{"id":63664,"date":"2025-02-11T23:47:53","date_gmt":"2025-02-11T20:47:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=63664"},"modified":"2025-02-11T23:47:53","modified_gmt":"2025-02-11T20:47:53","slug":"hayatin-sifresi-iyiler-ve-kotuler-diye-bir-ayrim-var-mi-yok-mu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/hayatin-sifresi-iyiler-ve-kotuler-diye-bir-ayrim-var-mi-yok-mu\/","title":{"rendered":"Hayat\u0131n \u015eifresi: \u0130yiler ve K\u00f6t\u00fcler Diye Bir Ayr\u0131m Var m\u0131, Yok mu?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Raziye \u00c7AKIR<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">D\u00fcnya \u00e7o\u011fu zaman iyiler ve k\u00f6t\u00fcler diye ikiye ayr\u0131lm\u0131\u015f gibi anlat\u0131l\u0131r. Masallarda prensesi kurtaran kahraman hep iyidir, ejderha ise k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr. Filmlerde bile i\u015fler basittir: Beyaz \u015fapkal\u0131lar ve siyah \u015fapkal\u0131lar. Ama ger\u00e7ek hayatta bu kadar net mi? Belki de as\u0131l soru \u015fu: <\/span><\/span><em><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">D\u00fcnyada ger\u00e7ekten iyiler ve k\u00f6t\u00fcler var m\u0131, yoksa bu ayr\u0131m\u0131 biz mi yarat\u0131yoruz?<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Farkl\u0131 bir a\u00e7\u0131dan bakarsak, iyilik ve k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck asl\u0131nda g\u00f6receli kavramlar. Birine g\u00f6re kahraman olan bir ki\u015fi, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131na g\u00f6re d\u00fc\u015fman olabilir. Tarih boyunca bunu defalarca g\u00f6rd\u00fck. \u00d6rne\u011fin, bir lider kendi halk\u0131 i\u00e7in kurtar\u0131c\u0131 olabilirken, ba\u015fka bir millet i\u00e7in zalim bir fig\u00fcr haline gelebilir. Yani, bu kadar keskin \u00e7izgiler \u00e7izmek, olaylar\u0131 anlamland\u0131rma \u015feklimiz olabilir ama ger\u00e7e\u011fi yans\u0131tmayabilir.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Dahas\u0131, iyilik ve k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck birer kimlik de\u011fil, birer durum olabilir. Hi\u00e7 kimse do\u011fu\u015ftan tamamen iyi ya da k\u00f6t\u00fc de\u011fildir. Hepimiz zaman zaman iyi davran\u0131\u015flar sergiler, bazen de hatalar yapar\u0131z. Bu, insan olman\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. As\u0131l mesele, s\u00fcrekli iyi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek de\u011fil, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hatalar\u0131 fark edip telafi edebilmek. Belki de hayattaki en tehlikeli insanlar, kendini &#8220;tamamen iyi&#8221; g\u00f6renlerdir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu insanlar hatalar\u0131n\u0131 fark etmez, kendilerini sorgulamazlar. Oysa insan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck iyili\u011fi, kendi eksiklerini g\u00f6rebilmesinde yatar.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Bir de i\u015fin ba\u015fka bir boyutu var: K\u00f6t\u00fc olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz insanlar ger\u00e7ekten k\u00f6t\u00fc m\u00fc, yoksa ko\u015fullar m\u0131 onlar\u0131 \u00f6yle olmaya itti? Bir h\u0131rs\u0131z\u0131n hikayesini dinledi\u011finizde, belki de a\u00e7l\u0131k, \u00e7aresizlik ya da ba\u015fka bir zorlukla kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenirsiniz. Bu, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmaz ama anlamam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar. Belki de iyilik ve k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck, insanlar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 ko\u015fullar\u0131n ve verdikleri tepkilerin bir sonucudur.<\/span><\/span><\/p><div id=\"bghab-3471648030\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Sonu\u00e7 olarak, belki de hayat\u0131n \u015fifresi, d\u00fcnyay\u0131 iyiler ve k\u00f6t\u00fcler olarak ikiye ay\u0131rmaktan vazge\u00e7mektir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 tek bir davran\u0131\u015fa g\u00f6re yarg\u0131lamak yerine, onlar\u0131n hikayelerini dinlemek, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 zorluklar\u0131 anlamak ve empati kurmak, bize daha ger\u00e7ek bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 kazand\u0131r\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc nihayetinde hepimiz ayn\u0131 denklemin par\u00e7alar\u0131y\u0131z ve belki de iyilik, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmekten \u00e7ok, onlar\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakla ba\u015flar.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"bghab-1859445699\" class=\"bghab-yazi-altinda bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- bghaber-yaz\u0131-sonu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"4222328180\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Raziye \u00c7AKIR D\u00fcnya \u00e7o\u011fu zaman iyiler ve k\u00f6t\u00fcler diye ikiye ayr\u0131lm\u0131\u015f gibi anlat\u0131l\u0131r. Masallarda prensesi kurtaran kahraman hep iyidir, ejderha ise k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr. Filmlerde bile i\u015fler<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":61476,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-63664","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yorum"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pc2PfJ-gyQ","jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/raziye-cakir.jpg?fit=436%2C520&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63664","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=63664"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63664\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/61476"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=63664"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=63664"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=63664"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}