{"id":64430,"date":"2025-09-01T10:58:31","date_gmt":"2025-09-01T07:58:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=64430"},"modified":"2025-09-01T10:58:33","modified_gmt":"2025-09-01T07:58:33","slug":"kalbimize-dusen-nasihatler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/kalbimize-dusen-nasihatler\/","title":{"rendered":"Kalbimize D\u00fc\u015fen Nasihatler"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Rfaet ULUTURK<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bazen bir s\u00f6z, y\u0131llar\u0131n tecr\u00fcbesini, bir \u00f6mr\u00fcn yolculu\u011funu i\u00e7inde bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r. Ak\u015femseddin Hazretleri\u2019nin nasihatleri tam da b\u00f6yle s\u00f6zler\u2026 Sanki y\u00fczy\u0131llar \u00f6ncesinden bug\u00fcn\u00fcn insan\u0131na yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f mektuplar gibi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cEy o\u011ful! Her i\u015fe besmele ile ba\u015fla.\u201d<br>Ne kadar sade, ama bir o kadar da derin bir \u00f6\u011f\u00fct\u2026 Bug\u00fcn biz, i\u015fe ba\u015flamadan \u00f6nce telefonumuza bak\u0131yoruz, bir bildirim geliyor, bir tela\u015f sar\u0131yor. Oysa \u201cbesmele\u201d demek; \u00f6nce dur, niyetini d\u00fczelt, kalbini toparla demek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201c\u00d6l\u00fcm\u00fc akl\u0131ndan hi\u00e7 \u00e7\u0131karma.\u201d<br>Bu c\u00fcmle ilk okundu\u011funda biraz \u00fcrk\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc gelebilir. Ama asl\u0131nda hayat\u0131 g\u00fczelle\u015ftiren bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6l\u00fcm\u00fc hat\u0131rlamak, her an\u0131n de\u011ferini bilmeyi \u00f6\u011fretir insana. Sevdiklerimize s\u0131k\u0131ca sar\u0131lmay\u0131, k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6zleri ertelememeyi, \u015f\u00fckretmeyi\u2026 \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biliyoruz ki vaktimiz s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cDaima edepli ol; ikram etti\u011fine de m\u00fctevaz\u0131 ol.\u201d<br>Edep\u2026 Belki de en \u00e7ok yitirdi\u011fimiz de\u011ferlerden biri. <br>Hep daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 isteyen, daha \u00e7ok g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek i\u00e7in \u00e7abalayan bizler; k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclmeyi, m\u00fctevaz\u0131 olmay\u0131 unuttuk. Oysa ger\u00e7ek b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fck, al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fckte gizlidir.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2669862549\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBu g\u00fcnden yar\u0131n\u0131n tasas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekme.\u201d<br>Ah ne kadar tan\u0131d\u0131k geliyor de\u011fil mi? Hepimizin cebinde bir endi\u015fe ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u00e7a\u011fday\u0131z. <br>Yar\u0131n ne olacak, i\u015fler yoluna girecek mi, \u00e7ocuklar nas\u0131l b\u00fcy\u00fcyecek? Ama o der ki; \u201cbug\u00fcn sana verilmi\u015f en k\u0131ymetli nimettir.\u201d Belki de yar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekten, bug\u00fcn\u00fcn g\u00fczelliklerini \u0131skal\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ak\u015femseddin Hazretleri\u2019nin s\u00f6zleri sadece ge\u00e7mi\u015fe ait de\u011fil, <br>asl\u0131nda kalbimize yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f evrensel hakikatler. Hepimizin ihtiyac\u0131 olan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hat\u0131rlatmalar\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Belki bug\u00fcn sofrada otururken, belki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ok\u015farken, belki de bir dostumuza halini sorarken bu nasihatleri hat\u0131rlamal\u0131y\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat, asl\u0131nda bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck anlar\u0131n toplam\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve unutmayal\u0131m: G\u00fczel s\u00f6z, g\u00fczel bir hayat\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 aralar.<\/p>\n<div id=\"bghab-1524472321\" class=\"bghab-yazi-altinda bghab-entity-placement\"><div class=\"bghab-adlabel\">Reklamlar<\/div><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- bghaber-yaz\u0131-sonu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"4222328180\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rfaet ULUTURK Bazen bir s\u00f6z, y\u0131llar\u0131n tecr\u00fcbesini, bir \u00f6mr\u00fcn yolculu\u011funu i\u00e7inde bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r. Ak\u015femseddin Hazretleri\u2019nin nasihatleri tam da b\u00f6yle s\u00f6zler\u2026 Sanki y\u00fczy\u0131llar \u00f6ncesinden bug\u00fcn\u00fcn insan\u0131na yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":29,"featured_media":61309,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-64430","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yorum"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/rafet-kuppa.jpg?fit=462%2C470&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pc2PfJ-gLc","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64430","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/29"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=64430"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64430\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/61309"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=64430"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=64430"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=64430"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}