{"id":65244,"date":"2026-08-10T13:32:51","date_gmt":"2026-08-10T10:32:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=65244"},"modified":"2026-08-10T13:32:51","modified_gmt":"2026-08-10T10:32:51","slug":"bir-babayi-oglunu-tanidiktan-sonra-tanidim-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/bir-babayi-oglunu-tanidiktan-sonra-tanidim-2\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u0130R BABAYI, O\u011eLUNU TANIDIKTAN SONRA TANIDIM"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><em>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019n\u0131n Ard\u0131ndan\u2026<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Dr. Nedim Birinci<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131 do\u011frudan tan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ise \u00f6nce yeti\u015ftirdi\u011fi evlattan, b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 izden, \u00e7evresine verdi\u011fi terbiyeden tan\u0131maya ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Ben M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019y\u0131 i\u015fte b\u00f6yle tan\u0131d\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nce o\u011flu <strong>Rafet ULUT\u00dcRK\u2019\u00fc<\/strong>, BULT\u00dcRK Derne\u011fi Genel Ba\u015fkan\u0131 olarak tan\u0131d\u0131m. M\u00fccadelesini, insanlara yeti\u015fme gayretini, Bulgaristan T\u00fcrkleri i\u00e7in verdi\u011fi eme\u011fi, kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alan\u0131 geri \u00e7evirmeyi\u015fini g\u00f6rd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra babas\u0131 M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019yla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2473130880\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Zaman ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e \u015funu daha iyi anlamaya ba\u015flad\u0131m:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bir evlad\u0131n y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yolun temeli \u00e7o\u011fu zaman baba oca\u011f\u0131nda at\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Rafet\u2019in karakterindeki direncin, m\u00fccadele azminin, insanlara kar\u015f\u0131 merhametin ve sorumluluk duygusunun arkas\u0131nda nas\u0131l bir baba bulundu\u011funu, M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019y\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131k\u00e7a daha iyi g\u00f6rd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>EV\u0130NDE SERT, M\u0130SAF\u0130R\u0130NE SICAK B\u0130R ADAM<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019n\u0131n kendine has bir yap\u0131s\u0131 vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Evinde disiplinliydi.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-605798293\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-10-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Sert g\u00f6r\u00fcnen taraflar\u0131 vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Belki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 sevgisini her zaman s\u00f6zle ifade eden bir baba de\u011fildi. Eski neslin babalar\u0131 zaten \u00e7o\u011fu zaman b\u00f6yleydi. Sevgilerini \u00e7ok konu\u015fmaz, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla g\u00f6sterirlerdi.<\/p>\n<p>Ancak evin kap\u0131s\u0131ndan bir misafir girdi\u011finde ba\u015fka bir M\u00fcmin A\u011fa g\u00f6r\u00fcrd\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u00fcz\u00fc yumu\u015fard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Sofras\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1378933931\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-15-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Elinde ne varsa payla\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Misafirin \u00f6n\u00fcne koyaca\u011f\u0131 azsa bile, o az\u0131 \u00e7o\u011faltmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onun d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda misafir, y\u00fck de\u011fil bereketti.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019y\u0131 anlatan en \u00f6nemli kelimelerden birinin <strong>merhamet<\/strong> oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Bir di\u011feri ise <strong>vicdan<\/strong>d\u0131r.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3701429381\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-20-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<h2><strong>MERHAMET BAZEN B\u0130R SOFRADA \u00d6\u011eRET\u0130L\u0130R<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u0130nsan merhameti kitaptan \u00f6\u011frenebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Vicdan \u00fczerine uzun konu\u015fmalar yapabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Ancak baz\u0131 de\u011ferler vard\u0131r ki as\u0131l aile i\u00e7inde g\u00f6r\u00fclerek \u00f6\u011frenilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir baban\u0131n ya\u015fl\u0131ya nas\u0131l davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Kap\u0131s\u0131na gelen fakire ne verdi\u011fi\u2026<\/p><div id=\"bghab-404983846\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-25-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Misafir geldi\u011finde sofray\u0131 nas\u0131l a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bir kom\u015funun derdiyle nas\u0131l ilgilendi\u011fi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n zihnine verilen en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc e\u011fitim budur.<\/p>\n<p>Ben zaman i\u00e7inde fark ettim ki Rafet\u2019in insanlara yeti\u015fmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n, sosyal meselelerde sorumluluk almas\u0131n\u0131n ve y\u0131llard\u0131r Bulgaristan T\u00fcrkleri i\u00e7in ko\u015fturmas\u0131n\u0131n temelinde babas\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131ndan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu e\u011fitim vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Belki M\u00fcmin A\u011fa o\u011flunun kula\u011f\u0131na her g\u00fcn uzun nasihatler s\u00f6ylemedi.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-710201348\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-30-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Ama ya\u015fayarak \u00f6\u011fretti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cKap\u0131na geleni geri \u00e7evirme.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cElindekini payla\u015f.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201c\u0130nsanlar\u0131n derdiyle dertlen.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cVicdan\u0131n\u0131 kaybetme.\u201d<\/strong><\/p><div id=\"bghab-1076152691\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-35-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bazen bir baban\u0131n evlad\u0131na b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en b\u00fcy\u00fck miras para de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ev de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir tarla de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Karakterdir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><strong>HEK\u0130M OLARAK EV\u0130NE G\u0130D\u0130YORDUM<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa hastaland\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanlarda evine gidiyordum.