{"id":65382,"date":"2026-09-30T18:59:53","date_gmt":"2026-09-30T15:59:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=65382"},"modified":"2026-10-01T06:25:04","modified_gmt":"2026-10-01T03:25:04","slug":"60-yasindan-sonra-insan-neyi-anliyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/60-yasindan-sonra-insan-neyi-anliyor\/","title":{"rendered":"60 YA\u015eINDAN SONRA \u0130NSAN NEY\u0130 ANLIYOR?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>\u00d6m\u00fcr Uzad\u0131k\u00e7a Liste K\u0131sal\u0131yor\u2026<\/h2>\n<p>Rafet ULUT\u00dcRK<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7ken insan\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde uzun bir liste vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Yap\u0131lacak i\u015fler, gidilecek \u015fehirler, kazan\u0131lacak paralar, ula\u015f\u0131lacak makamlar, kurulacak hayaller, verilecek m\u00fccadeleler\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDaha \u00e7ok\u201d ister insan.<\/p>\n<p>Daha \u00e7ok ba\u015far\u0131.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2645259433\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Daha \u00e7ok para.<\/p>\n<p>Daha \u00e7ok \u00e7evre.<\/p>\n<p>Daha \u00e7ok tan\u0131nmak.<\/p>\n<p>Daha \u00e7ok kazanmak.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra y\u0131llar ge\u00e7iyor.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1910537033\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-10-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bir sabah aynaya bak\u0131yorsun.<\/p>\n<p>Sa\u00e7lar\u0131na biraz daha ak d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki \u00e7izgiler biraz daha derinle\u015fmi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6zlerinin kenar\u0131nda y\u0131llar\u0131n b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck yollar olu\u015fmu\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Ama as\u0131l de\u011fi\u015fiklik aynada de\u011fildir.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2329165176\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-15-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>\u0130\u00e7indedir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015f ilerledik\u00e7e insan\u0131n istekleri \u00e7o\u011falm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Tam tersine azal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Ve bir g\u00fcn fark ediyorsun:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00d6m\u00fcr uzad\u0131k\u00e7a liste k\u0131sal\u0131yor.<\/strong><\/p><div id=\"bghab-2696668277\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-20-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Art\u0131k \u00e7ok \u015fey istemiyorsun.<\/p>\n<p>Biraz sa\u011fl\u0131k\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Biraz huzur\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Birka\u00e7 ger\u00e7ek dost\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Sevdiklerinin iyi oldu\u011funu bilmek\u2026<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3117493884\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-25-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Ve gece ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa koydu\u011funda seni rahats\u0131z etmeyen bir vicdan.<\/p>\n<p>Me\u011fer insan\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00f6mr\u00fc boyunca arad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zenginlik bu kadarm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h2>GEN\u00c7KEN \u00d6N\u00dcM\u00dcZE, YA\u015e ALINCA ARKAMIZA BAKIYORUZ<\/h2>\n<p>Gen\u00e7ken hep ileriyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYar\u0131n ne olacak?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNe ba\u015faraca\u011f\u0131m?\u201d<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3342152222\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-30-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cNereye gelece\u011fim?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKim olaca\u011f\u0131m?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015f ilerledik\u00e7e insan\u0131n bak\u0131\u015f\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bu defa zaman zaman geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcyorsun.<\/p>\n<p>Nereden geldim?<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1540472783\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-35-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Kimlerle y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcm?<\/p>\n<p>Kimler yolun ortas\u0131nda kald\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Kimler gitti?<\/p>\n<p>Kimleri k\u0131rd\u0131m?<\/p>\n<p>Kimler beni k\u0131rd\u0131?<\/p><div id=\"bghab-210989258\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-40-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Hangi m\u00fccadele ger\u00e7ekten buna de\u011fdi?<\/p>\n<p>Hangisi i\u00e7in bo\u015funa uykusuz kald\u0131m?<\/p>\n<p>Ve insan ac\u0131 bir ger\u00e7ekle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131yor:<\/p>\n<p>Bir zamanlar hayat memat meselesi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z pek \u00e7ok \u015fey bug\u00fcn hat\u0131rlamaya bile de\u011fmiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Demek ki meselelerin b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bazen meselede de\u011filmi\u015f.