{"id":65395,"date":"2026-10-25T20:08:27","date_gmt":"2026-10-25T17:08:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=65395"},"modified":"2026-10-25T20:08:27","modified_gmt":"2026-10-25T17:08:27","slug":"bu-dunyada-hakli-olmak-yetmez-insan-kalabilmek-gerekir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/bu-dunyada-hakli-olmak-yetmez-insan-kalabilmek-gerekir\/","title":{"rendered":"BU D\u00dcNYADA HAKLI OLMAK YETMEZ, \u0130NSAN KALAB\u0130LMEK GEREK\u0130R!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k kalbi karart\u0131r, haset karde\u015fli\u011fi bitirir, kibir insan\u0131 yaln\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Adalet insan\u0131 y\u00fcceltir, merhamet g\u00f6n\u00fclleri birle\u015ftirir, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretmek ise gelece\u011fi in\u015fa eder.<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><strong>\u201cGitti\u011finiz yerde problem \u00e7\u0131karan de\u011fil, problem \u00e7\u00f6zen olun. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 birbirine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcren de\u011fil, bir araya getiren olun. Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131skanan de\u011fil, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131na katk\u0131 sa\u011flayan olun. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, ka\u00e7 ki\u015fiyi geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131yla de\u011fil, ka\u00e7 insan\u0131n elinden tutup y\u00fckseltti\u011fiyle \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan hayat\u0131 boyunca \u00e7ok \u015fey \u00f6\u011freniyor.<\/p>\n<p>Kimi bilgiyi kitaplardan, kimi tecr\u00fcbeyi insanlardan, kimi ger\u00e7e\u011fi ise ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ac\u0131lardan \u00f6\u011freniyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ama hayat\u0131n insana \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fi baz\u0131 dersler vard\u0131r ki onlar\u0131 hi\u00e7bir okulda okutmazlar.<\/p>\n<p>O dersleri bazen bir dostun vefas\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bazen bir karde\u015fin k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bazen y\u0131llarca emek verdi\u011finiz insanlar\u0131n nank\u00f6rl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, bazen de hi\u00e7 beklemedi\u011finiz birinin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 iyilikte \u00f6\u011frenirsiniz.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1343268552\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u0130nsan gen\u00e7li\u011finde hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak ister.<\/p>\n<p>Orta ya\u015flar\u0131nda kendisini anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015f\u0131 ilerledik\u00e7e ise her tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 kazanmaktan \u00e7ok, vicdan\u0131n\u0131n huzurlu olmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nemser.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zaman ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e anlar ki bu d\u00fcnyada her hakl\u0131 insan kazanmaz, her do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yleyen dinlenmez, her iyilik yapan takdir edilmez.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen en \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan de\u011fil, en \u00e7ok konu\u015fan \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2367808913\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-10-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bazen en fazla fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k yapan unutulur.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen bir \u00f6m\u00fcr emek veren insan\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan sahiplenilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen de en b\u00fcy\u00fck haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, iyilik yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z insanlardan g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte hayat\u0131n en a\u011f\u0131r sorusu burada kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kar:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hakl\u0131 oldu\u011fumuzda hakk\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l savunaca\u011f\u0131z? Haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l koruyaca\u011f\u0131z? Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda kendi kalbimizi nas\u0131l temiz tutaca\u011f\u0131z?<\/strong><\/p><div id=\"bghab-682826643\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-15-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Ve hepsinden \u00f6nemlisi:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bu d\u00fcnyadan ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda arkam\u0131zda kavgalar m\u0131 b\u0131rakaca\u011f\u0131z, yoksa \u00e7\u00f6zd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz sorunlar ve kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00f6n\u00fcller mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h2>1. HAKLI OLMAK B\u0130R ERDEM, HAKKINI SAVUNAB\u0130LMEK B\u0130R HAYAT B\u0130LG\u0130S\u0130D\u0130R<\/h2>\n<p>Bu d\u00fcnyada yaln\u0131zca hakl\u0131 olmak yeterli de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Hakl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 savunabilecek bilgiye, cesarete, sabra ve do\u011fru y\u00f6ntemlere de sahip olman\u0131z gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat her zaman do\u011frular\u0131n kendili\u011finden kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir yer de\u011fildir.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-832168523\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-20-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bazen do\u011fruyu anlatmak y\u0131llar al\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen hakl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ispatlamak i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck m\u00fccadele vermeniz gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen insanlar ger\u00e7e\u011fi bilseler bile \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131 nedeniyle sessiz kal\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen de en yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131zdakiler, hakl\u0131 oldu\u011funuzu bildikleri h\u00e2lde sizi yaln\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte b\u00f6yle zamanlarda insan\u0131n yaln\u0131zca vicdanl\u0131 olmas\u0131 yetmez.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3371082945\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-25-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Ak\u0131ll\u0131 olmas\u0131 da gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Hakk\u0131n\u0131 aramas\u0131n\u0131 bilmesi gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Delillerini toplamas\u0131, kendisini do\u011fru anlatmas\u0131, hukuk yollar\u0131n\u0131 kullanmas\u0131 ve gerekti\u011finde dayan\u0131\u015fma olu\u015fturmas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 yaparken \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 a\u015fmamal\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hakl\u0131 olmak, ba\u015fkas\u0131na haks\u0131zl\u0131k yapma hakk\u0131 vermez.