{"id":65238,"date":"2026-08-08T23:05:57","date_gmt":"2026-08-08T20:05:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=65238"},"modified":"2026-08-08T23:05:57","modified_gmt":"2026-08-08T20:05:57","slug":"babam-90-yasinda-bizi-birakti-babasinin-yanina-gitti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/babam-90-yasinda-bizi-birakti-babasinin-yanina-gitti\/","title":{"rendered":"BABAM 90 YA\u015eINDA B\u0130Z\u0130 BIRAKTI, BABASININ YANINA G\u0130TT\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><em>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019n\u0131n ard\u0131ndan bir k\u0131z evlad\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcre\u011finden\u2026<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong>K\u0131ymet YILDIRIM<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 g\u00fcnler vard\u0131r, insan ne kadar konu\u015fursa konu\u015fsun s\u00f6yleyeceklerini tamamlayamaz. Baz\u0131 g\u00fcnlerde ise b\u00fct\u00fcn kelimeler anlam\u0131n\u0131 kaybeder.<\/p>\n<p>Babam M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2019y\u0131 90 ya\u015f\u0131nda ebed\u00ee yolculu\u011funa u\u011furlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fcn, benim i\u00e7in i\u015fte b\u00f6yle bir g\u00fcnd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Babam bizi b\u0131rakt\u0131 ve y\u0131llard\u0131r hasret kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 babas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131na gitti.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00f6seler k\u00f6y\u00fcn\u00fcn topra\u011f\u0131na\u2026<\/p><div id=\"bghab-916532863\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Babas\u0131 Murat dedemin yan\u0131na\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00f6m\u00fcr tamamland\u0131. Bir baba, kendi babas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131na d\u00f6nd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Biz k\u0131zlar\u0131 ve o\u011flu ise arkas\u0131ndan bakakald\u0131k.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>BU DEFA K\u00d6SELER\u2019E BA\u015eKA T\u00dcRL\u00dc GELD\u0130LER<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Babam i\u00e7in hayat boyunca K\u00f6seler\u2019e \u00e7ok insan geldi.<\/p>\n<p>Dostlar\u0131 geldi.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2733882119\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-10-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Akrabalar\u0131 geldi.<\/p>\n<p>Kom\u015fular\u0131 geldi.<\/p>\n<p>Bir i\u015fi olan geldi.<\/p>\n<p>Bir derdi olan geldi.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00e7ay\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7meye gelen oldu.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2508820612\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-15-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bir nasihat almaya gelen oldu.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bu defa gelenler ba\u015fkayd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu defa babam kimseyi kar\u015f\u0131lam\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p>Kap\u0131da beklemiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHo\u015f geldiniz\u201d demiyordu.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3143499062\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-20-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bu defa herkes babam\u0131 u\u011furlamak i\u00e7in gelmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00f6seler halk\u0131n\u0131n neredeyse tamam\u0131 cenazemizdeydi.<\/p>\n<p>Bornova\u2019dan, Kobilyane\u2019den, K\u0131rcaali\u2019den, \u015eiroko Pole\u2019den ve daha nice yerden insanlar geldi.<\/p>\n<p>Kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inde g\u00f6remedi\u011fimiz, elini s\u0131kamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, te\u015fekk\u00fcr edemedi\u011fimiz dostlar\u0131m\u0131z da oldu.<\/p>\n<p>Hepsinden Allah raz\u0131 olsun.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3102606089\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-25-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Ac\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 payla\u015fan, mezarl\u0131\u011fa kadar y\u00fcr\u00fcyen, dua eden, bir Fatiha okuyan, uzaktan telefon a\u00e7an, g\u00f6n\u00fclden yan\u0131m\u0131zda olan herkese ailemiz ad\u0131na te\u015fekk\u00fcr ediyorum.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan b\u00f6yle g\u00fcnlerde bir kez daha anl\u0131yor:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ac\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131l\u0131nca k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclm\u00fcyor belki ama insan\u0131n omuzlar\u0131ndaki y\u00fck hafifliyor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><strong>\u201cZAMANI GEL\u0130NCE K\u0130MSE \u00d6N\u00dcNDE DURAMAZ\u201d DERLERD\u0130<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fcklerimiz hep s\u00f6ylerdi:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00d6l\u00fcmden ba\u015fka her \u015feyin \u00e7aresi vard\u0131r.\u201d<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2659181916\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-30-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cVakti gelen gider.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEcel geldi\u011finde ne bir dakika ileri ne bir dakika geri\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7ken bu s\u00f6zleri duyard\u0131k ama tam anlayamazd\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Belki de anlayabilmek i\u00e7in insan\u0131n bir g\u00fcn annesini, babas\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fi birini topra\u011fa vermesi gerekiyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi daha iyi anl\u0131yorum.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2827431581\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-35-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Atalar\u0131m\u0131z baz\u0131 s\u00f6zleri bo\u015funa s\u00f6ylememi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Onlar\u0131n her c\u00fcmlesinin arkas\u0131nda y\u00fczlerce y\u0131ll\u0131k hayat tecr\u00fcbesi var.