{"id":32113,"date":"2018-08-22T22:22:30","date_gmt":"2018-08-22T19:22:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=32113"},"modified":"2018-08-22T22:22:30","modified_gmt":"2018-08-22T19:22:30","slug":"eski-bayramlari-geri-getirin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/eski-bayramlari-geri-getirin\/","title":{"rendered":"Eski Bayramlar\u0131\u00a0Geri Getirin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nevzat \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK<\/p>\n<p>Eskiden bayramd\u0131; \u015fimdi ise sadece tatil. Bayramlar \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7indi de, biz mi b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck? Yoksa ger\u00e7ekten de kaybetti\u011fimiz de\u011ferlerin arkas\u0131ndan \u00fcz\u00fclmekten ba\u015fka \u00e7aremiz mi yok? Siz de derin bir ah \u00e7ekip, &#8220;Nerede o eski bayramlar&#8221; diyenlerdenseniz, biraz hat\u0131rlayal\u0131m, biraz da hat\u0131rlatal\u0131m istedik&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Bayram denilince hep o eski bayramlar gelir akla. Dedelerimiz nerde o esk\u0131 bayramlar derdi babalar\u0131m\u0131z da ve bug\u00fcn de diyoruz nerede o esk\u0131 bayramlar diye. O bayramlarda de\u011fi\u015fik ve g\u00fczel olan ve \u00f6zlem duydu\u011fumuz o bayramlarda ne vard\u0131 acaba? Evet, o eski bayramlar nerede\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nceden var olan ve \u015fimdi de yok olmaya ba\u015flayan adetlerden \u015funlar\u0131 sayabiliriz: \u00d6nceden annelerimiz de\u011fi\u015fik de\u011fi\u015fik tatl\u0131lar yaparlard\u0131, geleneksel bayram tatl\u0131s\u0131 da \u015f\u00fcphesiz baklavad\u0131r. Her aile ferdi kom\u015fu ve akraba ziyaretlerine giderdi. Kap\u0131larda da g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc bekleyen nineler vard\u0131, bayram\u0131n\u0131 kutlayan bu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 bekleyen nine de \u00e7ocuklara \u015feker verirdi. \u00c7ocuklar da ne\u015feli ne\u015feli ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n ellerini \u00f6perdi ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k olarak birer \u015feker veya az miktarda para al\u0131rlard\u0131. Fakat, maalesef art\u0131k bu adetleri g\u00f6remiyoruz. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 bayram g\u00fcn\u00fcnde daha az g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz ve \u00e7ocuklar da bu bayrama daha az sevinmektedir. Bayram her \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in erken erken kalkmak, yeni e\u015fya giymek ve en yak\u0131n kom\u015fu ve akrabalar\u0131 ziyaret etmek demekti.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi de art\u0131k bu eski heyecanlar ya\u015fanm\u0131yor? Aile ortamda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bayramlar art\u0131k sadece hat\u0131ralar\u0131m\u0131zda kald\u0131. O g\u00fcnlerde herkesin birbirine verecek bir \u015feyi vard\u0131 mutlaka: Sevgisi, g\u00fcler y\u00fcz\u00fc, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcs\u00fc\u2026K\u00fcsler de mutlaka bayramda bar\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Fakat art\u0131k bunlardan eser kalmad\u0131\u2026 Her bayramda eski bayramlar\u0131 \u00f6zlemekteyiz\u2026<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2177289102\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Fakat, burada bir soru akl\u0131m\u0131za geliyor: Bayramlar m\u0131 kendi g\u00fczelliklerini yitirmi\u015ftir yoksa biz mi bayram sevin\u00e7lerimizi yitirdik? Ne dersiniz? Bu eski bayramlar ya\u015fanmamakta art\u0131k\u2026\u0130nsan bazen bayram olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlam\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Her bayram yakla\u015f\u0131rken dile getirilen ge\u00e7mi\u015fe \u00f6zlemi, biraz da serzeni\u015fi anlatan \u201cNerede o eski bayramlar\u201d sorusu, zaman i\u00e7inde bayramlar\u0131n b\u00fcr\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc farkl\u0131 anlamlar\u0131 ortaya koyuyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bayram\u0131n isminde ve duygular\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015fim olmasa da \u00f6zellikle b\u00fcy\u00fck kentlerde \u201deski\u201d ve \u201dyeni\u201d bayramlar aras\u0131ndaki belirgin farklar, her ki\u015fiye g\u00f6re farkl\u0131l\u0131k, \u00e7e\u015fitlilik g\u00f6stermekle birlikte, genel hatlar\u0131yla \u015f\u00f6yle s\u0131ralan\u0131yor:<\/p>\n<p>Eski bayramlarda, haz\u0131rl\u0131klar, tatl\u0131 bir tela\u015fla g\u00fcnler \u00f6ncesinden ba\u015flard\u0131. Evlerde bayram temizlikleri yap\u0131l\u0131r, hal\u0131lardan perdelere her \u015fey y\u0131kan\u0131r, bayramda mis gibi koksun diye b\u00fct\u00fcn ev havaland\u0131r\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130kram edilecek \u201dbayram\u0131n tad\u0131\u201d tatl\u0131lar, pastahaneden haz\u0131r al\u0131nmaz, sini sini baklavalar ve b\u00f6rekler ile yaprak sarmalar\u0131, kay\u0131s\u0131 ve erik ho\u015faflar\u0131 evde haz\u0131rlan\u0131rd\u0131. Bayramda geni\u015f aile sofralar\u0131 kurulurdu.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-479089324\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-10-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Kaybedilen yak\u0131nlar bayramlarda unutulmaz, arife g\u00fcn\u00fc mezarlar\u0131 ziyaret edilerek dualar okunur, mezarlar\u0131n etraf\u0131 temizlenip \u00e7i\u00e7ekleri sulan\u0131rd\u0131.K\u00fcsk\u00fcnl\u00fcklere son verilir, darg\u0131nlar bar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.El \u00f6penler daha \u00e7oktu, ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131 daha fazla \u00e7al\u0131n\u0131rd\u0131 ve hen\u00fcz apartman dairelerine ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in pencerelerden \u00e7ocuk sesleri duyulurdu. B\u00fct\u00fcn mahalleli birbiriyle bayramla\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Ziyaret edilemeyen yak\u0131nlar\u0131n bayram\u0131 telefonla ya da elektronik postayla de\u011fil, i\u00e7ine birka\u00e7 foto\u011fraf konulmu\u015f kartpostallar g\u00f6nderilerek kutlan\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bayram sabah\u0131 top at\u0131\u015f\u0131 yap\u0131larak, bayram\u0131n geldi\u011fi m\u00fcjdelenirdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin, akrabalar\u0131n kucaklar\u0131nda ya\u015fanan sevgiydi eski bayramlar.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdiki gibi her g\u00fcn \u201ddu\u015f alma\u201d f\u0131rsat\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6zellikle arife g\u00fcn\u00fcnden banyo yap\u0131l\u0131r, bayraml\u0131klar \u00fct\u00fclenir, muhakkak yata\u011f\u0131n ba\u015fucuna konur, hatta birka\u00e7 kez yerlerinde duruyor mu diye kontrol edilir, yeni elbiselere mutlulukla bak\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1730706983\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-15-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Bayram sabah\u0131 erkenden sevin\u00e7le, co\u015fkuyla kalk\u0131l\u0131r, yeni elbiseler, potinler giyilirdi. Eskiden \u00e7ocuklar yeni bir giysi ya da oyuncak istedi\u011finde \u201dBayrama az kald\u0131\u201d denirdi, \u015fimdiki gibi \u00e7ocuklar ne isterse hemen al\u0131nmazd\u0131. Belki de bu y\u00fczden bayraml\u0131klar daha bir k\u0131ymetlenirdi.<\/p>\n<p>Erkek \u00e7ocuklar babalar\u0131yla, dedeleriyle bayram namaz\u0131na giderdi. Sabah erkenden kalk\u0131lan ama uykuyu alamam\u0131\u015f bile olsa hi\u00e7 \u201dm\u0131zm\u0131zlanmadan\u201d gidilen bayram namazlar\u0131 sonras\u0131 t\u00fcm aile b\u00fcy\u00fckten k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011fe s\u0131rayla bayramla\u015f\u0131r, hediyeler, har\u00e7l\u0131klar verilir, ard\u0131ndan \u00f6zenle haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015f kahvalt\u0131 sofras\u0131na oturulurdu.