<\/strong><\/p><div id=\"bghab-1431251104\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-30-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Size iftira atan birine kar\u015f\u0131 ger\u00e7ekleri ortaya koyabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Hakk\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yiyen birinden hakk\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 isteyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Sizi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan birine kar\u015f\u0131 onurunuzu koruyabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bunu yaparken onun seviyesine inmek zorunda de\u011filsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hakl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n en g\u00fczel h\u00e2li, adaletle savunulan ve ahlakla korunan h\u00e2lidir.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3354689595\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-35-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>Hakl\u0131 olmak vicdan\u0131n sesidir. Hakk\u0131n\u0131 savunmak cesaretin g\u00f6stergesidir. Hak ararken adaletten ayr\u0131lmamak ise ger\u00e7ek insanl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>2. EN DER\u0130N YARAYI BAZEN DOST B\u0130LD\u0130\u011e\u0130N\u0130Z \u0130NSAN A\u00c7AR<\/h2>\n<p>\u0130nsan yabanc\u0131dan gelen k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011fe bir \u015fekilde haz\u0131rlanabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Ama dosttan gelen vefas\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa kolay al\u0131\u015famaz.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131n elinden tutars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Zor g\u00fcn\u00fcnde yan\u0131nda olursunuz.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2145842951\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-40-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u0130\u015f bulmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olursunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Derdini dinlersiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Kendi imk\u00e2nlar\u0131n\u0131zdan fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k yapars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Belki onun i\u00e7in kap\u0131lar a\u00e7ars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Belki kendi zaman\u0131n\u0131zdan, eme\u011finizden, huzurunuzdan verirsiniz.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2383209773\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-45-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Sonra bir g\u00fcn o insan aya\u011fa kalkar.<\/p>\n<p>Ve bazen ilk unuttu\u011fu ki\u015fi, elinden tutan insan olur.<\/p>\n<p>Hatta baz\u0131lar\u0131 daha da ileri gider.<\/p>\n<p>Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z iyilikleri k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmser.<\/p>\n<p>Sizi g\u00f6rmezden gelir.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-902486510\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-50-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 k\u0131skan\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda sizi de\u011fersiz g\u00f6stermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte insan\u0131n can\u0131n\u0131 ac\u0131tan yaln\u0131zca vefas\u0131zl\u0131k de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan\u0131n can\u0131n\u0131 ac\u0131tan, iyili\u011fin k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckle kar\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00f6yle zamanlarda insan kendi kendine sorar:<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3698272798\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-55-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cBen sana ne yapt\u0131m? Sana k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm m\u00fc dokundu? Yolunu mu kestim? Elinden bir \u015fey mi ald\u0131m? Yoksa yaln\u0131zca \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, emek verdim ve bir \u015feyler ba\u015fard\u0131m diye mi rahats\u0131z oldun?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ama \u00e7o\u011fu zaman cevap alamaz.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n meselesi sizin yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fil, sizin ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131z kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 huzursuzluktur.<\/p>\n<p>Yine de bu ac\u0131, bizi iyilikten uzakla\u015ft\u0131rmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131n nank\u00f6rl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc y\u00fcz\u00fcnden b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlara g\u00fcvenimizi kaybetmemeliyiz.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3772597757\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-60-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bir dostun vefas\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcnden dostlu\u011fun de\u011ferinden vazge\u00e7memeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130yili\u011fi hak etmeyen insanlarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmak, iyili\u011fin de\u011ferini azaltmaz.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>3. KISKAN\u00c7LIK: BA\u015eKASININ MUTLULU\u011eUYLA KEND\u0130N\u0130 CEZALANDIRMAK<\/h2>\n<p>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, insan ruhunun en yorucu duygular\u0131ndan biridir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zellikle haset, yani ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n sahip oldu\u011fu nimetin yok olmas\u0131n\u0131 istemek, insan\u0131 i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e t\u00fcketebilir.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131skan\u00e7 insan ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 kendi kayb\u0131 olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3884445772\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-65-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Kom\u015fusu ev ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda huzursuz olur.<\/p>\n<p>Arkada\u015f\u0131 i\u015f kurdu\u011funda rahats\u0131zl\u0131k duyar.<\/p>\n<p>Karde\u015fi y\u00fckseldi\u011finde sevinemez.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan toplumda sevildi\u011finde onun kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 aramaya ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 takdir edildi\u011finde kendisinin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 bizim ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131n y\u00fckselmesi, ba\u015fka bir insan\u0131n mutlaka gerilemesi gerekti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n<p>Bir bah\u00e7ede y\u00fczlerce \u00e7i\u00e7ek ayn\u0131 anda a\u00e7abilir.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcne\u015f bir \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi ayd\u0131nlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda di\u011fer \u00e7i\u00e7eklerden \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 esirgemez.