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn \u201catas\u00f6z\u00fc\u201d deyip ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz bir\u00e7ok c\u00fcmlenin i\u00e7inde asl\u0131nda bir \u00f6m\u00fcr sakl\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Babam\u0131n tabutu \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczde giderken, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerimizin o s\u00f6zleri birer birer akl\u0131ma geldi.<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ekten de \u00f6l\u00fcm geldi\u011fi zaman hi\u00e7bir makam\u0131n, hi\u00e7bir servetin, hi\u00e7bir g\u00fcc\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcnde duram\u0131yor.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3052748148\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-40-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u0130nsan ne kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olursa olsun bir g\u00fcn sessizce bu d\u00fcnyadan ayr\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>BABAMIN SON \u0130STE\u011e\u0130 YER\u0130NE GELD\u0130<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Bu yolculu\u011fun benim i\u00e7in en anlaml\u0131 taraflar\u0131ndan biri de babam\u0131n vasiyetinin yerine getirilmesiydi.<\/p>\n<p>Karde\u015fim Rafet\u2019e \u00f6zellikle te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmek istiyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Babam\u0131z\u0131n arzusunu yerine getirdi.<\/p>\n<p>Onu \u0130stanbul\u2019dan ald\u0131, do\u011fdu\u011fu topraklara, K\u00f6seler\u2019e getirdi.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2631877819\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-45-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Babam\u0131z, babas\u0131 Murat dedemizin yan\u0131na defnedildi.<\/p>\n<p>Belki bundan sonra mezarl\u0131\u011fa gitti\u011fimizde iki mezara yan yana bakaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Birinde dede\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Birinde o\u011flu\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Aralar\u0131nda y\u0131llar var.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2265591591\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-50-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Ama \u015fimdi ayn\u0131 topra\u011f\u0131n alt\u0131nda yan yanalar.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan ister istemez d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor:<\/p>\n<p>Belki Murat dedemiz bug\u00fcn o\u011flunun yan\u0131na gelmesine seviniyordur.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEvlad\u0131m geldi\u201d diyordur.<\/p>\n<p>Biz k\u0131zlar\u0131 ve o\u011flu ise:<\/p><div id=\"bghab-122987892\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-55-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cBabam\u0131z bizi b\u0131rakt\u0131\u201d diye \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Hayat bazen tam da b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey.<\/p>\n<p>Bir taraf\u0131n kavu\u015fmas\u0131, di\u011fer taraf\u0131n ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 oluyor.<\/p>\n<p>Birileri sevinirken birileri a\u011fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Bir kap\u0131 kapan\u0131rken ba\u015fka bir kap\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2855237101\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-60-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<h2><strong>B\u0130R BABA G\u0130D\u0130NCE \u00c7OCUK KA\u00c7 YA\u015eINDA OLURSA OLSUN EKS\u0130L\u0130R<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Babam 90 ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUzun ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f\u201d diyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Ama insan babas\u0131n\u0131 kaybedince ya\u015f hesab\u0131 yapam\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>90 da olsa baba babad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Evlat da ka\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131na gelirse gelsin babas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda h\u00e2l\u00e2 \u00e7ocuktur.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2373237670\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-65-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baba yaln\u0131zca bir insan de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>Baba, s\u0131rt\u0131n\u0131 yaslad\u0131\u011f\u0131n da\u011fd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u015fey oldu\u011funda \u201cBabam var\u201d diyebilmenin verdi\u011fi g\u00fcven duygusudur.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen hi\u00e7 konu\u015fmasa bile evin bir k\u00f6\u015fesinde oturmas\u0131 yeter.<\/p>\n<p>Varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmek insana g\u00fc\u00e7 verir.<\/p>\n<p>O sandalye bo\u015f kald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda insan neyin eksildi\u011fini daha iyi anl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>BUG\u00dcN KONU\u015eULACAK \u00c7OK \u015eEY KALMADI<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar hayattayken k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Dar\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck meseleleri b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n<p>Karde\u015f karde\u015fe k\u00fcsebiliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Kom\u015fu kom\u015funun y\u00fcz\u00fcne bakmayabiliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Miras i\u00e7in, para i\u00e7in, birka\u00e7 metre toprak i\u00e7in y\u0131llarca konu\u015fmayan insanlar oluyor.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat mezarl\u0131\u011fa girdi\u011finizde hepsinin ne kadar anlams\u0131z oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Orada zenginle fakir yan yana.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcd\u00fcrle i\u015f\u00e7i yan yana.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcyle g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz yan yana.