{"id":63202,"date":"2025-01-05T17:49:26","date_gmt":"2025-01-05T14:49:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=63202"},"modified":"2025-01-05T17:49:59","modified_gmt":"2025-01-05T14:49:59","slug":"kendimizi-duzeltmeden-cocuklarimizi-egitemeyiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/kendimizi-duzeltmeden-cocuklarimizi-egitemeyiz\/","title":{"rendered":"Kendimizi D\u00fczeltmeden \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 E\u011fitemeyiz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p align=\"left\"><strong>Raziye \u00c7AKIR<\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z gelece\u011fimizdir; bu, herkesin kabul etti\u011fi bir ger\u00e7ektir.<br \/>\nAncak onlar\u0131n nas\u0131l bir d\u00fcnyada b\u00fcy\u00fcyecekleri, kim olacaklar\u0131 ve nas\u0131l bir karakter geli\u015ftirecekleri, yaln\u0131zca onlara verdi\u011fimiz e\u011fitimle de\u011fil, bizim kim oldu\u011fumuzla \u015fekillenir.<br \/>\n\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 e\u011fitmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken \u00e7o\u011fu zaman en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatay\u0131 yapar\u0131z: Kendimizi unuturuz.<br \/>\nHalbuki \u00e7ocuklar, s\u00f6ylediklerimizden \u00e7ok yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00f6\u011frenir. Bu y\u00fczden \u00f6nce kendimizi d\u00fczeltmeliyiz.<br \/>\n\u00c7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek, kelimelerle de\u011fil, \u00f6rnek olmakla m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olur.<br \/>\nSab\u0131r, empati, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck gibi de\u011ferleri \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za \u00f6\u011fretmek istiyorsak, \u00f6nce bunlar\u0131 hayat\u0131m\u0131za yerle\u015ftirmemiz gerekir. \u00d6rne\u011fin, \u00e7ocu\u011funuza &#8220;D\u00fcr\u00fcst ol&#8221; dedi\u011finiz bir an\u0131n ard\u0131ndan bir yalan s\u00f6yledi\u011finizi fark ederse, hangi ders onun zihninde kal\u0131c\u0131 olur? S\u00f6zleriniz mi, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131? Tabii ki davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z.<br \/>\n\u00c7ocuklar, yeti\u015fkinlerin aynas\u0131d\u0131r ve bu aynaya ne yans\u0131t\u0131rsan\u0131z, ileride onun bir yans\u0131mas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Peki, kendimizi d\u00fczeltmek ne demektir?<br \/>\n\u00d6ncelikle kendimize \u015fu sorular\u0131 sormal\u0131y\u0131z: Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda hangi de\u011ferleri \u00f6nemsiyoruz ve bu de\u011ferleri davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zda ne kadar yans\u0131t\u0131yoruz? Ele\u015ftiriyi kabul ediyor muyuz? \u00d6fke kontrol\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc sa\u011fl\u0131yor muyuz?<br \/>\n\u0130nsanlarla olan ili\u015fkilerimizde sayg\u0131l\u0131 ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst davranabiliyor muyuz?<br \/>\n\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za iyi bir hayat sunmak istiyorsak, bu sorularla y\u00fczle\u015fip eksiklerimizi gidermek zorunday\u0131z.<br \/>\nUnutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun karakteri, evdeki atmosferde \u015fekillenir.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Aile i\u00e7inde sevgi ve sayg\u0131 varsa, bu \u00e7ocu\u011fa sirayet eder.<br \/>\nAncak s\u00fcrekli kavga, \u00f6fke veya ilgisizlik i\u00e7inde b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir \u00e7ocuk, bu olumsuz atmosferden etkilenir.<br \/>\nOnlara verebilece\u011fimiz en b\u00fcy\u00fck miras, g\u00fcvenilir bir rehberliktir.<br \/>\nBunun i\u00e7in de kendi hayat\u0131m\u0131za ve ili\u015fkilerimize \u00e7eki d\u00fczen vermeliyiz.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Baz\u0131 ebeveynler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na s\u00fcrekli nasihat ederek, onlar\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 kontrol etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<br \/>\nAncak \u00e7ocuklar \u00fczerinde kurulan bu bask\u0131, onlar\u0131n geli\u015fimini engeller.<br \/>\nBunun yerine onlara \u00f6rnek olacak bir ya\u015fam tarz\u0131 sunmal\u0131y\u0131z.<br \/>\n\u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, sorumluluk ve sevgiyi \u00f6nce kendi hayat\u0131m\u0131zda uygulamal\u0131y\u0131z ki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z da bunlar\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenebilsin.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p><div id=\"bghab-3463986993\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Sonu\u00e7 olarak, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 e\u011fitmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktan \u00f6nce kendimizi e\u011fitmeliyiz.<br \/>\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar bizim aynalar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.<br \/>\nE\u011fer adil, sevgi dolu ve bilin\u00e7li bireyler olmalar\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsak, \u00f6nce bu \u00f6zelliklere sahip birer yeti\u015fkin olmal\u0131y\u0131z.<br \/>\nUnutmayal\u0131m, de\u011fi\u015ftirebilece\u011fimiz tek insan kendimizdir ve bu de\u011fi\u015fim, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n gelece\u011fini \u015fekillendirir.<br \/>\n\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za daha iyi bir gelecek sunman\u0131n yolu, kendi eksiklerimizi g\u00f6r\u00fcp d\u00fczeltmekten ge\u00e7er.<br \/>\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z bizi dinlemekten \u00e7ok, bizi izlerler.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"bghab-3529546284\" class=\"bghab-yazi-altinda bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- bghaber-yaz\u0131-sonu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"4222328180\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Raziye \u00c7AKIR \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z gelece\u011fimizdir; bu, herkesin kabul etti\u011fi bir ger\u00e7ektir. Ancak onlar\u0131n nas\u0131l bir d\u00fcnyada b\u00fcy\u00fcyecekleri, kim olacaklar\u0131 ve nas\u0131l bir karakter geli\u015ftirecekleri, yaln\u0131zca onlara<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":61476,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-63202","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yorum"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pc2PfJ-gro","jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/raziye-cakir.jpg?fit=436%2C520&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63202","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=63202"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63202\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/61476"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=63202"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=63202"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=63202"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}