<\/p>\n<p>Kahvalt\u0131dan sonra hemen soka\u011fa \u00e7\u0131k\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Kap\u0131 kap\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn kom\u015fular, akrabalar, nineler, dedeler ziyaret edilir, elleri \u00f6p\u00fcl\u00fcr, g\u00f6n\u00fclleri ho\u015f edilirdi. B\u00fcy\u00fckler de \u00e7ocuklara har\u00e7l\u0131k, \u015feker, mendil verirdi. Hatta bol har\u00e7l\u0131k veren kom\u015fu, di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklara haber verilir, o kom\u015funun bayram boyunca kap\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00e7ocuklar eksik olmazd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ceplerinin doldu\u011funu bilen seyyar sat\u0131c\u0131lar bile s\u0131r\u0131m gibi giyinir, sokakta horoz \u015fekeri, macun, pamuk helva satard\u0131. Mahalle bakkal\u0131ndan Arap k\u0131z\u0131 sak\u0131z\u0131, biraz sonraki d\u00f6nemlerde \u201dTipitip\u201d sak\u0131zlar al\u0131n\u0131r, laklaklar, \u00e7atapatlar, mantar, maytap, torpiller \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sevin\u00e7 seslerine kar\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bilgisayar ba\u015f\u0131nda yaln\u0131z oynanan oyunlar yerine sokakta akranlarla \u00e7elik \u00e7omak, misket, kuyu kazmaca, kovalamaca, dokuz kiremit, saklamba\u00e7, evcilik oynan\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1628420174\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-20-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u015eehrin belirli meydanlar\u0131na bayram \u00e7ad\u0131rlar\u0131 kurulur, g\u00f6steriler d\u00fczenlenir, Karag\u00f6z-Hacivat oynat\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ezc\u00fcmle, herkesin \u201dNerede o eski bayramlar\u201d derken hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 an\u0131lar farkl\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6sterse de eski bayramlara dair ortak hisler, ya\u015fam al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131, geli\u015fen teknolojiyle birlikte de\u011fi\u015fen insanlar\u0131n, elektronik ortamda \u201dy\u00fcz y\u00fcze s\u0131cakl\u0131ktan\u201d uzakla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00f6n\u00fcnde. Ve g\u00f6r\u00fcnen o ki, biraz eskiye \u00f6zlem ,az biraz da toplumlar\u0131 \u201dho\u015f\u201d k\u0131lan baz\u0131 geleneklerin etkisini yitirmesine duyulan serzeni\u015fi i\u00e7eren \u201dNerede o eski bayramlar\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc l\u00fcgatlardan hi\u00e7 \u00e7\u0131kmayacak.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde, \u00f6zellikle de yo\u011fun i\u015f temposu nedeniyle bayramlar tatil ya da dinlenme f\u0131rsat\u0131 olarak de\u011ferlendiriliyor. \u201d\u00c7ekirdek aile\u201dnin h\u0131s\u0131m akraba ziyaretleri yapmak yerine tatile \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 ve bu y\u00fczden de el \u00f6penlerin azalmas\u0131 sonucu b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin bayramlar\u0131 daha bir \u201dburuk\u201d ge\u00e7iyor.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201dApartman hayat\u0131\u201dyla birlikte kom\u015fusunun kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 belki de hi\u00e7 \u00e7almayan \u201d\u015fehirliler\u201d, bayramlarda kom\u015fu ziyaretlerini de neredeyse unutur oldu.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-882725538\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-25-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Ziyaret edilemeyen yak\u0131nlara i\u00e7inde foto\u011fraflar\u0131n oldu\u011fu kartpostal g\u00f6ndermenin yerini, telefonla ya da elektronik postayla yap\u0131lan bayramla\u015fmalar ald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zellikle b\u00fcy\u00fck kentlerde ya\u015fayan \u00e7ocuklar, mahallede kap\u0131 kap\u0131 dola\u015f\u0131p bayramla\u015fmak, toplad\u0131klar\u0131 har\u00e7l\u0131klarla ald\u0131klar\u0131 oyuncaklarla hep birlikte oynamak yerine, bayram\u0131 bilgisayar ba\u015f\u0131nda ve televizyon kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ge\u00e7iriyor.<\/p>\n<p>Yeni al\u0131nan g\u0131c\u0131r g\u0131c\u0131r bayraml\u0131klar, \u00e7ocuklarda eski heyecan\u0131 yaratm\u0131yor, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n her istedi\u011fi anne babalar taraf\u0131ndan hemen al\u0131n\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Bayram\u0131n ziyaret yerine tatil ve dinlenme konseptine b\u00fcr\u00fcnmesiyle, evlerde haz\u0131rlanan bayram tatl\u0131lar\u0131 da yerini \u201dev tipi haz\u0131r tatl\u0131lara\u201d b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Eskilerde Bayram, \u00f6zlemle beklenen bulu\u015fma, \u015f\u00f6leni.Eski Bayramlarda;<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2007505697\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-30-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<ol>\n<li>Bayram; tatile gitmek de\u011fil, ziyaret etmek demekti.