{"id":36910,"date":"2019-06-02T10:38:56","date_gmt":"2019-06-02T07:38:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=36910"},"modified":"2019-06-22T01:02:29","modified_gmt":"2019-06-21T22:02:29","slug":"islamda-kabir-ziyareti-ve-onemi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/islamda-kabir-ziyareti-ve-onemi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130slam&#8217;da Kabir Ziyareti ve \u00d6nemi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Tarih: 02.06.2019<br \/>\nYazan: Nevzat \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK<br \/>\n\u0130lahiyat\u00e7\u0131, E\u011fitimci Yazar<br \/>\n<\/strong><strong>\u00a0Konu:\u00a0<\/strong>Ka\u00adbir\u00adle\u00adri zi\u00adya\u00adret et\u00admek, ora\u00adda bu\u00adlu\u00adnan\u00adla\u00adra se\u00adl\u00e2m ve\u00adrip du\u00e2 ve is\u00adti\u011f\u00adfar\u00adda bu\u00adlun\u00admak, on\u00adlar ad\u0131\u00adna ha\u00ady\u0131r\/ha\u00adse\u00adn\u00e2t ya\u00adp\u0131p Kur\u2019\u00e2n ti\u00adl\u00e2\u00advet et\u00admek, mev\u00adt\u00e2\u00adlar (\u00f6l\u00fcler) i\u00e7in bir rah\u00admet ve\u00ads\u00ee\u00adle\u00adsi\u00addir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ras\u00fblullah<\/strong>\u00a0(s.av) <strong>Efendimiz<\/strong>\u00a0\u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015flard\u0131r:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201c\u00d6l\u00fcm\u00fc \u00e7ok\u00e7a hat\u0131rlay\u0131n! \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc hat\u0131rlamak, (insan\u0131) g\u00fcnahlardan ar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r, d\u00fcnyaya kar\u015f\u0131 z\u00e2hid k\u0131lar. E\u011fer zenginken \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrseniz, sizi zenginli\u011fin \u00e2fetlerinden korur. Fakirken tefekk\u00fcr ederseniz, hayat\u0131n\u0131zdan memnun olman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar.\u201d<\/em>\u00a0(S\u00fcy\u00fbt\u00ee,\u00a0<em>C\u00e2miu\u2019s-Sa\u011f\u00eer<\/em>, I, 47) <em>\u201c\u00d6l\u00fcm\u00fc ve \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra ceset ve kemiklerin \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcmesini hat\u0131rlay\u0131n! \u00c2hiret hayat\u0131n\u0131 isteyen, d\u00fcnya hayat\u0131n\u0131n s\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc terk eder.\u201d<\/em>\u00a0(Tirmiz\u00ee, K\u0131y\u00e2met, 24) <em>\u201c\u2026Kim \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc \u00e7ok\u00e7a hat\u0131rlarsa Allah onu sever.\u201d<\/em>\u00a0(Heysem\u00ee, X, 325) <em>\u201cB\u00fct\u00fcn zevkleri k\u00f6k\u00fcnden yok eden \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc \u00e7ok\u00e7a hat\u0131rlay\u0131n\u0131z.\u201d\u00a0<\/em>(Tirmiz\u00ee, K\u0131y\u00e2met, 26)<\/p>\n<p>Bu sebeple bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman, her g\u00fcn bir m\u00fcddet \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc tefekk\u00fcr ederek, ruhlar\u0131na m\u00e2nev\u00ee zindelik kazand\u0131r\u0131r. Zira nefis ve \u015feytan\u0131n asili\u011fe sevkinin engellenmesi ve ruh d\u00fcnyam\u0131z\u0131n olgunla\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek(tefekk\u00fcr\u00fc mevt) m\u00fcstesn\u00e2 bir ves\u00eeledir. Bu tefekk\u00fcrden ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00e2nev\u00ee zindelikle m\u00fc\u2019min, yanl\u0131\u015f ve bo\u015f i\u015flerden sak\u0131n\u0131r, daima faydal\u0131 i\u015fler yapmaya ve bol bol s\u00e2lih ameller i\u015flemeye gayret eder.<\/p>\n<p>Riv\u00e2yete g\u00f6re\u00a0<strong>Hazret-i Ali<\/strong>\u00a0(r.a.) kabirleri s\u0131k\u00e7a ziyaret ederdi. Bir g\u00fcn ona: \u201c<em>Nedir bu h\u00e2lin ey Ali, kabirleri kom\u015fu edindin?