<\/p>\n<p>Ama haset eden insan, kendi bah\u00e7esini g\u00fczelle\u015ftirmek yerine kom\u015fusunun \u00e7i\u00e7eklerini koparmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Sonunda ne olur?<\/p>\n<p>Kom\u015fusunun bah\u00e7esi zarar g\u00f6rse bile kendi bah\u00e7esi g\u00fczelle\u015fmez.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte hasedin en b\u00fcy\u00fck trajedisi budur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6nd\u00fcrmek, kendi karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ayd\u0131nlatmaz.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k bazen insan\u0131n kendi mutlulu\u011funa kurdu\u011fu en b\u00fcy\u00fck tuzakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc s\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131na bakan insan, kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fczelliklerini g\u00f6remez h\u00e2le gelir.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n nimetlerini sayarken kendi nimetlerini unutur.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 izlerken kendi yeteneklerini geli\u015ftirmeye vakit bulamaz.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa insan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck rakibi ba\u015fkalar\u0131 de\u011fil, kendi tembelli\u011fi, korkular\u0131 ve yanl\u0131\u015f al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2>4. HASET MANEV\u0130 B\u0130R TEHL\u0130KED\u0130R, GIPTA \u0130SE GEL\u0130\u015eMEN\u0130N KAPISINI A\u00c7AB\u0130L\u0130R<\/h2>\n<p>\u0130slam ahlak\u0131nda haset ciddi bi\u00e7imde k\u0131nanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Kur&#8217;an-\u0131 Kerim&#8217;de Felak Suresi&#8217;nin be\u015finci ayetinde, haset etti\u011fi zaman haset\u00e7inin \u015ferrinden Allah&#8217;a s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00f6\u011f\u00fctlenmektedir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc haset insan\u0131n yaln\u0131zca i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda kalmayabilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nce d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi bozar.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra dili kirletir.<\/p>\n<p>Ard\u0131ndan davran\u0131\u015flara yans\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Dedikoduya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130ftiraya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir.<\/p>\n<p>Kul hakk\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir.<\/p>\n<p>Karde\u015flikleri ve dostluklar\u0131 par\u00e7alayabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat burada \u00f6nemli bir ayr\u0131m yapmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Her imrenme, din\u00ee anlamda haset de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130slam ahlak\u0131nda g\u0131pta ile haset birbirinden ayr\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>G\u0131pta eden insan \u015f\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAllah ona vermi\u015f, ne g\u00fczel. Bana da nasip etsin.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Haset eden insan ise \u015f\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNi\u00e7in onda var? Ke\u015fke elinden al\u0131nsa.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Birincisi insan\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya, \u00f6\u011frenmeye ve geli\u015fmeye y\u00f6neltebilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130kincisi ise insan\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011fe s\u00fcr\u00fckleyebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu nedenle sak\u0131nmam\u0131z gereken, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n sahip oldu\u011fu nimetleri kaybetmesini istemek ve bu duyguyla haks\u0131z davran\u0131\u015flarda bulunmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ek ahlak, yaln\u0131zca kendi nimetimize \u015f\u00fckretmek de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ger\u00e7ek ahlak, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n nimetine de d\u00fc\u015fman olmamakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bir karde\u015fimiz ba\u015far\u0131 kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sevinmek, bir dostumuz y\u00fckseldi\u011finde gurur duymak, bir gencimiz \u00f6nemli bir eser ortaya koydu\u011funda onu desteklemek g\u00f6n\u00fcl zenginli\u011fidir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek zenginli\u011fi yaln\u0131zca cebindekilerle de\u011fil, kalbindeki iyilikle \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<h2>5. G\u0130TT\u0130\u011e\u0130N\u0130Z YERDE PROBLEM \u00c7IKARAN DE\u011e\u0130L, PROBLEM \u00c7\u00d6ZEN OLUN<\/h2>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte b\u00fct\u00fcn bu meselelerin birle\u015fti\u011fi en \u00f6nemli hayat ilkesi budur:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gitti\u011finiz yerde problem \u00e7\u0131karan de\u011fil, problem \u00e7\u00f6zen insan olun.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 insanlar vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir eve girerler, evin huzuru bozulur.<\/p>\n<p>Bir toplant\u0131ya kat\u0131l\u0131rlar, insanlar birbirine d\u00fc\u015fer.<\/p>\n<p>Bir derne\u011fe gelirler, y\u0131llar\u0131n dostluklar\u0131 sars\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir kurumda g\u00f6rev al\u0131rlar, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda g\u00fcvensizlik ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>Bir meseleye m\u00fcdahale ederler, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmesi gereken sorun daha da b\u00fcy\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Gittikleri her yerde tart\u0131\u015fma, k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k ve huzursuzluk b\u0131rak\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>Bir de \u00f6yle insanlar vard\u0131r ki\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Geldiklerinde insan\u0131n i\u00e7i ferahlar.<\/p>\n<p>Konu\u015ftu\u011funda umut verirler.<\/p>\n<p>Derdinizi anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda sab\u0131rla dinlerler.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131rg\u0131n insanlar\u0131 bar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>Zor durumda olan\u0131n elinden tutarlar.<\/p>\n<p>Sorunlar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fctmek yerine \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen tek bir g\u00fczel s\u00f6zle insan\u0131n i\u00e7indeki f\u0131rt\u0131nay\u0131 dindirirler.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir iyilikle y\u0131llar\u0131n k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bitirirler.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen bir gencin omzuna dokunup, \u201cSen ba\u015farabilirsin\u201d derler.<\/p>\n<p>Ve o gen\u00e7 y\u0131llar sonra ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011funda, belki de hayat\u0131n\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftiren o c\u00fcmleyi hat\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte insan olmak budur.