{"id":4872,"date":"2013-08-12T15:07:32","date_gmt":"2013-08-12T12:07:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=4872"},"modified":"2019-07-18T00:43:34","modified_gmt":"2019-07-17T22:43:34","slug":"insanlar-ve-aralarindaki-iliskilere-dair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/insanlar-ve-aralarindaki-iliskilere-dair\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130nsanlar ve aralar\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkilere dair"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hayat\u0131 ve ya\u015fam\u0131, insanlar\u0131 ve aralar\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkileri tart\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flarsak kalemler t\u00fckenir, ka\u011f\u0131tlar yetmez i\u00e7imizdekileri ifade edebilmek i\u00e7in. \u0130nsano\u011flu, do\u011fumundan \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne kadar \u00e7e\u015fitli, bir o kadar da zor s\u0131navlardan ge\u00e7mektedir. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Ya\u015fam denilen kavram\u0131 bir mevsime benzetirsek, hepimizin s\u0131cak ve kavuran yazlar\u0131, bir o kadar da so\u011fuk ve \u0131ss\u0131z k\u0131\u015flar\u0131 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyebiliriz. Dallar\u0131 k\u0131r\u0131k bir a\u011fa\u00e7 haline d\u00f6neriz bazen; bazen de yol ortas\u0131nda kalan \u00e7aresiz bir \u00e7ocuk oluruz. Yapraklar\u0131m\u0131z d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcr, kurur ve savrulur teker teker uzak diyarlara; g\u00f6n\u00fcller g\u00fcl\u00fcverirken etrafa mutlu g\u00f6zlerle, ans\u0131z\u0131n karanl\u0131k \u00e7\u00f6ker a\u011f\u0131r bir sis perdesiyle ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131za. Yan\u0131m\u0131zda, g\u00fcvenebilece\u011fimiz bir dostumuzun olmas\u0131n\u0131 isteriz; bir s\u0131cak el ve ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yaslayabilece\u011fimiz bir omuz bulmakt\u0131r amac\u0131m\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ac\u0131y\u0131 ve tatl\u0131y\u0131, sevinci ve h\u00fczn\u00fc payla\u015f\u0131nca engeller kolayca atlat\u0131l\u0131r kan\u0131s\u0131nday\u0131zd\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n

Birlikte g\u00fcl\u00fcp, s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z kahkahalar att\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z; en zor anlarda birlikte a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z s\u0131rda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z vard\u0131r hepimizin. Bir tatl\u0131 s\u00f6ze hasret kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda hep en yak\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 aramaz m\u0131 g\u00f6zlerimiz; hep sevgiye ve sayg\u0131ya a\u00e7 de\u011fil midir g\u00f6n\u00fcllerimiz? Yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve \u00e7aresizli\u011fin alt\u0131nda her g\u00fcn yava\u015f yava\u015f ezilmemek i\u00e7in yard\u0131m\u0131na ko\u015ftu\u011fumuz insanlarsa ne yaz\u0131k ki ellerimizi b\u0131rak\u0131p, birlikte yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ta\u015fl\u0131 yollar\u0131n tam ortas\u0131na b\u0131rak\u0131rlar bizi; tam en beklemedi\u011fin, belki de en mutlu oldu\u011fun ya da deste\u011fe en \u00e7ok ihtiyac\u0131n oldu\u011fu anda, usulca yan\u0131ndan ayr\u0131l\u0131rlar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bir han\u00e7er saplanm\u0131\u015f kadar ac\u0131r can\u0131n, k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r kalbin, g\u00f6nl\u00fcn ise \u00f6ks\u00fcz kal\u0131r. Zamanla hafifler ac\u0131lar\u0131n, azal\u0131r isyanlar\u0131n, kelimelerin ise t\u00fckenir… Susmay\u0131 tercih edersin! Gidenin ard\u0131ndan g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 d\u00f6kmezsin, al\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n yoklu\u011funa. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00fcstat Necip Faz\u0131l K\u0131sak\u00fcrek\u2019in de dedi\u011fi gibi \u201cA\u011fa\u00e7tan d\u00fc\u015fen yaprak nas\u0131l kurumaya mahkumsa; g\u00f6n\u00fclden d\u00fc\u015fen insan da unutulmaya mahkumdur!\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

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