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1317618989\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-45-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>Bizim ona verdi\u011fimiz de\u011ferdeymi\u015f.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h2>\u0130NSAN EN \u00c7OK \u201cKE\u015eKE\u201dLER\u0130YLE YA\u015eLANIYOR<\/h2>\n<p>Ya\u015f ilerledik\u00e7e insan\u0131n cebinde para kadar \u201cke\u015fke\u201d de birikiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke annemle biraz daha otursayd\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke babam konu\u015furken acele etmeseydim\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke \u00e7ocuklar b\u00fcy\u00fcrken i\u015flerimi biraz kenara b\u0131rakabilseydim\u2026<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3765234826\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-50-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Ke\u015fke o dostumu daha \u00e7ok arasayd\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131 affetmek i\u00e7in bu kadar beklemeseydim\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke baz\u0131 insanlardan uzakla\u015fmak i\u00e7in de bu kadar ge\u00e7 kalmasayd\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat\u0131n garip bir taraf\u0131 var:<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 \u015feylerin k\u0131ymetini, onlar\u0131 kaybettikten sonra anl\u0131yoruz.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3914190758\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-55-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bir evin i\u00e7indeki sesler kesilince evin ne kadar g\u00fczel oldu\u011funu\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bir sandalye bo\u015f kal\u0131nca orada oturan insan\u0131n ne kadar k\u0131ymetli oldu\u011funu\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bir telefon art\u0131k hi\u00e7 \u00e7almay\u0131nca o telefondan gelen sesin ne b\u00fcy\u00fck nimet oldu\u011funu anl\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte insan biraz da bunlar\u0131 anlayarak ya\u015flan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h2>B\u0130R SANDALYE BO\u015eALDI\u011eINDA\u2026<\/h2>\n<p>Hayat\u0131n en a\u011f\u0131r derslerinden biri budur.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-412262265\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-60-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn aile sofras\u0131ndaki sandalyelerden biri bo\u015fal\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nce g\u00f6z\u00fcn al\u0131\u015famaz.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra akl\u0131n kabul eder ama kalbin kabul etmek istemez.<\/p>\n<p>O sandalye art\u0131k sadece sandalye de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir sestir.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1070817251\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-65-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bir bak\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir nasihattir.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen bir k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen \u00e7ocukluk hat\u0131ras\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen de insan\u0131n arkas\u0131nda da\u011f gibi duran bir g\u00fcven duygusudur.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o zaman anl\u0131yorsun:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n de\u011feri hayatta kaplad\u0131klar\u0131 yerle de\u011fil, gittiklerinde b\u0131rakt\u0131klar\u0131 bo\u015flukla \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcyor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ve zaman ge\u00e7iyor\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan ya\u015famaya devam ediyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ama baz\u0131 eksiklikler tamamlanm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Sadece onlarla ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011freniyorsun.<\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h2>BABA EV\u0130 BA\u015eKA B\u0130R \u015eEYM\u0130\u015e<\/h2>\n<p>\u0130nsan gen\u00e7ken baba evinden \u00e7\u0131kmak ister.<\/p>\n<p>Kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131 kurmak, kendi yolunu \u00e7izmek ister.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra y\u0131llar ge\u00e7er.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn anlars\u0131n ki o ev yaln\u0131zca duvarlardan olu\u015fmuyormu\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Orada \u00e7ocuklu\u011fun varm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Annenin sesi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Baban\u0131n ayak sesleri\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bah\u00e7enin kokusu\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bayram sabahlar\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Kap\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcndeki sohbetler\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bir odan\u0131n k\u00f6\u015fesine sinmi\u015f onlarca hat\u0131ra\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan ya\u015f ald\u0131k\u00e7a bazen \u00e7ocuklu\u011funa d\u00f6nmek ister.