<\/p>\n<p>Bir aileye girdi\u011finizde aile ba\u011flar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirin.<\/p>\n<p>Bir dost meclisine kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda dostluklar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Bir dernekte g\u00f6rev ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ayr\u0131l\u0131k de\u011fil, dayan\u0131\u015fma \u00fcretin.<\/p>\n<p>Bir kurumda \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda bahane de\u011fil, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm geli\u015ftirin.<\/p>\n<p>Bir makama geldi\u011finizde insanlara engel de\u011fil, hizmet olun.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc makamlar ge\u00e7icidir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlara b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z izler kal\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130nsan gitti\u011fi yerde y\u00fck de\u011fil, y\u00fck alan olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131ran de\u011fil, kolayla\u015ft\u0131ran olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>6. GER\u00c7EK L\u0130DERL\u0130K, \u0130NSANLARIN \u00d6N\u00dcN\u00dc KESMEK DE\u011e\u0130L, YOLUNU A\u00c7MAKTIR<\/h2>\n<p>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k yaln\u0131zca bireylerin meselesi de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen kurumlar\u0131n geli\u015fmesini engeller.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen dernekleri b\u00f6ler.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen siyasi hareketleri zay\u0131flat\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen devlet y\u00f6netiminde liyakatin \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7er.<\/p>\n<p>Bir kurum d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7erisinde bilgili, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fkan ve fedak\u00e2r insanlar var.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat bir ki\u015finin ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 di\u011ferlerini rahats\u0131z ediyor.<\/p>\n<p>Birinin ortaya koydu\u011fu proje desteklenmiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 kitap k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseniyor.<\/p>\n<p>Yeni fikirler ki\u015fisel hesaplarla engelleniyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlar d\u0131\u015flan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00f6yle bir kurum nas\u0131l b\u00fcy\u00fcyebilir?<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ek lider, kendisinden daha yetenekli insanlardan korkmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Tam tersine, onlar\u0131n yeti\u015fmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc b\u00fcy\u00fck liderler yaln\u0131zca kendi d\u00f6nemlerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmez.<\/p>\n<p>Kendilerinden sonraki d\u00f6nemleri de d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler.<\/p>\n<p>Bir liderin ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131, kendisinden sonra her \u015feyin durmas\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Kendisinden sonra da i\u015fleyen g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc kurumlar b\u0131rakabilmesidir.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131skan\u00e7 y\u00f6netici kendisine rakip arar.<\/p>\n<p>Bilge y\u00f6netici kendisine yol arkada\u015f\u0131 yeti\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131skan\u00e7 y\u00f6netici makam\u0131n\u0131 korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ek lider kurumunun gelece\u011fini korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>B\u00fcy\u00fck liderler kendilerinden k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck insanlar yeti\u015ftirmez. Kendilerini a\u015fabilecek nesiller yeti\u015ftirir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>7. STRATEJ\u0130K GER\u00c7EK: B\u0130RB\u0130R\u0130N\u0130 KISKANAN TOPLUMLAR ENERJ\u0130LER\u0130N\u0130 T\u00dcKET\u0130R<\/h2>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn d\u00fcnya h\u0131zla de\u011fi\u015fiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bilim ilerliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Teknoloji geli\u015fiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ekonomik rekabet art\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Devletler yeni g\u00fcvenlik ve kalk\u0131nma sorunlar\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00f6yle bir d\u00fcnyada toplumlar\u0131n enerjilerini ki\u015fisel k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131klara ve gereksiz i\u00e7 \u00e7eki\u015fmelere harcamas\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kay\u0131pt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir toplum d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar birbirlerinin ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 engellemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Kurumlar ortak projeler \u00fcretmek yerine birbirleriyle m\u00fccadele ediyor.<\/p>\n<p>Siyasi hareketler toplumsal sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmek yerine ki\u015fisel hesaplarla u\u011fra\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7lerin yetenekleri desteklenmiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bilgi ve liyakat yerine ki\u015fisel yak\u0131nl\u0131k tercih ediliyor.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00f6yle bir toplum gelece\u011fe nas\u0131l g\u00fcvenle y\u00fcr\u00fcyebilir?<\/p>\n<p>Stratejik ak\u0131l, insanlar\u0131 birbirine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmek de\u011fil, farkl\u0131 yetenekleri ortak hedefler etraf\u0131nda birle\u015ftirebilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes ayn\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek zorunda de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes ayn\u0131 siyasi g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc payla\u015fmak zorunda de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes ayn\u0131 kurumda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak zorunda de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Ama herkes ortak de\u011ferlerde bulu\u015fabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Adalet konusunda birle\u015febilir.<\/p>\n<p>E\u011fitim konusunda birlikte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fclt\u00fcrel miras\u0131n korunmas\u0131nda dayan\u0131\u015fma g\u00f6sterebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7lerin gelece\u011fi i\u00e7in ortak projeler geli\u015ftirebilir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bir toplumun g\u00fcc\u00fc, herkesin ayn\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesinden de\u011fil, farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere ra\u011fmen ortak sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zebilmesinden do\u011far.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>8. BULGAR\u0130STAN T\u00dcRKLER\u0130N\u0130N TAR\u0130H\u0130 B\u0130ZE DAYANI\u015eMANIN DE\u011eER\u0130N\u0130 \u00d6\u011eRETT\u0130<\/h2>\n<p>Biz Bulgaristan T\u00fcrkleri, hakl\u0131 olman\u0131n her zaman yeterli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tarih boyunca ya\u015fayarak \u00f6\u011frendik.