr\u00fcklemek zorunda de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Her ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k insan\u0131n de\u011ferini azaltmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen hayat bizden bir \u015feyleri al\u0131rken ba\u015fka \u015feylerin k\u0131ymetini \u00f6\u011fretir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir dostumuzu kaybederiz, ger\u00e7ek dostlu\u011fun de\u011ferini anlar\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bozulur, s\u0131radan bir sabah\u0131n ne b\u00fcy\u00fck nimet oldu\u011funu fark ederiz.<\/p>\n<p>Maddi imk\u00e2nlar\u0131m\u0131z azal\u0131r, kanaatin \u00f6nemini \u00f6\u011freniriz.<\/p>\n<p>Bir sevdi\u011fimizi kaybederiz, hayattakilere daha s\u0131k\u0131 sar\u0131lmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini anlar\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 anlamak i\u00e7in mutlaka kaybetmeyi beklememeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>Ak\u0131ll\u0131 insan ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n tecr\u00fcbelerinden de ders \u00e7\u0131karabilendir.<\/p>\n<p>Sonbahar bize yaln\u0131zca yapraklar\u0131n d\u00f6k\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fil, k\u00f6kleri sa\u011flam olanlar\u0131n yeniden ye\u015ferebilece\u011fini de \u00f6\u011fretir.<\/p>\n<h2>Bir G\u00fcn Hepimiz Bir Foto\u011frafta Kalaca\u011f\u0131z<\/h2>\n<p>Belki de insan\u0131n \u00fczerinde en fazla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesi gereken ger\u00e7ek budur.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn ailemizle foto\u011fraflar \u00e7ekiyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Dostlar\u0131m\u0131zla sofralara oturuyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Bayramlarda bir araya geliyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcl\u00fcyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Konu\u015fuyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Gelecek y\u0131llar\u0131n planlar\u0131n\u0131 yap\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat zaman ge\u00e7ecek.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn ayn\u0131 foto\u011frafta yan yana duran insanlar\u0131n baz\u0131lar\u0131 yar\u0131n aram\u0131zda olmayacak.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn bizim foto\u011fraflar\u0131m\u0131za da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z veya torunlar\u0131m\u0131z bakacak.<\/p>\n<p>Belki bir torunumuz eline eski bir foto\u011fraf alacak.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Bu benim dedemdi&#8221; diyecek.<\/p>\n<p>Belki bir evlad\u0131m\u0131z sessizce g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 d\u00f6kecek.<\/p>\n<p>Belki eski bir dostumuz bir hat\u0131ram\u0131z\u0131 anlatacak.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o g\u00fcn insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek miras\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kacak.<\/p>\n<p>Ard\u0131m\u0131zdan ne s\u00f6yleyecekler?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u00c7ok zengindi&#8221; mi?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u00c7ok g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcyd\u00fc&#8221; m\u00fc?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u00c7ok \u00f6nemli makamlarda bulundu&#8221; mu?<\/p>\n<p>Yoksa\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u0130yi bir insand\u0131. Kimsenin hakk\u0131n\u0131 yemezdi. D\u00fc\u015fenin elinden tutard\u0131. Zor g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde yan\u0131m\u0131zda olmu\u015ftu. Allah ondan raz\u0131 olsun&#8221; mu?<\/p>\n<p>Bence insan\u0131n bu d\u00fcnyada kazanabilece\u011fi en b\u00fcy\u00fck zenginlik, arkas\u0131ndan edilen samimi bir duad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc para t\u00fckenir.<\/p>\n<p>Makam unutulur.<\/p>\n<p>Servet payla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ama iyilikle hat\u0131rlanan bir insan\u0131n hat\u0131ras\u0131 nesiller boyunca ya\u015fayabilir.<\/p>\n<h2>Hayat\u0131n En A\u011f\u0131r Kelimesi: Ke\u015fke<\/h2>\n<p>\u0130nsan ya\u015fland\u0131k\u00e7a ge\u00e7mi\u015fini daha \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Bir zamanlar \u00f6nemli g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n ne kadar anlams\u0131z oldu\u011funu fark eder.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 insanlar\u0131 hat\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>Aramay\u0131 erteledi\u011fi dostlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Anne babas\u0131yla ge\u00e7iremedi\u011fi zamanlara \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcrken ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlar\u0131 hat\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>Ve i\u00e7inde bir kelime b\u00fcy\u00fcmeye ba\u015flar:<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke annemi daha \u00e7ok arasayd\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke babamla daha fazla sohbet etseydim.