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-4209042208\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-40-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Serumunu tak\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u011fnesini yap\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla ilgileniyordum.<\/p>\n<p>Hekimlik mesle\u011finin belki de en farkl\u0131 taraflar\u0131ndan biri budur.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar\u0131 sadece hastane odas\u0131nda g\u00f6rmezsiniz.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-740578801\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-45-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bazen evlerine girersiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Ailelerini g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 ortam\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar\u0131n birbirlerine nas\u0131l bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, nas\u0131l seslendi\u011fini, nas\u0131l sahip \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlersiniz.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019n\u0131n evine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m ziyaretlerde ben yaln\u0131zca bir hastaya m\u00fcdahale etmiyordum.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-735535159\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-50-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bir aileyi de tan\u0131yordum.<\/p>\n<p>Bir baban\u0131n evlad\u0131nda b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 izi g\u00f6r\u00fcyordum.<\/p>\n<p>Ve zamanla kendi kendime \u015fu soruyu sormaya ba\u015flad\u0131m:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cRafet bu enerjiyi, bu m\u00fccadele ruhunu, bu insanlara yeti\u015fme arzusunu nereden ald\u0131?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cevap kar\u015f\u0131mdayd\u0131.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2475303571\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-55-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Babas\u0131ndan.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>RAFET\u2019\u0130N TEMEL\u0130NDE BABASI VARDI<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131 anlamak istiyorsan\u0131z bazen ailesine bakman\u0131z gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc karakter bir g\u00fcnde olu\u015fmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0131llar i\u00e7inde \u015fekillenir.<\/p>\n<p>Rafet ULUT\u00dcRK\u2019\u00fcn y\u0131llard\u0131r Bulgaristan T\u00fcrklerinin meseleleriyle ilgilenmesinin, insanlar\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7almas\u0131n\u0131n, hastas\u0131na, ya\u015fl\u0131s\u0131na, \u00f6\u011frencisine, k\u00f6yl\u00fcs\u00fcne yeti\u015fmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n arkas\u0131nda yaln\u0131zca siyasi veya sivil toplum anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 yoktu.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3285734581\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-60-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Daha derinde bir \u015fey vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Babas\u0131ndan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 vicdan terbiyesi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019n\u0131n evinde g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm payla\u015fma k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc, misafire g\u00f6sterilen s\u0131cakl\u0131k, elindekini vermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 o\u011flunun hayat\u0131nda ba\u015fka bir bi\u00e7imde devam ediyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Baba evinde bir ki\u015fiye a\u00e7\u0131lan kap\u0131, o\u011flunun hayat\u0131nda binlerce insana a\u00e7\u0131lan kap\u0131ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o zaman \u015funu daha iyi anlad\u0131m:<\/p><div id=\"bghab-623672373\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-65-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>Baz\u0131 babalar \u00f6ld\u00fcklerinde bile ya\u015famaya devam ederler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc karakterleri \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde y\u00fcr\u00fcmeye devam eder.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><strong>SON SERUM<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Hayat bazen insana \u00e7ok a\u011f\u0131r hat\u0131ralar b\u0131rak\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019n\u0131n son g\u00fcnlerinden biri de benim i\u00e7in b\u00f6yle bir hat\u0131rad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>O g\u00fcn yine yan\u0131ndayd\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Serumunu takt\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Benim kendisine takt\u0131\u011f\u0131m son serum oldu\u011funu elbette bilmiyordum.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan baz\u0131 anlar\u0131n \u201cson\u201d oldu\u011funu ancak zaman ge\u00e7tikten sonra \u00f6\u011freniyor.<\/p>\n<p>Son konu\u015fma\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Son bak\u0131\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Son ziyaret\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Son serum\u2026<\/p>\n<p>O an s\u0131radan g\u00f6r\u00fcnen \u015fey, ertesi g\u00fcn insan\u0131n zihninde bamba\u015fka bir anlam kazan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Ak\u015fam saatlerinde durumu a\u011f\u0131rla\u015fm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Hastaneye kald\u0131rd\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Elimizden geleni yapt\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat hayat\u0131n doktorlar\u0131n da \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7emedi\u011fi bir s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Sabah haber geldi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa vefat etmi\u015fti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bir hekim i\u00e7in \u00f6l\u00fcm haberi mesle\u011fin bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ama her \u00f6l\u00fcm ayn\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 hastalar yaln\u0131zca hasta olarak kalmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, sohbet etti\u011finiz, evine girdi\u011finiz, ailesine \u015fahit oldu\u011funuz bir insan h\u00e2line gelir.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa benim i\u00e7in onlardan biriydi.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>HEK\u0130ML\u0130\u011e\u0130N \u00c7ARES\u0130Z KALDI\u011eI YER<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Hekimlik insana \u00e7ok \u015fey \u00f6\u011fretir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan bedeninin g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc de \u00f6\u011fretir, k\u0131r\u0131lganl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da.