<\/p>\n<p>1984\u20131985 y\u0131llar\u0131nda uygulanan zorla isim de\u011fi\u015ftirme politikalar\u0131, ana dil ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrel kimlik \u00fczerindeki bask\u0131lar ve 1989 y\u0131l\u0131nda ya\u015fanan b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6\u00e7, toplumumuzun haf\u0131zas\u0131nda derin izler b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar kendi isimlerini ta\u015f\u0131mak istiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Ana dillerini konu\u015fmak istiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Kimliklerini korumak istiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131na k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerini aktarmak istiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Bunlar me\u015fru insan haklar\u0131 talepleriydi.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat hakl\u0131 olmak yeterli de\u011fildi.<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ekleri anlatmak gerekiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fananlar\u0131 belgelemek gerekiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Haklar\u0131 savunmak gerekiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnyan\u0131n dikkatini \u00e7ekmek gerekiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra g\u00f6\u00e7 yollar\u0131 ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar do\u011fduklar\u0131 evleri geride b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00f6ylerini b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocukluk hat\u0131ralar\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Anne babalar\u0131n\u0131n mezarlar\u0131n\u0131 geride b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Kimi bir valize b\u00fct\u00fcn hayat\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131\u011fd\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Kimi s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 ge\u00e7erken son kez d\u00f6n\u00fcp do\u011fdu\u011fu topraklara bakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Kimi yan\u0131nda getirdi\u011fi bir avu\u00e7 topra\u011f\u0131 y\u0131llarca saklad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;ye geldiklerinde bir\u00e7ok aile s\u0131f\u0131rdan hayat kurdu.<\/p>\n<p>Fabrikalarda \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fckk\u00e2nlar a\u00e7t\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 okutmak i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck fedak\u00e2rl\u0131klar yapt\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>Ve o \u00e7ocuklardan \u00f6\u011fretmenler, doktorlar, m\u00fchendisler, bilim insanlar\u0131 ve i\u015f insanlar\u0131 yeti\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>Bu ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda yaln\u0131zca bireysel emek yoktu.<\/p>\n<p>Aile dayan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Kom\u015fuluk vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Birbirinin elinden tutan insanlar vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn o g\u00fcnleri hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda kendimize \u015fu soruyu sormal\u0131y\u0131z:<\/p>\n<p>Biz ge\u00e7mi\u015fte birbirimize tutunarak ayakta kald\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Peki bug\u00fcn neden birbirimizin ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131skanal\u0131m?<\/p>\n<p>Neden ayn\u0131 toplum i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan insanlar\u0131 rakip g\u00f6relim?<\/p>\n<p>Neden birimizin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fczel i\u015fi di\u011ferimiz k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fs\u0131n?<\/p>\n<p>Bizim birbirimizle u\u011fra\u015facak kadar fazla zaman\u0131m\u0131z yok.<\/p>\n<p>Yeti\u015ftirece\u011fimiz gen\u00e7ler var.<\/p>\n<p>Koruyaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz var.<\/p>\n<p>Yazaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kitaplar var.<\/p>\n<p>Kayda alaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hat\u0131ralar var.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00f6zece\u011fimiz toplumsal sorunlar var.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Birbirimizi k\u0131skanarak ge\u00e7mi\u015fimizin emanetini koruyamay\u0131z. Birbirimize destek olarak gelece\u011fimizi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirebiliriz.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>9. ADALET \u0130STEMEK KISKAN\u00c7LIK DE\u011e\u0130LD\u0130R, ELE\u015eT\u0130RMEK D\u00dc\u015eMANLIK DE\u011e\u0130LD\u0130R<\/h2>\n<p>Burada \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir ayr\u0131m yapmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen yanl\u0131\u015f yapan insanlar kendilerine y\u00f6neltilen her ele\u015ftiriyi k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k olarak g\u00f6stermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>Bir y\u00f6netici ele\u015ftirildi\u011finde, \u201cBeni k\u0131skan\u0131yorlar\u201d diyebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir siyaset\u00e7i yanl\u0131\u015f kararlar\u0131 sorguland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, \u201cBa\u015far\u0131m\u0131 \u00e7ekemiyorlar\u201d diyebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir kurumun faaliyetleri denetlendi\u011finde, \u201cBize d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k yap\u0131yorlar\u201d diyebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa ele\u015ftiri ile haset ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Hesap sormak k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Adalet istemek k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Liyakat talep etmek k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131 g\u00f6stermek d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Hukuksuzlu\u011fa itiraz etmek haset de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>As\u0131l mesele ele\u015ftirinin niyeti, do\u011frulu\u011fu ve y\u00f6ntemidir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yok etmek i\u00e7in yalan \u00fcretmek k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckt\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ger\u00e7ek delillerle ortaya koymak toplumsal sorumluluk olabilir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Adalet isteyen insan\u0131n amac\u0131 ki\u015fiyi y\u0131kmak de\u011fil, yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 d\u00fczeltmek olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 toplumlarda ele\u015ftiri susturulmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Ele\u015ftiri dinlenir, de\u011ferlendirilir ve gerekti\u011finde hatalar d\u00fczeltilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ele\u015ftiriden korkan kurumlar zamanla kendi yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6remez h\u00e2le gelebilir.