<\/em>!\u201d dediler. O da \u015fu cevab\u0131 verdi: \u201c<em>Onlar\u0131n s\u00e2d\u0131k kom\u015fular oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rd\u00fcm! Zira hi\u00e7bir k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yapm\u0131yorlar ve (h\u00e2lleriyle bizlere ibret dersi vererek d\u00e2im\u00e2) \u00e2hireti hat\u0131rlat\u0131yorlar!<\/em>\u201d (\u0130bn-i Eb\u00ee \u015eeybe,\u00a0<em>Musannef<\/em>, VII, 102\/34514)<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2740136067\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u0130slam alimleri, gafletten kurtulup \u00f6m\u00fcr nimetini, s\u00e2lih amellerle de\u011ferlendirebilmemiz ve her daim hamd, \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr ve r\u0131z\u00e2 h\u00e2linde, huzurlu bir kulluk hayat\u0131 ya\u015fayabilmemiz i\u00e7in, \u015fu tavsiyelerde bulunurlar:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cZaman zaman\u00a0<strong>hastahane<\/strong>lere giderek hastalar\u0131 ziyaret et! O muzdaripler gibi hastal\u0131klara m\u00fcptel\u00e2 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00fczerindeki s\u0131hhat n\u00eemetini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek h\u00e2line \u015f\u00fckret!<\/p>\n<p>Zaman zaman\u00a0<strong>hapishane<\/strong>lere giderek oradaki mahk\u00fbmlar\u0131n binbir \u0131zt\u0131rapla dolu zindan hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 tefekk\u00fcr et! Cin\u00e2yetlerin bir anl\u0131k \u00f6fke veya cinnet neticesinde i\u015flendi\u011fini, di\u011fer taraftan mazlum olarak hapse d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp o cef\u00e2ya katlananlar\u0131n da bulundu\u011funu, onlar\u0131n yerinde kendinin de olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn! Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2 seni bu h\u00e2le d\u00fc\u015fmekten muh\u00e2faza etti\u011fi i\u00e7in O\u2019na \u015f\u00fckret! Oradakilerin sel\u00e2meti i\u00e7in de du\u00e2 et!<\/p>\n<p>Sonra\u00a0<strong>kabristan<\/strong>lara git, oradaki mezar ta\u015flar\u0131ndan h\u00e2l lis\u00e2n\u0131yla y\u00fckselen sessiz feryatlar\u0131 dinle! \u00d6m\u00fcr n\u00eemetini kaybettikten sonra pi\u015fman olman\u0131n bir fayda vermeyece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn! Vakitlerinin k\u0131ymetini bil! Mezarda yatanlar i\u00e7in du\u00e2 ve isti\u011ff\u00e2r et! Ve bundan sonraki g\u00fcnlerini daha \u00e7ok hamd, \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr ve zikir ile de\u011ferlendirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Hak\u00eekaten, insana \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc ve \u00e2hireti d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcren en g\u00fczel ves\u00eele, kabir ziyaretidir.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-4008546320\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-10-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>Ras\u00fblullah<\/strong>\u00a0<strong>Efendimiz<\/strong>\u00a0\u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur: <em>\u201cBen size kabir ziyaretini yasaklam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m\u2026 Art\u0131k ziyaret edebilirsiniz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kabir ziyareti size \u00e2hireti hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.