<\/p>\n<p>Herkesin \u00fczerinde ayn\u0131 toprak.<\/p>\n<p>Babam\u0131n cenazesinde bir kez daha d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm:<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn art\u0131k konu\u015fulacak ne kald\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcn s\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz hangi s\u00f6z\u00fcn \u00f6nemi var?<\/p>\n<p>Hangi kavga babam\u0131 geri getirir?<\/p>\n<p>Hangi para zaman\u0131 geri d\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fcr?<\/p>\n<p>Hi\u00e7biri.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte insan\u0131n bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi mezarl\u0131\u011fa gitmeden \u00f6\u011frenebilmesi gerekir.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>BU D\u00dcNYA K\u0130MSEYE KALMIYOR<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fcklerimiz \u201cD\u00fcnya Sultan S\u00fcleyman\u2019a kalmad\u0131\u201d derler.<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ekten de kalm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Evler kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Tarlalar kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Paralar kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>E\u015fyalar kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan gidiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyunca toplad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funu geride b\u0131rak\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Yan\u0131m\u0131zda yaln\u0131zca yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n hesab\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu nedenle babam\u0131 topra\u011fa verirken benim akl\u0131mda en fazla \u015fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce vard\u0131:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130nsandan geriye mal\u0131 de\u011fil, insanlar\u0131n kalbindeki hat\u0131ras\u0131 kal\u0131yor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Birine iyilik yapt\u0131ysan o kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Bir yetimin ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ok\u015fad\u0131ysan o kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Bir kom\u015funun i\u015fine ko\u015ftuysan o kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131 k\u0131rd\u0131ysan o da kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130yilik de unutulmuyor.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck de.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>HERKES KEND\u0130NE YAKI\u015eANI YAPAR<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Hayat bana \u015funu da \u00f6\u011fretti:<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye u\u011fra\u015fmak \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bo\u015funa.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes kendi karakterinin gere\u011fini yap\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130yilik yapana iyilik yak\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yapana k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck.<\/p>\n<p>Vefal\u0131 olana vefa yak\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Nank\u00f6r olana da kendi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bu nedenle herkese bir tavsiyem var:<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 fazla kafan\u0131za takmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>B\u0131rak\u0131n, herkes kendine yak\u0131\u015fan\u0131 yaps\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Siz kendinize yak\u0131\u015fan\u0131 yap\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Size k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yap\u0131l\u0131nca siz de k\u00f6t\u00fc olmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Size vefas\u0131zl\u0131k yap\u0131l\u0131nca siz vefas\u0131zla\u015fmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda herkes kendi defterini dolduruyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ve o defter bir g\u00fcn kapan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Babam\u0131n defteri de 90 y\u0131l sonra kapand\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi onun ard\u0131ndan s\u00f6yleyece\u011fimiz en g\u00fczel \u015fey dua.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>K\u00d6SELER B\u0130R B\u00dcY\u00dc\u011e\u00dcN\u00dc U\u011eURLADI<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>O g\u00fcn yaln\u0131zca biz bir baba kaybetmedik.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00f6seler k\u00f6y\u00fc de eski ku\u015faktan bir b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc u\u011furlad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Her k\u00f6y\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen haf\u0131zalar\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00f6y\u00fcn hangi tarlas\u0131nda ne oldu, hangi aile nereden geldi, hangi yol ne zaman a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131, kim kimin d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcne gitti, kim hangi zor zamanda kimin yan\u0131nda durdu\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bunlar\u0131 kitaplardan de\u011fil, ya\u015fl\u0131lardan \u00f6\u011frenirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Onlar gittik\u00e7e bir d\u00f6nemin haf\u0131zas\u0131 da onlarla beraber gider.<\/p>\n<p>Babam M\u00fcmin A\u011fa da art\u0131k K\u00f6seler\u2019in hat\u0131ralar\u0131ndan biri oldu.<\/p>\n<p>Ama insan hat\u0131rland\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fcddet\u00e7e biraz ya\u015famaya devam ediyor.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>BABA, MURAT DEDEN\u0130N YANINDA RAHAT UYU<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u015eimdi mezarl\u0131kta baba ile o\u011ful yan yana.<\/p>\n<p>Murat dede\u2026<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcmin A\u011fa\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bir zamanlar biri di\u011ferinin elinden tutuyordu.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi ayn\u0131 topra\u011f\u0131n 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