<\/p>\n<h2>10. DEVLET Y\u00d6NET\u0130M\u0130NDE K\u0130\u015e\u0130SEL HESAPLAR DE\u011e\u0130L, ORTAK AKIL GEREK\u0130R<\/h2>\n<p>Ki\u015fisel k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131klar\u0131n en tehlikeli sonu\u00e7lar\u0131ndan biri, devlet y\u00f6netimine yans\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Devlet y\u00f6netimi ki\u015fisel hesapla\u015fmalar\u0131n alan\u0131 olmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Devletin kurumlar\u0131 birbirleriyle rekabet ederek de\u011fil, anayasal g\u00f6revleri \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde i\u015f birli\u011fi yaparak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Cumhurba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131, h\u00fck\u00fcmet, parlamento, yerel y\u00f6netimler ve kamu kurumlar\u0131 farkl\u0131 yetkilere sahip olabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat ortak hedef toplumun huzuru, g\u00fcvenli\u011fi, refah\u0131 ve gelece\u011fi olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir gemiyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/p>\n<p>Gemideki k\u00fcrek\u00e7ilerden biri ileriye, di\u011feri geriye k\u00fcrek \u00e7ekiyorsa geminin ilerlemesi zorla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Devlet y\u00f6netiminde de durum b\u00f6yledir.<\/p>\n<p>Kurumlar birbirlerini etkisizle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in u\u011fra\u015f\u0131rsa \u00fclkenin enerjisi i\u00e7 m\u00fccadelelerde t\u00fckenir.<\/p>\n<p>Ancak kurumlar\u0131n uyumlu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131, demokratik denetimin ortadan kalkmas\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n<p>Tam tersine, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 devlet d\u00fczeninde hem i\u015f birli\u011fi hem de hukuk \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde denge ve denetleme bulunmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc devletin g\u00fcc\u00fc yaln\u0131zca karar alabilmesinde de\u011fil, do\u011fru kararlar\u0131 adaletle uygulayabilmesindedir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Devlet akl\u0131, ki\u015fisel ihtiraslar\u0131n \u00fczerine \u00e7\u0131kabilmek ve milletin gelece\u011fini g\u00fcnl\u00fck siyasi hesaplardan daha \u00f6nemli g\u00f6rebilmektir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>11. BABALARIMIZIN B\u0130ZE BIRAKTI\u011eI EN B\u00dcY\u00dcK M\u0130RAS, \u0130Y\u0130 \u0130NSAN OLMAKTIR<\/h2>\n<p>Bizim babalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, analar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n hayat\u0131 kolay ge\u00e7medi.<\/p>\n<p>Yokluk g\u00f6rd\u00fcler.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6\u00e7 g\u00f6rd\u00fcler.<\/p>\n<p>Gurbet g\u00f6rd\u00fcler.<\/p>\n<p>Ayr\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6rd\u00fcler.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen do\u011fduklar\u0131 topraklardan kopmak zorunda kald\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen b\u00fct\u00fcn bir \u00f6mr\u00fcn eme\u011fini birka\u00e7 valize s\u0131\u011fd\u0131rd\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>Ama \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na yaln\u0131zca maddi bir miras b\u0131rakmad\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>Sab\u0131r b\u0131rakt\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>Emek b\u0131rakt\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>Helal lokman\u0131n de\u011ferini b\u0131rakt\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>Kom\u015fuluk hukukunu b\u0131rakt\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlara yard\u0131m etmenin g\u00fczelli\u011fini b\u0131rakt\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>Bir\u00e7ok babam\u0131z\u0131n cebinde fazla para yoktu ama g\u00f6nl\u00fcnde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir zenginlik vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bir\u00e7ok anam\u0131z\u0131n eli nas\u0131rl\u0131yd\u0131 ama y\u00fcre\u011fi merhamet doluydu.<\/p>\n<p>Onlar bize \u015funu \u00f6\u011frettiler:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEvlad\u0131m, kimsenin hakk\u0131n\u0131 yeme. Kimsenin mal\u0131na g\u00f6z dikme. \u0130yilik yap. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 k\u0131rma. Birinin derdine \u00e7are olabiliyorsan ol.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn kendi kendimize sormam\u0131z gereken soru \u015fudur:<\/p>\n<p>Biz bu mirasa ne kadar sahip \u00e7\u0131kabildik?<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za yaln\u0131zca para kazanmay\u0131 m\u0131 \u00f6\u011frettik?<\/p>\n<p>Yoksa insan kazanmay\u0131 da \u00f6\u011fretebildik mi?<\/p>\n<p>Onlara yaln\u0131zca y\u00fckselmeyi mi anlatt\u0131k?<\/p>\n<p>Yoksa y\u00fckselirken ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n elinden tutmay\u0131 da \u00f6\u011frettik mi?<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc babalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bize b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en b\u00fcy\u00fck miras, tapular ve banka hesaplar\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>En b\u00fcy\u00fck miras, aln\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k ya\u015famak ve insanlar\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcnde temiz bir isim b\u0131rakmakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>12. B\u0130R G\u00dcN HEP\u0130M\u0130Z B\u0130R FOTO\u011eRAFTA KALACA\u011eIZ<\/h2>\n<p>\u0130nsan gen\u00e7ken zaman\u0131n hi\u00e7 bitmeyece\u011fini san\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Yar\u0131nlar sonsuzmu\u015f gibi ya\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck meseleler i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck kavgalar ediyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bir makam u\u011fruna dostunu k\u0131r\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Bir menfaat u\u011fruna karde\u015fiyle konu\u015fmuyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bir yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lma y\u00fcz\u00fcnden y\u0131llar\u0131n hat\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 siliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra bir g\u00fcn telefon \u00e7al\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Bir yak\u0131n\u0131n vefat haberini al\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcn konu\u015ftu\u011funuz insan bug\u00fcn yok.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcn ayn\u0131 sofrada oturdu\u011funuz ki\u015fi bug\u00fcn yaln\u0131zca hat\u0131ralarda ya\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcn sesini duydu\u011funuz insan\u0131n sesini art\u0131k duyam\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o an hayat\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn hesaplar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fiyor.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n<p>Makamlar anlams\u0131zla\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Servet \u00f6nemini kaybediyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ve insan kendi kendine soruyor:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDe\u011fer miydi?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Birbirimizi k\u0131rmaya de\u011fer miydi?