\u201d<\/em>\u00a0(Tirmiz\u00ee, Cen\u00e2iz, 60; Bkz. M\u00fcslim, Cen\u00e2iz, 106)<\/p>\n<p>Peygamber Efendimiz n\u00fcb\u00fcvvetinin (Peygamberli\u011fin) ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131nda, kabir ziyaretini, tekrar \u015firke d\u00f6n\u00fclmesi tehlikesinden dolay\u0131 yasaklam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Zira c\u00e2hiliye za\u00adma\u00adn\u0131n\u00adda in\u00adsan\u00adlar, ec\u00addat\u00adla\u00adr\u0131\u00adna \u00e2it ruh\u00adla\u00adr\u0131n kud\u00adsi\u00adyet ka\u00adzan\u00add\u0131\u00ad\u011f\u0131\u00adn\u0131 d\u00fc\u00ad\u015f\u00fc\u00adn\u00fcr ve \u00f6l\u00fclerinin \u00e7oklu\u011funu \u00f6ne s\u00fcr\u00fcp kavimlerinin b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcyle \u00f6v\u00fcnmek i\u00e7in ka\u00adbir zi\u00adya\u00adre\u00adtin\u00adde bu\u00adlu\u00adnur\u00adlar\u00add\u0131. Efendimiz (s.a.v.), bu c\u00e2\u00adhi\u00adli\u00adye \u00e2de\u00adtin\u00adden bir eser kal\u00adma\u00adma\u00ads\u0131 i\u00e7in, ilk za\u00adman\u00adlar ka\u00adbir zi\u00adya\u00adre\u00adti\u00adni yasaklam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Fakat \u0130sl\u00e2m kuvvet bulup \u00eeman ve tevhid kalplere iyice yerle\u015ftikten sonra, art\u0131k mezarlara tap\u0131nma, onlardan bir medet umma ve onlara kudsiyet atfetme endi\u015fesine mahal kalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, Efendimiz kabir ziyaretlerine izin vermi\u015f ve hatt\u00e2 bunu te\u015fvik etmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<p>Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc,\u00a0<strong>Bak\u00ee Kabristan\u0131<\/strong>\u2019ndaki ash\u00e2b\u0131n\u0131 ve\u00a0<strong>Uhud \u015fehidleri<\/strong>ni s\u0131k s\u0131k ziyaret ederdi.\u00a0<strong>Hazret-i \u00c2i\u015fe<\/strong>\u00a0v\u00e2lidemizin if\u00e2desine g\u00f6re, Efendimiz kendisinin yan\u0131nda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 her gecenin son k\u0131sm\u0131nda Bak\u00ee Kabristan\u0131\u2019na gider, oradakilere sel\u00e2m verip du\u00e2 ederdi ( M\u00fcslim, Cen\u00e2iz, 102.).<\/p>\n<p>Hatt\u00e2 bir gece\u00a0<strong>Cebr\u00e2il<\/strong>\u00a0(r.a.) Peygamber Efendimiz\u2019e gelip: <em>\u201cRabbin Bak\u00ee ehline gidip onlar i\u00e7in isti\u011ff\u00e2r etmeni emrediyor!\u201d<\/em>\u00a0buyurmu\u015ftur. Efendimiz de hemen bu emre ic\u00e2bet edip\u00a0<strong>Cennet\u00fc\u2019l-Bak\u00ee<\/strong>\u2019yi ziyaret etmi\u015ftir. (M\u00fcslim, Cen\u00e2iz, 103)<\/p>\n<p>Yine Hazret-i Peygamber r ash\u00e2b-\u0131 kir\u00e2ma, kabristana gittikleri zaman \u015f\u00f6yle demelerini \u00f6\u011fretirdi: <em>\u201cSel\u00e2m size, ey bu diy\u00e2r\u0131n m\u00fc\u2019min ve m\u00fcslim halk\u0131! \u0130n\u015f\u00e2allah yak\u0131nda biz de aran\u0131za kat\u0131laca\u011f\u0131z. All\u00e2h\u2019\u0131n bizi de sizi de ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamas\u0131n\u0131 dilerim.\u201d<\/em>\u00a0(M\u00fcslim, Cen\u00e2iz, 104)<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3926308981\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-15-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bir m\u00fc\u02bcmin de kabristana gitti\u011finde, \u00f6nce kabir halk\u0131na sel\u00e2m vermeli, onlar i\u00e7in du\u00e2 etmeli, m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca Kur\u02bc\u00e2n okumal\u0131 ve bir g\u00fcn kendisinin de onlar gibi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tefekk\u00fcr etmelidir.