<\/p>\n<p>Ama yolunu bulamaz.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklu\u011fun yollar\u0131 haritalarda yoktur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Onlar insan\u0131n haf\u0131zas\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h2>YILLAR \u0130NSANA SUSMAYI \u00d6\u011eRET\u0130YOR<\/h2>\n<p>Gen\u00e7ken her yanl\u0131\u015fa cevap vermek istersin.<\/p>\n<p>Birisi seni yanl\u0131\u015f anlam\u0131\u015fsa d\u00fczeltmek istersin.<\/p>\n<p>Hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmu\u015fsa a\u00e7\u0131klamak istersin.<\/p>\n<p>Haks\u0131zl\u0131k yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015fsa sesini y\u00fckseltmek istersin.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra ya\u015f ilerliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Anl\u0131yorsun ki insan\u0131n enerjisi de \u00f6mr\u00fc gibi s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Her tart\u0131\u015fmaya harcanmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Her insana a\u00e7\u0131klama yap\u0131lmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Her kap\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131nmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Her gidenin arkas\u0131ndan ko\u015fulmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Her s\u00f6ze cevap verilmez.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen insan\u0131n kendisine yapaca\u011f\u0131 en b\u00fcy\u00fck iyilik \u015fudur:<\/p>\n<p><strong>B\u0131rakmak.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>B\u0131rak baz\u0131 insanlar seni yanl\u0131\u015f tan\u0131s\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>B\u0131rak baz\u0131lar\u0131 ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcns\u00fcn.<\/p>\n<p>Sen kim oldu\u011funu biliyorsan ve gece ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa koydu\u011funda vicdan\u0131n rahatsa, bazen bu yeterlidir.<\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h2>KALABALIKLAR AZALIYOR, \u0130NSANLAR KIYMETLEN\u0130YOR<\/h2>\n<p>Gen\u00e7ken \u00e7ok insan tan\u0131may\u0131 \u00f6nemli san\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015f ilerledik\u00e7e az ama ger\u00e7ek insan\u0131n k\u0131ymetini anl\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zaman herkesi s\u00fcz\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 menfaat bitince gidiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 makam bitince.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 para bitince.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 i\u015f d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce.<\/p>\n<p>Ama baz\u0131 insanlar kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130yi g\u00fcn\u00fcnde oldu\u011fu gibi k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcnde de\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Sana ihtiyac\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 h\u00e2lde ar\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u015fey istemeden kap\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBir ihtiyac\u0131n var m\u0131?\u201d diye soruyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte ya\u015f ilerledik\u00e7e insan b\u00f6yle insanlar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne alt\u0131nla yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir kelime koyuyor:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vefa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat\u0131n sonunda insan \u00e7ok tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, <strong>kimlerin ger\u00e7ekten yan\u0131nda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131<\/strong> hat\u0131rl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h2>EN B\u00dcY\u00dcK ZENG\u0130NL\u0130K: HUZUR<\/h2>\n<p>Bir ya\u015ftan sonra insan g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcden yoruluyor.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6steri\u015ften\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Yar\u0131\u015ftan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131yaslamaktan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Kendini ispatlamaktan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc hesaplamaktan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Art\u0131k daha sade \u015feyler istiyorsun.<\/p>\n<p>Sabah sa\u011fl\u0131kla uyanmak.<\/p>\n<p>Bir bardak \u00e7ay\u0131 huzurla i\u00e7mek.<\/p>\n<p>Sevdiklerinden g\u00fczel haber almak.<\/p>\n<p>Kap\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alan\u0131n dost oldu\u011funu bilmek.<\/p>\n<p>Sofranda helal lokma olmas\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa koydu\u011funda vicdan\u0131n\u0131n seni sorgulamamas\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte insan o zaman anl\u0131yor:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Huzur, gen\u00e7ken pe\u015finden ko\u015ftu\u011fumuz bir\u00e7ok \u015feyden daha pahal\u0131ym\u0131\u015f.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h2>\u0130Y\u0130 \u0130NSAN KALAB\u0130LMEK<\/h2>\n<p>Ama b\u00fct\u00fcn bu y\u0131llar\u0131n bana \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fi daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015fey var.