{"id":16054,"date":"2015-09-02T16:31:23","date_gmt":"2015-09-02T13:31:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=16054"},"modified":"2015-09-02T16:51:56","modified_gmt":"2015-09-02T13:51:56","slug":"ogullar-babalari-gibi-olmak-mi-ister-acaba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/ogullar-babalari-gibi-olmak-mi-ister-acaba\/","title":{"rendered":"O\u011fullar babalar\u0131 gibi olmak ister mi acaba?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" height=\"300\" width=\"276\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Gulizar-276x300.jpg?resize=276%2C300\" alt=\"Gulizar\" \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>G\u00fclizar MERC\u0130MEK<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Devaml\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fen d\u00fcnyada bir de de\u011fi\u015fen hayat var. Onu y\u00fczen bir gemi olarak kabul etti\u011fimizde kaderci oluyoruz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc son hedef olan son durak her defas\u0131nda ayn\u0131d\u0131r. Gidi\u015fi k\u00fcrek \u00e7ekerek ve d\u00fcmenle y\u00f6nlendirirsek o zaman kaderin i\u015fine kar\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f oluruz. Ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelen \u201c<strong>B\u00fcy\u00fck G\u00f6\u00e7<\/strong>\u201d gibi sosyal facialara halk\u0131m\u0131z \u201c<strong>kaderde o da varm\u0131\u015f<\/strong>\u201d derken avunuyor. Hayat \u0131rma\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u015felalesinden d\u00fc\u015ferken, sa\u011fa sa\u011fal\u0131m kald\u0131k. \u201c<strong>Burada da yiyecek ekme\u011fimiz varm\u0131\u015f<\/strong>\u201d ise, ay\u0131n yazg\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015fka bir ayar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Hayat yolunu nesillerin yuvarlanarak ilerlemesi olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. D\u0131\u015fardan iten biri yoksa sanki herkes ayn\u0131 h\u0131zla yuvarlan\u0131yor. Evden i\u015fe, i\u015ften eve uzayan bir yol. Gidi\u015fi bir \u00e7ember olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde, dededen babaya ve gen\u00e7lere ge\u00e7en bir benzerlik var. Hayat sanki nesiller de\u011fi\u015ftik\u00e7e kendini ayn\u0131 monotonlu\u011fa teslim ediyor. Yeni zamana ayak uydurmak zor ama her \u015feyden fazla gerekli! S\u00fcrekli geri bakarak ileri y\u00fcr\u00fcyemeyiz.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p><div id=\"bghab-3494592768\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Olaya vatan\u0131m\u0131z Bulgaristan\u2019\u0131 unutma ya da unutmama a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda<\/p>\n<p><strong>B\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde Ben De Senin Gibi Olmak \u0130stiyorum Baba <\/strong>\u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcne sapland\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Bulgaristan\u2019da ve T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de y\u0131llar y\u0131l\u0131 par\u00e7alanm\u0131\u015f ya\u015fayan bizleri anlat\u0131yor. Kimimiz orada kimimiz burada veya bamba\u015fka bir yerde, beraberli\u011fimiz hem son derece gerekli, hem git gide daha zor oluyor. A\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fckler var. Gurbet hende\u011fini mutlaka a\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131z. Y\u00fcrek olarak, ruh ve umut olarak hep beraber olmak zorunday\u0131z.\u00a0 Bizi ay\u0131ran, ayr\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcren, birbirimizden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rmak isteyen g\u00fc\u00e7leri neye mal olursa olsun yenmeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Hik\u00e2yemiz \u015fudur:<\/p><div id=\"bghab-2667091005\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-10-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn, \u00e7ocu\u011fum do\u011fdu. O d\u00fcnyaya geldi\u011finde, yeti\u015fmeme gereken i\u015flere\u00a0ve \u00f6demem gereken faturalarla me\u015fguld\u00fcm. \u0130\u015fin biri bitti derken yeni bir \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131 ve b\u00f6ylece zaman\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 t\u00fcketti\u011fimizin fark\u0131nda bile de\u011fildik.<\/p>\n<p>O\u011fulum ben uzaklardayken y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyi \u00f6\u011frendi, konu\u015fmay\u0131 da \u00f6yle.