<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke \u00e7ocuklar\u0131mla daha \u00e7ok zaman ge\u00e7irseydim.<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke dostumun g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc alsayd\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke o s\u00f6zleri s\u00f6ylemeseydim.<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke sevgimi zaman\u0131nda g\u00f6sterebilseydim.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan bazen y\u0131llarca kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 serveti bir tek g\u00fcn\u00fc geri almak i\u00e7in vermek ister.<\/p>\n<p>Ama zaman sat\u0131n al\u0131namaz.<\/p>\n<p>Ge\u00e7mi\u015f geri getirilemez.<\/p>\n<p>Kaybedilen insanlar yeniden kap\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7almaz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu nedenle hayat\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck bilgeli\u011fi, pi\u015fmanl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 azaltacak \u015fekilde bug\u00fcn ya\u015famakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Sevgimizi ertelememektir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6z\u00fcr dilemekten \u00e7ekinmemektir.<\/p>\n<p>Gururumuz y\u00fcz\u00fcnden insanlar\u0131 kaybetmemektir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yar\u0131n s\u00f6ylemek istedi\u011fimiz g\u00fczel bir s\u00f6z\u00fcn muhatab\u0131, yar\u0131n art\u0131k hayatta olmayabilir.<\/p>\n<h2>D\u00dcNYA K\u0130MSEYE KALMAYACAK, AMA \u0130NSANLIK YA\u015eAMAYA DEVAM EDECEK<\/h2>\n<p>Sevgili dostlar\u0131m,<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyunca \u00e7ok \u015fey g\u00f6rd\u00fck.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130yi insanlar tan\u0131d\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Vefas\u0131zl\u0131klar ya\u015fad\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Sevin\u00e7lerimiz oldu.<\/p>\n<p>Ac\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z oldu.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen kazand\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen kaybettik.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen g\u00fcld\u00fck.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kimse g\u00f6rmesin diye i\u00e7imize ak\u0131tt\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Ama b\u00fct\u00fcn bu ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z bize tek bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi \u00f6\u011fretti:<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan bu d\u00fcnyada misafirdir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn hepimiz gidece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n<p>Arkam\u0131zda evlerimiz kalacak.<\/p>\n<p>Masam\u0131z\u0131n \u00fczerinde yar\u0131m kalan i\u015flerimiz kalacak.<\/p>\n<p>Dolaplar\u0131m\u0131zda giymeye f\u0131rsat bulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u0131yafetler kalacak.<\/p>\n<p>Telefonlar\u0131m\u0131zda cevaplanmam\u0131\u015f mesajlar kalacak.<\/p>\n<p>Ve belki de sevdiklerimizin kalbinde tamamlanmam\u0131\u015f c\u00fcmleler kalacak.<\/p>\n<p>O h\u00e2lde neden bu kadar kavga ediyoruz?<\/p>\n<p>Neden birbirimizi bu kadar k\u0131r\u0131yoruz?<\/p>\n<p>Neden bir \u00f6zr\u00fc gurur meselesi yap\u0131yoruz?<\/p>\n<p>Neden bir dostun hat\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 sormay\u0131 erteliyoruz?<\/p>\n<p>Neden anne babam\u0131z\u0131n k\u0131ymetini ancak kaybettikten sonra anl\u0131yoruz?<\/p>\n<p>Neden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zla ge\u00e7irece\u011fimiz zaman\u0131 s\u00fcrekli yar\u0131na b\u0131rak\u0131yoruz?<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn hepimizin sesi susacak.<\/p>\n<p>Ayak izlerimizi ya\u011fmurlar silecek.<\/p>\n<p>Oturdu\u011fumuz sandalyelere ba\u015fkalar\u0131 oturacak.<\/p>\n<p>Bizim bug\u00fcn b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz meseleler, yar\u0131n\u0131n insanlar\u0131 i\u00e7in belki de hi\u00e7bir anlam ta\u015f\u0131mayacak.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bir insan\u0131n kalbine b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z iyilik ya\u015famaya devam edebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131na katt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z umut b\u00fcy\u00fcyebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ya\u015fl\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcnde b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z huzur hat\u0131rlanabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir dostumuza verdi\u011fimiz destek, y\u0131llar sonra bile anlat\u0131labilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek miras\u0131 budur.