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan ya\u015flanabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Yorulabilir.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131r\u0131labilir.<\/p>\n<p>Aldat\u0131labilir.<\/p>\n<p>Haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa u\u011frayabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Dost bildi\u011finden yara alabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar insana k\u00f6t\u00fc olma hakk\u0131 vermiyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc mesele ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n bize ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>As\u0131l mesele, onlar\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131ndan sonra <strong>bizim neye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczd\u00fcr.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Beni k\u0131rd\u0131lar diye k\u0131ran biri mi oldum?<\/p>\n<p>Beni aldatt\u0131lar diye g\u00fcvenilmez biri mi oldum?<\/p>\n<p>Bana vefas\u0131zl\u0131k yapt\u0131lar diye vefay\u0131 m\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131m?<\/p>\n<p>Haks\u0131zl\u0131k g\u00f6rd\u00fcm diye adaletten mi vazge\u00e7tim?<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek imtihan\u0131 burada.<\/p>\n<p><strong>K\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck g\u00f6rd\u00fckten sonra da iyi kalabilmek.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kolay de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Belki de insan olman\u0131n en zor taraf\u0131 budur.<\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h2>YA\u015e ALDIK\u00c7A Y\u00dcREK DAHA \u0130NCE OLMALI<\/h2>\n<p>Ben ya\u015flanman\u0131n insan\u0131 sertle\u015ftirmemesi gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Tam tersine\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan ne kadar \u00e7ok hayat g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015fse o kadar merhametli olmal\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k biliyor:<\/p>\n<p>Her g\u00fclen mutlu de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Her susan huzurlu de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Her g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnen ger\u00e7ekten g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Her evin i\u00e7inde bilinmeyen bir hik\u00e2ye vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Her insan\u0131n kimseye anlatmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir yaras\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu nedenle ya\u015f almak biraz da daha az yarg\u0131lamak demektir.<\/p>\n<p>Daha \u00e7ok anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Daha kolay affetmek\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Daha \u00e7ok g\u00f6n\u00fcl almak\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k biliyorsun:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vakit sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kadar \u00e7ok de\u011fil.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h2>B\u0130R G\u00dcN SON KEZ OLDU\u011eUNU B\u0130LMEDEN\u2026<\/h2>\n<p>Hayat\u0131n belki de en h\u00fcz\u00fcnl\u00fc taraf\u0131 budur.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn annenle son kez konu\u015fursun ama bunun son konu\u015fma oldu\u011funu bilmezsin.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn baban\u0131n elini son kez \u00f6persin.<\/p>\n<p>Bir dostunla son kahveni i\u00e7ersin.<\/p>\n<p>Bir soka\u011f\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnden son kez ge\u00e7ersin.<\/p>\n<p>Bir eve son kez girersin.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan sana son kez \u201cKendine iyi bak\u201d der.<\/p>\n<p>Ama hi\u00e7birinin \u00fczerine \u201cson kez\u201d yaz\u0131lmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Hayat bize vedalar\u0131n tarihini \u00f6nceden s\u00f6ylemez.<\/p>\n<p>Bu y\u00fczden seviyorsak s\u00f6ylemeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zlediysek aramal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131rd\u0131ysak g\u00f6n\u00fcl almal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Sar\u0131labiliyorsak sar\u0131lmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yar\u0131n ayn\u0131 kap\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda i\u00e7eriden cevap gelece\u011finin garantisi yok.<\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h2>PEK\u0130 YILLAR BANA NE BIRAKTI?<\/h2>\n<p>Bana daha az \u00f6fke b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Daha fazla anlay\u0131\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Daha az kalabal\u0131k b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Daha ger\u00e7ek dostluklar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Daha az hayal b\u0131rakt\u0131 belki ama daha ger\u00e7ek umutlar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Daha az acele, daha \u00e7ok sab\u0131r\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Daha az \u201cEl \u00e2lem ne der?