<\/p>\n<p>Ve biraz b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, \u201c<strong>Senin gibi olmak istiyorum baba<\/strong>\u201d demeye ba\u015flad\u0131. \u201c<strong>Ben de b\u00fcy\u00fcnce senin gibi olaca\u011f\u0131m<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fyerine telefon a\u00e7\u0131p \u201c<strong>Baba, eve ne zaman geleceksin<\/strong>?\u201d diye sorard\u0131 ikide bir. \u201c<strong>Ne zaman gelece\u011fimi bilmiyorum o\u011fulum. Ama geldi\u011fimde g\u00fczel vakit ge\u00e7irece\u011fimizden emin olabilirsin<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1921801525\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-15-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Y\u0131llar \u00f6ylece ge\u00e7ip gitti. Oylum 10 ya\u015f\u0131na geldi. Ona g\u00fczel bir top ald\u0131m. \u201c<strong>Top i\u00e7in te\u015fekk\u00fcrler baba!<\/strong>\u201d dedi, \u201c<strong>Hadi oynayal\u0131m<\/strong>!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Bu hafta sonu, tamamlanmas\u0131 gereken i\u015flerim var<\/strong>\u201d dedim. \u201c<strong>Bug\u00fcn olmaz haftaya tamam m\u0131<\/strong>?\u201d \u201c<strong>Tamam<\/strong>\u201d dedi, fakat y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme eksilmedi. \u201c<strong>B\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce baba\u201d <\/strong>dedi, \u201c<strong>ben de senin gibi olmak istiyorum<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0131llar b\u00f6yle ge\u00e7ip gitti. O\u011fulum \u00f6nce ilkokuldan, sonra liseden, sonra da \u00fcniversiteden mezun oldu. Bu durumda, ba\u015fka bir\u00e7ok baba gibi, benim de s\u00f6ylemem gereken bir \u015feyler vard\u0131. \u201c<strong>Seninle gurur duyuyorum o\u011fulum<\/strong>\u201d dedim. \u201c<strong>Gel \u015f\u00f6yle biraz otural\u0131m, sana diyeceklerim var<\/strong>.\u201d Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sallad\u0131 ve g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek: \u201c<strong>Arkada\u015flara s\u00f6z\u00fcm var baba<\/strong>\u201d dedi. \u201c<strong>Sen araban\u0131n anahtarlar\u0131n\u0131 verebilir misin baba? Sonra g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcz, oldu mu<\/strong>?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0131llar \u00f6ylece gelip ge\u00e7ti. Emekli oldum. Art\u0131k bol bol vaktim vard\u0131. O\u011flum ise, ba\u015fka bir \u015fehirde iyi bir i\u015f bulmu\u015ftu, orada ya\u015f\u0131yordu. Bir g\u00fcn ona telefon ettim: \u201c<strong>E\u011fer sence de uygunsa, hafta sonu buraya gel de hasret giderelim<\/strong>\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSevinirim baba\u201d dedi. \u201c<strong>Bir bakay\u0131m, m\u00fcsait bir vakit bulabilirsem, gelirim. Ama \u015fu s\u0131rada \u00e7ok yo\u011funum. Fakat seninle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeyi ben de istiyorum, baba<\/strong>\u201d dedi.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1702437042\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-20-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Peki, ne zaman gelirsin o\u011flum<\/strong>?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Ne zaman olur vimliyorum, baba. \u015eimdi bir i\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmem var, ona yeti\u015fmem gerek. Sonra arar\u0131m seni. Geldi\u011fimde birlikte g\u00fczel vakit ge\u00e7irece\u011fimizden emin olabilirsin<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ve telefonu kapatt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda o\u011flumun \u00e7ocukluk hayalini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi\u011fini anlad\u0131m. \u00c7ocukluk hayalini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi\u011fini\u2026 \u00d6rnek ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 babas\u0131na benzedi\u011fini\u2026 B\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce t\u0131pk\u0131 babas\u0131 gibi oldu\u011funu\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte b\u00f6yle, biz de, nas\u0131l da\u011f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, nas\u0131l parampar\u00e7a oldu\u011fumuzu, bir gidenin bir daha y\u0131llarca geri d\u00f6nemedi\u011fini, evden ka\u00e7\u0131p gidenleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fck\u00e7e kalbim duruyor, kafam zonkluyor.