<\/p>\n<p>Kabir \u00fczerine Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem okuman\u0131n me\u015fr\u00fbiyyeti hususunda b\u00fct\u00fcn ulem\u00e2 kesin bir kanaate varm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Kabir ziyaretlerinde Kur\u2019\u00e2n okumak, 1400 senedir tatbik edilen bir\u00a0<strong>icm\u00e2<\/strong>d\u0131r (\u0130cma: \u0130sl\u00e2m \u00e2limlerinin bir konuda ittifak etmeleridir). Kur\u2019\u00e2n ti\u00adl\u00e2\u00adve\u00adtiyle h\u00e2s\u0131l olan il\u00e2\u00adh\u00ee rah\u00admet\u00adten mevt\u00e2lar\u0131n da is\u00adti\u00adf\u00e2\u00adde\u00adsi i\u00e7in bil\u00adhas\u00adsa Y\u00e2\u00ads\u00een-i \u015ee\u00adr\u00eef okumak, her\u00adke\u00adsin bil\u00addi\u00ad\u011fi bir us\u00fbl\u00add\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Kabir ziyareti, \u0130sl\u00e2m\u00ee edep esaslar\u0131na ri\u00e2yet ederek \u00a0icr\u00e2 edildi\u011finde pek \u00e7ok hayra ves\u00eeledir. Zira \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc tefekk\u00fcr neticesinde nefislerin ihtiras\u0131n\u0131n(h\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131n) k\u0131r\u0131laca\u011f\u0131, insan\u0131n daha \u00e7ok Allah\u2019a hakiki manada kul olmaya \u00a0y\u00f6nelip daha yumu\u015fak\/merhametli kalbe sahip olaca\u011f\u0131 ve d\u00fcnyada ebedi(kal\u0131c\u0131) ed\u00e2s\u0131yla dola\u015fma gafletinden sak\u0131naca\u011f\u0131 muhakkakt\u0131r. Kabristanlar, her insan\u0131n kendi istikb\u00e2lini g\u00f6steren bir ayna gibidir. \u0130nsan bu aynaya s\u0131k s\u0131k ve ibret nazar\u0131yla bakabilirse, hayat\u0131n\u0131 bo\u015f hevesler pe\u015finde ziyan etmekten de uzak durur. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla kabir ziyaretleri, \u00f6l\u00fcme ve \u00e2hirete haz\u0131rlanma gayretinin en g\u00fczel ves\u00eelesidir.<\/p>\n<p>Bunun i\u00e7indir ki ecdad\u0131m\u0131z, kabristanlar\u0131 bilhassa c\u00e2mi \u00f6nlerine ve \u015fehir i\u00e7lerine yapm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Bu s\u00e2yede, oradan gelip ge\u00e7en insanlar\u0131n, hem \u00f6l\u00fclere Fatiha okuyup rahmete vesilesi olmalar\u0131n\u0131, hem de kendi istikballerini seyredip \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc daha \u00e7ok tefekk\u00fcr etmelerini temin etmi\u015flerdir.<\/p>\n<p>Di\u011fer taraftan, ka\u00adbir zi\u00adya\u00adretinde b\u00e2\u00adz\u0131 yan\u00adl\u0131\u015f tav\u0131rlardan da titizlikle sak\u0131nmak gerekir: Mesel\u00e2 ka\u00adbir\u00adle\u00adrin ba\u00ad\u015f\u0131n\u00adda mum yak\u00admak, \u00e7a\u00adput ba\u011f\u00adla\u00admak ve do\u011f\u00adru\u00addan do\u011f\u00adru\u00adya o ka\u00adbir\u00adde ya\u00adtan zattan medet ummak gi\u00adbi\u2026 Asl\u00e2 unutmamak gerekir ki, kabirde yatan kimse ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck bir z\u00e2t olursa olsun, onun \u015fahs\u0131ndan bir \u015fey istenmemelidir. Onun Hak kat\u0131ndaki k\u0131ymet ve hat\u0131r\u0131 vesilesiyle, yine Allah\u02bctan istenmelidir.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1926567914\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-20-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendisinden bir \u015fey istenecek olan yeg\u00e2ne merci, f\u00e2il-i mutlak(diledi\u011fini, diledi\u011fi zaman yapabilen, g\u00fc\u00e7 ve kudret sahibi) olan Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak\u02bct\u0131r. O dilemedik\u00e7e hi\u00e7bir kul, hi\u00e7bir hayr\u0131 meydana getiremez, hi\u00e7bir \u015ferri de defedemez. Bu y\u00fczden, Allah dostlar\u0131n\u0131n\/salih zatlar\u0131n g\u0131yab\u0131nda veya kabirlerini ziyaret esnas\u0131nda;\u00a0<strong><em>\u201cEy fil\u00e2n z\u00e2t! Bana \u015fif\u00e2 ver! Benim \u015fu ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131 gider!