\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi, daha fazla vicdan muhasebesi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ve her \u015feyden \u00f6nemlisi \u015funu \u00f6\u011fretti:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130nsan d\u00fcnyaya sahip olmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, d\u00fcnyadan insan olarak ge\u00e7ebilmek i\u00e7in gelmi\u015f.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sonunda ne g\u00f6t\u00fcrebiliyoruz?<\/p>\n<p>Makam\u0131 m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Serveti mi?<\/p>\n<p>Evi mi?<\/p>\n<p>Arabay\u0131 m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Alk\u0131\u015flar\u0131 m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Hi\u00e7birini.<\/p>\n<p>Geriye yaln\u0131zca insanlar\u0131n haf\u0131zas\u0131nda b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z birka\u00e7 c\u00fcmle kal\u0131yor:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u0130yi insand\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cVefal\u0131yd\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cZor g\u00fcn\u00fcmde yan\u0131mdayd\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKimse g\u00f6rmezken elimi tuttu.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cG\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck i\u00e7in kullanmad\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBir g\u00f6n\u00fcl insan\u0131yd\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan bir \u00f6m\u00fcr ya\u015fay\u0131p arkas\u0131nda bunlar\u0131 b\u0131rakabiliyorsa, bana g\u00f6re bo\u015funa ya\u015famam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<div>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<h1>SON S\u00d6Z: B\u0130R G\u00dcN B\u0130Z DE HATIRA OLACA\u011eIZ<\/h1>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz sokaklarda bir g\u00fcn ba\u015fkalar\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fcyecek.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn oturdu\u011fumuz koltuklarda ba\u015fkalar\u0131 oturacak.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz meselelerin \u00e7o\u011fu unutulacak.<\/p>\n<p>Foto\u011fraflar\u0131m\u0131z kalacak.<\/p>\n<p>Belki birka\u00e7 kitap\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Birka\u00e7 e\u015fya\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bir baston\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bir saat\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bir ceket\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bir masa\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ve bizi hat\u0131rlayan birka\u00e7 insan.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra onlar da azalacak.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fczden hayat\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck meselesi uzun ya\u015famak de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130yi ya\u015famakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ok insan tan\u0131mak de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bir insan\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcne ger\u00e7ekten dokunmakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ok \u015fey biriktirmek de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>G\u00fczel hat\u0131ralar b\u0131rakmakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ve belki en \u00f6nemlisi:<\/p>\n<p>Hayat bizi ne kadar yormu\u015f olursa olsun, kalbimizin i\u00e7indeki iyi insan\u0131 kaybetmemektir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc y\u0131llar y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bedenimizi yorabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Sa\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 beyazlatabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Sesimizi yava\u015flatabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Ama insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bizden alamaz.<\/p>\n<p>Onu ancak biz terk edebiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Ben art\u0131k aynaya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda yaln\u0131zca ge\u00e7en y\u0131llar\u0131 g\u00f6rmek istemiyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m insanlar\u0131, tuttu\u011fum elleri, ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m dualar\u0131, b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m izleri g\u00f6rmek istiyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Ve yolun sonunda kendime tek bir soru sormak istiyorum:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cBunca y\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131n\u2026 Peki iyi bir insan olarak kalabildin mi?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer cevab\u0131m g\u00f6n\u00fcl rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla <strong>\u201cEvet\u201d<\/strong> olabiliyorsa\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Sa\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131n ka\u00e7 telinin beyazlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n,<\/p>\n<p>y\u00fcz\u00fcmde ka\u00e7 \u00e7izginin olu\u015ftu\u011funun,<\/p>\n<p>takvimde ka\u00e7 y\u0131l\u0131n geride kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n hi\u00e7bir \u00f6nemi 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