<\/p>\n<p>Aylarca konu\u015fmamaya de\u011fer miydi?<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir mesele i\u00e7in y\u0131llar\u0131n dostlu\u011funu bitirmeye de\u011fer miydi?<\/p>\n<p>Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131skanarak kendi \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc t\u00fcketmeye de\u011fer miydi?<\/p>\n<p>Hay\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hepimizin gidece\u011fi yer ayn\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn hepimiz bir foto\u011frafta kalaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn sesimiz bir hat\u0131raya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fecek.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn ad\u0131m\u0131z ge\u00e7mi\u015f zamanla an\u0131lacak.<\/p>\n<p>O h\u00e2lde neden bug\u00fcn birbirimizin hayat\u0131n\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yoruz?<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130nsan, yar\u0131n g\u00f6remeyebilece\u011fi insanlar\u0131 bug\u00fcn k\u0131rmamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmelidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>13. GELECE\u011e\u0130N G\u00dc\u00c7L\u00dc TOPLUMLARI, SORUN \u00c7\u00d6ZEB\u0130LEN TOPLUMLAR OLACAKTIR<\/h2>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn d\u00fcnyada sorun anlatan \u00e7ok, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcreten insan ise her zaman yeterli de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes ele\u015ftirebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes eksiklikleri g\u00f6sterebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes yanl\u0131\u015flardan \u015fik\u00e2yet edebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat as\u0131l mesele, sorunlar\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc i\u00e7in sorumluluk \u00fcstlenmektir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir toplumun gelece\u011fi yaln\u0131zca sahip oldu\u011fu kaynaklarla belirlenmez.<\/p>\n<p>O kaynaklar\u0131 nas\u0131l kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131yla belirlenir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar\u0131n\u0131n yeteneklerini nas\u0131l de\u011ferlendirdi\u011fiyle belirlenir.<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7lerine nas\u0131l f\u0131rsatlar sundu\u011fuyla belirlenir.<\/p>\n<p>Kurumlar\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l y\u00f6netti\u011fiyle belirlenir.<\/p>\n<p>Ve en \u00f6nemlisi, kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunlara nas\u0131l \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler \u00fcretti\u011fiyle belirlenir.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131kla y\u00f6netilen kurumlar yetenek kaybeder.<\/p>\n<p>Kibirle y\u00f6netilen kurumlar ele\u015ftiri dinlemez.<\/p>\n<p>Adaletsizlikle y\u00f6netilen kurumlar g\u00fcven kaybeder.<\/p>\n<p>Ama liyakat, dayan\u0131\u015fma ve ortak ak\u0131lla y\u00f6netilen kurumlar geli\u015fme imk\u00e2n\u0131 bulur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gelece\u011fi, sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011faltanlar de\u011fil, sorunlara \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretenler in\u015fa edecektir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>14. \u00c7OCUKLARIMIZA BIRAKACA\u011eIMIZ EN G\u00dcZEL M\u0130RAS, TEM\u0130Z B\u0130R \u0130S\u0130MD\u0130R<\/h2>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fcyecek.<\/p>\n<p>Torunlar\u0131m\u0131z yeti\u015fecek.<\/p>\n<p>Bizim bug\u00fcn yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011ferlendirecekler.<\/p>\n<p>Belki yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kitaplar\u0131 okuyacaklar.<\/p>\n<p>Belki foto\u011fraflar\u0131m\u0131za bakacaklar.<\/p>\n<p>Belki bizimle ilgili hat\u0131ralar\u0131 dinleyecekler.<\/p>\n<p>O g\u00fcn hakk\u0131m\u0131zda ne s\u00f6ylenmesini isteriz?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7ok zengindi\u201d mi?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7ok g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcyd\u00fc\u201d m\u00fc?<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7ok \u00f6nemli makamlarda bulundu\u201d mu?<\/p>\n<p>Yoksa\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u0130yi bir insand\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKimsenin hakk\u0131n\u0131 yemezdi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u0130nsanlara yard\u0131m ederdi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKimsenin ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131skanmazd\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGitti\u011fi yerde sorun \u00e7\u0131karmaz, sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zerdi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u0130nsanlar\u0131 birbirine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmez, bar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alan\u0131 geri \u00e7evirmezdi.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cArkas\u0131nda g\u00fczel eserler b\u0131rakt\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bence bir insan\u0131n hayat\u0131 i\u00e7in bundan daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00f6vg\u00fc olamaz.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc makamlar unutulur.<\/p>\n<p>Servetler el de\u011fi\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n<p>\u015e\u00f6hret zamanla azal\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ama iyi insan olmak, nesilden nesile anlat\u0131labilecek bir mirast\u0131r.<\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h2>BU D\u00dcNYADAN GE\u00c7\u0130P G\u0130DECE\u011e\u0130Z\u2026 BAR\u0130 G\u00dcZEL HATIRLANALIM!<\/h2>\n<p>Sevgili dostlar,<\/p>\n<p>Bu d\u00fcnya kimseye kalmad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bize de kalmayacak.<\/p>\n<p>Bizden \u00f6ncekiler ya\u015fad\u0131, \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131, sevdi, \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc, m\u00fccadele etti ve gitti.<\/p>\n<p>Biz de bir g\u00fcn gidece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n<p>Belki yar\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Belki y\u0131llar sonra.<\/p>\n<p>Ama mutlaka gidece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n<p>O g\u00fcn geldi\u011finde ne makam\u0131m\u0131z bizimle gelecek ne servetimiz ne de u\u011fruna birbirimizi k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z d\u00fcnyevi hesaplar\u0131m\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Geriye yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z iyilikler, b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z eserler ve insanlar\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcnde olu\u015fturdu\u011fumuz hat\u0131ralar kalacak.<\/p>\n<p>Birinin duas\u0131nda ad\u0131m\u0131z varsa ne g\u00fczel.<\/p>\n<p>Birinin hayat\u0131n\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131ysak ne g\u00fczel.<\/p>\n<p>Bir gencin yeti\u015fmesine katk\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131ysak ne g\u00fczel.<\/p>\n<p>Bir k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bitirdiysek ne g\u00fczel.