<\/p>\n<p>Ben bu hayattan \u015funu \u00f6\u011frendim:<\/p>\n<p>Herkesi memnun edemezsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes sizi anlamaz.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes sizin kadar vefal\u0131 olmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z iyili\u011fin k\u0131ymetini bilmez.<\/p>\n<p>Ama b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara ra\u011fmen insan kalabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Vicdan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koruyabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130yilikten vazge\u00e7meyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc oldu\u011funuzda adil, zay\u0131f oldu\u011funuzda sab\u0131rl\u0131 olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda kin tutmak yerine ders \u00e7\u0131karmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Ve en \u00f6nemlisi, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hayat\u0131n ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in de bir anlam ta\u015f\u0131mas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, ka\u00e7 ki\u015fiye s\u00f6z ge\u00e7irdi\u011finde de\u011fil, ka\u00e7 insan\u0131n hayat\u0131na g\u00fczellik katt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 hayattaysak bir f\u0131rsat\u0131m\u0131z var demektir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00f6n\u00fcl alabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Bir dostumuzu arayabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ya\u015fl\u0131n\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcld\u00fcrebiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Bir haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda durabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131n hayat\u0131nda g\u00fczel bir iz b\u0131rakabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Ve b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 yapmak i\u00e7in ne b\u00fcy\u00fck bir servete ne de y\u00fcksek bir makama ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen samimi bir selam, bazen i\u00e7ten bir dua, bazen de zor g\u00fcn\u00fcnde bir insan\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmak yeterlidir.<\/p>\n<p>Unutmayal\u0131m: D\u00fcnya kimseye kalmaz. Ama insanl\u0131k, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 koruyanlar\u0131n sayesinde ya\u015famaya devam eder.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn hepimiz bu d\u00fcnyadan ayr\u0131laca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nemli olan arkam\u0131zdan ka\u00e7 ki\u015finin a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fil, hayattayken ka\u00e7 insan\u0131n g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 silebildi\u011fimizdir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nemli olan ne kadar zengin \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz de\u011fil, ne kadar anlaml\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nemli olan ad\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ka\u00e7 yerde yaz\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fil, ka\u00e7 insan\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcnde g\u00fczel bir hat\u0131ra b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ve bir g\u00fcn birileri bizim i\u00e7in \u015f\u00f6yle diyebiliyorsa:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u0130yi ki tan\u0131m\u0131\u015f\u0131m. Zor g\u00fcn\u00fcmde yan\u0131mdayd\u0131. Bana insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n h\u00e2l\u00e2 var oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o zaman bu d\u00fcnyadan bo\u015funa ge\u00e7memi\u015fiz demektir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat\u0131n sonunda insan\u0131n elinde kalan en b\u00fcy\u00fck servet, biriktirdi\u011fi mallar de\u011fil, kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6n\u00fcllerdir.<\/p>\n<p>Sonbaharda yapraklar d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcr, nehirler akmaya devam eder, ate\u015fler s\u00f6ner, y\u0131llar ge\u00e7er. Fakat k\u00f6kleri iyilikle beslenen bir hayat\u0131n hat\u0131ras\u0131, yeni nesillerin y\u00fcre\u011finde yeniden filizlenir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6yleyse gelin, bu d\u00fcnyadan yaln\u0131zca ge\u00e7en insanlar olmayal\u0131m. 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