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>E\u015f, dost, akraba, kom\u015fu ziyaretleri yap\u0131l\u0131r, iade-i ziyaretler beklenirdi.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li>Bayramda anneanne,babaanne demek ,el \u00f6pmek dua almak demekti.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Mis gibi \u00fct\u00fclenmi\u015f, kolalanm\u0131\u015f, tertemiz mendiller torunlar i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlan\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li>Ayn\u0131 k\u0131yafetlerle bayrama girilmezdi mesela, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bayram; yeni pabu\u00e7lar demekti evvela&#8230;Arife gecesi yeni pabu\u00e7larla beraber uyunurdu, annenin t\u00fcm k\u0131zmalar\u0131na ald\u0131rmadan, gizlice&#8230;<\/li>\n<li>Sabah erkenden kalk\u0131l\u0131r, bayraml\u0131klar giyilir, ailecek bayramla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r, sofraya oturulurdu.<\/li>\n<li>Kahvalt\u0131 sofras\u0131ndan kalkar kalkmaz, solu\u011fu mahallede al\u0131rd\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar&#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Mahalleli haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yapard\u0131 \u00f6nceden. Bozuk paralar, \u015fekerler kap\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda haz\u0131r bekletilirdi.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li>Sokakta haz\u0131r beklerdi bayram sal\u0131nca\u011f\u0131, g\u0131c\u0131r g\u0131c\u0131r sesi duyuldu mu, ko\u015far s\u0131raya girerdi \u00e7ocuklar&#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>D\u00fcnyan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck lunapark\u0131na gitmi\u015f kadar e\u011flenirlerdi. \u00d6yle jetonla, elektrikle falan de\u011fil, sadece sal\u0131ncak\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcyle \u00e7al\u0131\u015facak kadar da samimiydi, bizdendi; seyyar sal\u0131ncak.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"7\">\n<li>Seyyar sal\u0131ncaktan inen \u00e7ocuklar, \u00e7atapat, k\u0131zka\u00e7\u0131ran cephanelerini toplar, sokaklarda &#8220;fii\u00e7uuuyyyvv&#8221; sesleri yank\u0131lan\u0131rd\u0131.<\/li>\n<li>Pamuk helvac\u0131, ka\u011f\u0131t helvac\u0131, baloncu, elma \u015fekerci, macuncu beklerdi her soka\u011f\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda&#8230;<\/li>\n<li>Seyyar foto\u011fraf\u00e7\u0131lar gezinirdi bayram yerinde. Yepyeni bayraml\u0131klar\u0131yla hat\u0131ra foto\u011fraf\u0131 \u00e7ektirirdi insanlar.<\/li>\n<li>Bayramdan g\u00fcnler \u00f6nce at\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131 tebrik kartlar\u0131, postaneler dolar ta\u015fard\u0131.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Sevgililer, hediyelerini, mektuplar\u0131n\u0131 arac\u0131larla elden g\u00f6nderirlerdi gizlice. Sabr\u0131 olan telefon s\u0131ras\u0131 beklerdi, 1 dakika sesini duyabilmek i\u00e7in.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-875583520\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-35-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<ol start=\"11\">\n<li>Samimiyetsiz toplu bayram mesajlar\u0131ndan \u00f6nce, el \u00f6pmeler vard\u0131.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Hatta k\u00f6y yerlerinde el \u00f6p\u00fcl\u00fcr, topluca bayramla\u015f\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"12\">\n<li>Kolonyalar doldurtulurdu mahallenin kolonyac\u0131s\u0131ndan&#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Herkesin kendi kolonya \u015fi\u015fesi olurdu, en haval\u0131 kristalinden&#8230;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"13\">\n<li>Misafire T\u00fcrk kahvesi ikram edilirken, yan\u0131nda lik\u00f6r ve badem \u015fekeri unutulmazd\u0131.