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131n g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sildiysek ne g\u00fczel.<\/p>\n<p>Birinin hayat\u0131nda karanl\u0131k bir g\u00fcn\u00fc ayd\u0131nlatabildiysek ne g\u00fczel.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bir insan\u0131n kalbini k\u0131rd\u0131ysak, bir dostlu\u011fu bozduysak, bir karde\u015fi karde\u015fine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrd\u00fcysek, birinin hakk\u0131n\u0131 yediysek bunun vicdani sorumlulu\u011funu da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>O h\u00e2lde gelin, kalan \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc daha anlaml\u0131 ya\u015fayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Birbirimizin kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 aramak yerine g\u00fczelliklerini g\u00f6relim.<\/p>\n<p>Birbirimizin ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131skanmak yerine alk\u0131\u015flayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Birbirimizin \u00f6n\u00fcne engel koymak yerine yol a\u00e7al\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Birbirimizin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc art\u0131rmak yerine y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc hafifletelim.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gitti\u011fimiz yerde problem \u00e7\u0131karan de\u011fil, problem \u00e7\u00f6zen olal\u0131m.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat\u0131n sonunda insan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck kazanc\u0131, ne kadar insan\u0131 ge\u00e7ti\u011fi de\u011fil, ka\u00e7 insan\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcne girebildi\u011fidir.<\/p>\n<h3>Hayattan geriye kalan be\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fck ger\u00e7ek<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Birincisi:<\/strong> Hakl\u0131 olmak \u00f6nemlidir ama hakl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 savunurken insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 korumak daha da \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130kincisi:<\/strong> Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131skanmak sizi y\u00fckseltmez. Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fckselmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak ise hem onu hem sizi b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fcs\u00fc:<\/strong> Adalet istemek k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k de\u011fildir. Yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131 d\u00fczeltmek i\u00e7in ele\u015ftirmek d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>D\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fcs\u00fc:<\/strong> Gitti\u011finiz yerde sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011faltmay\u0131n. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fcnyaya b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z en g\u00fczel miras, \u00e7\u00f6zd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz sorunlar ve kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z g\u00f6n\u00fcllerdir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be\u015fincisi:<\/strong> Hayatta en b\u00fcy\u00fck ba\u015far\u0131, herkesi yenmek de\u011fil, kendi nefsinizi, kibrinizi, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve \u00f6fkenizi yenebilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>Ve son olarak\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn bu d\u00fcnyadan ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda arkam\u0131zdan uzun konu\u015fmalar yap\u0131lmas\u0131na gerek kalmas\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Bizi tan\u0131yan biri yaln\u0131zca \u015fu s\u00f6zleri s\u00f6ylesin:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201c\u0130yi bir insand\u0131. Kimseye k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmezdi. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 k\u0131skanmazd\u0131. Haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa boyun e\u011fmezdi. Gitti\u011fi yerde huzur b\u0131rak\u0131r, sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. \u0130yi ki hayat\u0131m\u0131za dokundu.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o zaman ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f olmak ger\u00e7ekten anlam kazan\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek mezar ta\u015f\u0131 mermerden de\u011fil, geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 insanlar\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcnden yap\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Unutmay\u0131n:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Bir g\u00fcn hepimiz bu d\u00fcnyadan gidece\u011fiz.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Kimimiz bir foto\u011frafta kalaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Kimimiz bir hat\u0131rada ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Kimimiz bir duada an\u0131laca\u011f\u0131z.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Kimimiz ise yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z iyiliklerle hat\u0131rlanaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00d6yleyse \u00f6yle bir hayat ya\u015fayal\u0131m ki biz gittikten sonra arkam\u0131zdan k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar de\u011fil, dualar y\u00fckselsin.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Rafet ULUT\u00dcRK<\/strong><br \/>\n<em>BULT\u00dcRK Genel Ba\u015fkan\u0131<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>25 Ekim 2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"bghab-1774708959\" class=\"bghab-yazi-altinda bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- bghaber-yaz\u0131-sonu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"4222328180\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k kalbi karart\u0131r, haset karde\u015fli\u011fi bitirir, kibir insan\u0131 yaln\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Adalet insan\u0131 y\u00fcceltir, merhamet g\u00f6n\u00fclleri birle\u015ftirir, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretmek ise gelece\u011fi in\u015fa eder. \u201cGitti\u011finiz yerde problem \u00e7\u0131karan<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":65318,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65395","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yorum"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pc2PfJ-h0L","jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/rafet-ofss33sl.jpg?fit=1075%2C1463&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65395","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=65395"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65395\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":65396,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65395\/revisions\/65396"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/65318"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=65395"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=65395"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=65395"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}