<\/p>\n<p>Elinizden geleni yapars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Serumu takars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lac\u0131n\u0131 verirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Hastaneye yeti\u015ftirirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn bilgi ve imk\u00e2nlar\u0131 kullan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Ama sonunda insan \u015funu kabul eder:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hayat\u0131n bir ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi bir sonu da vard\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O noktada t\u0131p susar.<\/p>\n<p>Hat\u0131ralar konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>Ve insan kendine \u015fu soruyu sorar:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu ki\u015fi ard\u0131nda ne b\u0131rakt\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019n\u0131n ard\u0131ndan benim g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm \u015fudur:<\/p>\n<p>Bir aile b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bir isim b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bir hat\u0131ra b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bunlar\u0131n \u00f6tesinde, insanlara kar\u015f\u0131 merhameti ve vicdan\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yan bir evlat b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>B\u0130R BABANIN EN B\u00dcY\u00dcK ESER\u0130<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn insanlar ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman makamla, parayla veya servetle \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa benim hekim ve insan olarak y\u0131llar i\u00e7inde g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm ba\u015fka bir ger\u00e7ek var:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bir insan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck eseri yeti\u015ftirdi\u011fi insand\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019n\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck eserlerinden biri de o\u011fludur.<\/p>\n<p>Rafet ULUT\u00dcRK bug\u00fcn Bulgaristan T\u00fcrklerinin meseleleri i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele ediyor, T\u00fcrk d\u00fcnyas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor, insanlara ula\u015fmaya gayret ediyorsa bunun temelinde bir baba oca\u011f\u0131nda ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 terbiyenin izleri vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir a\u011fac\u0131n dallar\u0131na bak\u0131nca k\u00f6k\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6remezsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Ama a\u011fac\u0131 ayakta tutan k\u00f6kt\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Ben Rafet\u2019i \u00f6nce dallar\u0131yla tan\u0131d\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra k\u00f6k\u00fcne indim.<\/p>\n<p>Ve o k\u00f6kte M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019y\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>\u00c7INAR G\u0130DER, G\u00d6LGES\u0130 KALIR<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa art\u0131k aram\u0131zda de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat baz\u0131 insanlar topra\u011fa verildiklerinde tamamen gitmezler.<\/p>\n<p>Onlar\u0131n s\u00f6zleri kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Sofralar\u0131 hat\u0131rlan\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlat\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Misafire verdikleri de\u011fer konu\u015fulur.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n karakterinde ya\u015famaya devam ederler.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00e7\u0131nar y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat y\u0131llarca verdi\u011fi g\u00f6lge kaybolmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Alt\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fcyen fidanlar art\u0131k kendi g\u00f6lgelerini vermeye ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019n\u0131n ard\u0131ndan bana kalan duygu budur.<\/p>\n<p>Ben \u00f6nce o\u011flunu tan\u0131d\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra babas\u0131n\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Babay\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131ktan sonra o\u011flunu \u00e7ok daha iyi anlad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Ve bug\u00fcn M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019n\u0131n ard\u0131ndan \u015funu s\u00f6yleyebilirim:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130nsan d\u00fcnyadan giderken arkas\u0131nda merhametli bir evlat, temiz bir isim ve g\u00fczel hat\u0131ralar b\u0131rakabiliyorsa, asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir miras b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f demektir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Son serumunu takmak bana nasip oldu.<\/p>\n<p>Son yolculu\u011funa kadar elimizden geleni yapt\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi bize d\u00fc\u015fen ise onun g\u00fczel taraflar\u0131n\u0131 anlatmak, duas\u0131n\u0131 etmek ve b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011ferleri ya\u015fatmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Allah rahmet eylesin M\u00fcmin A\u011fa.<\/p>\n<p>Mek\u00e2n\u0131n cennet, makam\u0131n \u00e2li olsun.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dr. Nedim Birinci<\/strong><\/p>\n<div id=\"bghab-3692278919\" class=\"bghab-yazi-altinda bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- bghaber-yaz\u0131-sonu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"4222328180\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019n\u0131n Ard\u0131ndan\u2026 Dr. Nedim Birinci Baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131 do\u011frudan tan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ise \u00f6nce yeti\u015ftirdi\u011fi evlattan, b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 izden, \u00e7evresine verdi\u011fi terbiyeden tan\u0131maya ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z. Ben M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019y\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":8403,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65244","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yorum"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pc2PfJ-gYk","jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/nedim-birinci.jpg?fit=432%2C552&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65244","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=65244"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65244\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":65245,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65244\/revisions\/65245"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8403"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=65244"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=65244"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=65244"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}