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Kahveler, tatl\u0131 sohbetlere vesile olurdu&#8230;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"14\">\n<li>Kom\u015fuda pi\u015fen mutlaka size de d\u00fc\u015ferdi&#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Kom\u015fuluk vard\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc. Yan yana kap\u0131larda yedi\u011finiz i\u00e7ti\u011finiz ayr\u0131 gitmesin diye payla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r, kom\u015funun taba\u011f\u0131 asla bo\u015f g\u00f6nderilmezdi geri.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"15\">\n<li>Bayram da ekmek \u00e7\u0131kmazd\u0131; f\u0131r\u0131nlar, bile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmazd\u0131.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Benim k\u00f6y\u00fcmde bayram inan\u0131lmaz ge\u00e7erdi.Arefe g\u00fcn\u00fc k\u00f6yl\u00fc toplan\u0131r &#8220;davet&#8221; denilen &#8220;ke\u015fkek&#8221; yap\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7in i\u015f b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc yapar derhal haz\u0131rl\u0131klara ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.Kimi tereya\u011f, kimi tuz, kimi g\u00fcndeme getirir.K\u00f6y meydan\u0131nda ate\u015fler yak\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131 .\u00dczerine konulan kocaman kazanlarda ke\u015fkek k\u0131s\u0131k ate\u015fte pi\u015fmeye ba\u015flard\u0131.Ke\u015fkek pi\u015ferken k\u00f6yl\u00fc \u00e7e\u015fitli geleneksel oyunlarla e\u011flenirdi.Bayram sabah\u0131na kadar gece boyunca \u015f\u00f6len s\u00fcrerdi.Bayram sabah\u0131 \u00e7ocuklarla camiye gidilirdi Camiye gidenler ceplerinde yemek ka\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve ellerinde bir kapla giderlerdi.Bayram namaz\u0131 sonras\u0131 cami avlusunda ke\u015fkek ikram\u0131 yap\u0131l\u0131r, evlere g\u00f6t\u00fcrmek i\u00e7in kaplar doldurulurdu.Herkes birbiriyle bayramla\u015f\u0131r, topluca mezarlar ziyaret edilirdi.Eve d\u00f6n\u00fcnce \u00f6nce e\u015fler birbiriyle bayramla\u015f\u0131p, birbirlerinin ellerini \u00f6per kucakla\u015f\u0131rlard\u0131.Sonra b\u00fct\u00fcn aile bayramla\u015f\u0131rd\u0131.Sonra Kurban kesilir, eti da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131r.G\u00fcn boyunca akrabalar ziyaret edilirdi. \u00c7ocuklar doyas\u0131ya e\u011flenirdik.Bayram samimi ve i\u00e7ten kutlan\u0131rd\u0131.Bayramlar tazelenmeye vesile olurdu.Bayram yak\u0131nla\u015fmaya, kayna\u015fmaya vesile olurdu.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2656067803\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-40-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u015eimdilerde de\u011ferlerimizi, geleneklerimizi, samimiyetini kaybetmeye ba\u015flad\u0131k.Eski bayramlara\u00a0 \u00f6zlem devam ediyor.<\/p>\n<p>Eski an\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z; ama en az onlar kadar sevgi dolu bayramlar dileriz&#8230;<\/p>\n<div id=\"bghab-3622509917\" class=\"bghab-yazi-altinda bghab-entity-placement\"><div class=\"bghab-adlabel\">Reklamlar<\/div><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- bghaber-yaz\u0131-sonu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"4222328180\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nevzat \u00d6ZT\u00dcRK Eskiden bayramd\u0131; \u015fimdi ise sadece tatil. Bayramlar \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7indi de, biz mi b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck? Yoksa ger\u00e7ekten de kaybetti\u011fimiz de\u011ferlerin arkas\u0131ndan \u00fcz\u00fclmekten ba\u015fka \u00e7aremiz mi<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":25531,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32113","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yorum"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Nevzat.jpg?fit=184%2C194&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pc2PfJ-8lX","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32113","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32113"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32113\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25531"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32113"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32113"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32113"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}