\u201d<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0gibi cahilce s\u00f6zlerle, do\u011frudan do\u011fruya onlardan talepte bulunmak, \u015firke kap\u0131 aralayabilecek derecede b\u00fcy\u00fck bir yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Son derece \u00a0hassas olan tevhid inanc\u0131n\u0131 zedeleyebilecek bu ve benzeri s\u00f6zlerden titizlikle sak\u0131nmak gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Madd\u00ee\/m\u00e2nev\u00ee s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n \u00a0halledilmesinde, k\u00e2in\u00e2t\u0131n sevk ve idaresinde, Allah\u2019tan ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n mutlak tasarrufunun bulunabilece\u011fi izlenimini veren her t\u00fcrl\u00fc ifadeden \u015fiddetle ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Gaflet veya ceh\u00e2letleri sebebiyle ucu \u015firke varan davran\u0131\u015flarda bulunanlar\u0131 ikaz etmek, her m\u00fc\u02bcminin vazifesidir. Fakat bu husustaki a\u015f\u0131\u00adr\u0131\u00adl\u0131k\u00adla\u00adra kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak ad\u0131na, \u0130sl\u00e2m\u00ee edebe riayete ederek yap\u0131lan ka\u00adbir zi\u00adya\u00adre\u00adtleri\u00adni de \u201c\u015firk\u201d sa\u00adya\u00adcak ka\u00addar ile\u00adri gi\u00adden\u00adler, bu hatan\u0131n bir benzerini ter\u00adsin\u00adden or\u00adta\u00adya koy\u00admu\u015f olmak\u00adta\u00add\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130s\u00adl\u00e2m, her me\u00adse\u00adle\u00adde ol\u00addu\u00ad\u011fu gi\u00adbi ka\u00adbir zi\u00adya\u00adre\u00adti hu\u00adsu\u00adsun\u00adda da \u00eeti\u00add\u00e2li esas al\u00adm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Pey\u00adgam\u00adber Efendimiz\u00a0 ve as\u00adh\u00e2b\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6z ve fiilleri, bu hu\u00adsus\u00adta if\u00adrat ve tef\u00adri\u00adte ka\u00e7madan na\u00ads\u0131l dav\u00adra\u00adn\u00admak ge\u00adrekti\u00ad\u011fi\u00adnin en g\u00fczel \u00f6rne\u011fidir.<\/p>\n<p>Kabir \u00a0ziyareti, kabirdeki insana Kur\u2019an okumak veya dua yapman\u0131n \u00f6tesinde daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015feydir. \u0130nsan mezarl\u0131\u011fa gidince topra\u011f\u0131n alt\u0131ndaki ile fiziken yakla\u015f\u0131yor, duygu d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda hemh\u00e2l oluyor, hat\u0131ralar\u0131na dal\u0131yor; ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bayram iklimine mezardaki annesini, babas\u0131n\u0131, dedesini, halas\u0131n\u0131 manen d\u00e2hil ediyor. B\u00f6ylece fiziki \u00e2lemdeki bayram bulu\u015fmas\u0131ndaki eksikler duygu d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n gayretiyle tamamlanm\u0131\u015f oluyor. Kimi hayatta kimi mezarda olsa da aile bayram\u0131n o ne\u015fe ikliminde bir araya geliyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk gen\u00e7lik y\u0131llar\u0131mda, arefeden ba\u015flayarak Ramazan ve Kurban Bayram\u0131 g\u00fcnlerinde insanlar\u0131n mezarl\u0131klara ko\u015fturarak y\u0131llar \u00f6nce defnettikleri akrabalar\u0131n\u0131n kabirlerini ziyarete gitmelerini tuhaf bulurdum. A\u00e7\u0131ktan seslendirmesem de \u201cHayatta olanlarla do\u011fru d\u00fcr\u00fcst bayramla\u015fm\u0131yorsunuz, ko\u015farak buralara geliyorsunuz.\u201d \u015feklinde s\u00f6ylendi\u011fim olurdu. Bana g\u00f6re insanlar, bayramla\u015fman\u0131n gere\u011fini yapm\u0131yorlar, kom\u015fu ve akrabalar\u0131yla gerekti\u011fi \u015fekilde bayramla\u015fm\u0131yorlar ama mezarda cans\u0131z yatanlarla bayramla\u015fmaya gidiyorlard\u0131. Bu bir tezat de\u011fil miydi? \u00a0B\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcm.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-45858553\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-25-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Ya\u015f\u0131m ilerledik\u00e7e bayram g\u00fcnlerinde insanlar\u0131n mezarl\u0131klara ko\u015farak gitmesini tuhaf kar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131\u015f\u0131ma dair d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin beni terk etti\u011fini anlad\u0131m. O ziyaretler makul, gerekli, do\u011fru gelmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Ben de herkes gibi her bayramda kendimi mezarl\u0131kta bulmaya, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131 da mezarl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.\u00a0 Ya\u015f\u0131m k\u0131rk\u0131 ge\u00e7ip annemi kaybettikten sonraki bayramlarda, insanlar\u0131n yo\u011fun \u015fekilde mezarl\u0131klara ko\u015fturmas\u0131n\u0131n anlam\u0131 ben de iyiden iyiye de\u011fi\u015fti. \u0130nsanlar do\u011fru bir \u015fey yap\u0131yorlard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Has\u0131l\u0131 de\u011ferli dostlar, Arefe g\u00fcn\u00fc, Bayram g\u00fcnleri gelin kabirleri ziyaret edelim. Kur\u2019an okuyal\u0131m, dualar yapal\u0131m. Bunu yaparken \u201c\u00f6lmeden \u00f6nce \u00f6lebilmeyi\u201d deneyelim. Kabir ziyaretini sadece kabirdekiler a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan de\u011fil, her an \u201ckabire girmeye aday\u201d nefsimiz a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan de\u011ferlendirelim ve tefekk\u00fcr edelim. Kabir ziyaretlerine giderken \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da g\u00f6t\u00fcrerek onlara bu d\u00fcnyan\u0131n fanili\u011fini anlatal\u0131m. Anlatal\u0131m ki, d\u00fcnyevi h\u0131rslar\u0131 ile d\u00fcnyay\u0131 bize zindan etmesinler.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcm ge\u00e7mi\u015flerimize, ahirete irtihal eden \u00f6l\u00fclerimize rahmet diliyorum. Rabbim merhameti ile muamele eylesin.<\/p>\n<p>Allah\u2019a emanet olun\u2026\u00a0 \u00a0Sayg\u0131 ve selamlar\u0131mla.<\/p>\n<p>Dostlar\u0131n\u0131zla payla\u015fmay\u0131 unutmay\u0131n\u0131z<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1631732747\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-30-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"bghab-1074797269\" class=\"bghab-yazi-altinda bghab-entity-placement\"><div class=\"bghab-adlabel\">Reklamlar<\/div><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- bghaber-yaz\u0131-sonu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"4222328180\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tarih: 02.06.2019 Yazan: Nevzat \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK \u0130lahiyat\u00e7\u0131, E\u011fitimci Yazar \u00a0Konu:\u00a0Ka\u00adbir\u00adle\u00adri zi\u00adya\u00adret et\u00admek, ora\u00adda bu\u00adlu\u00adnan\u00adla\u00adra se\u00adl\u00e2m ve\u00adrip du\u00e2 ve is\u00adti\u011f\u00adfar\u00adda bu\u00adlun\u00admak, on\u00adlar ad\u0131\u00adna ha\u00ady\u0131r\/ha\u00adse\u00adn\u00e2t ya\u00adp\u0131p Kur\u2019\u00e2n ti\u00adl\u00e2\u00advet<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":31811,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36910","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yorum"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/nevzat-hoca-r.jpg?fit=640%2C640&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pc2PfJ-9Bk","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36910","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=36910"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36910\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31811"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36910"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36910"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=36910"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}