<\/p>\n<p>Sofya\u2019da bir arkada\u015f\u0131m, \u201c<strong>Ar\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k<\/strong>\u201d kitab\u0131 terc\u00fcme etmi\u015f. Herkesin anlayabilece\u011fi bir dille anlat\u0131rken, anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 asl\u0131nda ar\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k de\u011fil, tek bir ar\u0131n\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck kovanda ya\u015fasa bile bal yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131, yapamayaca\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fi. Da\u011f\u0131lan soylar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n da eski g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc kaybetti\u011fi, birbirini g\u00f6rmeyen g\u00f6zlerin gitgide yabanc\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Tek ar\u0131l\u0131 bir kovan etraf\u0131nda en g\u00fczel \u00e7i\u00e7ekler de a\u00e7sa, be\u015f para etmez. Kovan ailedir, soydur, k\u00fclt\u00fcrd\u00fcr, i\u015f b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcd\u00fcr, gelenektir, h\u00fcrmettir, kavgad\u0131r evet bir ailedir, bal gibi tatl\u0131 bir ya\u015fay\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imidir. Ar\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7i\u00e7ek polenlerini kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmadan toplamas\u0131, renkleri birbirine asla kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmamas\u0131, \u201cbuket bal\u201d kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n bizim icraat\u0131m\u0131z oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek bile, yukar\u0131daki hik\u00e2yemize d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde, \u015fu ko\u015fu\u015fturmal\u0131 ya\u015famda devaml\u0131 d\u00fczen bozdu\u011fumuza bir kan\u0131tt\u0131r.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-1836849141\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-25-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Devir d\u00f6n\u00fcyor. G\u00f6\u00e7ler bizi yurdumuzdan s\u00f6kerken asl\u0131nda bu devresel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn kurallar\u0131n\u0131, zaman kesimini, ahlak\u0131n\u0131 vs tamamen bozarak de\u011fi\u015ftirdi.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00f6y mezarl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011framayal\u0131 ka\u00e7 y\u0131l oldu?<\/p>\n<p>Kimsenin unutulmak i\u00e7in ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131na inanm\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n<p>Herkesin her i\u015finin de\u011ferli oldu\u011funa inanmak istiyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Yeni bir yola a\u00e7\u0131lmak hevesiyle yola devam, diyorum.<\/p><div id=\"bghab-800043221\" class=\"bghab-icerik-icine-30-paragraf bghab-entity-placement\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6203283170189293\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7303146466\" \ndata-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"bghab-2824579212\" class=\"bghab-yazi-altinda bghab-entity-placement\"><div class=\"bghab-adlabel\">Reklamlar<\/div><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- bghaber-yaz\u0131-sonu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"4222328180\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>G\u00fclizar MERC\u0130MEK \u00a0 Devaml\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fen d\u00fcnyada bir de de\u011fi\u015fen hayat var. Onu y\u00fczen bir gemi olarak kabul etti\u011fimizde kaderci oluyoruz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc son hedef olan son<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":16060,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16054","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yorum"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/Gulizar.jpg?fit=1272%2C1384&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pc2PfJ-4aW","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16054","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16054"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16054\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16060"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16054"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16054"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16054"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}