{"id":15096,"date":"2015-06-01T15:45:55","date_gmt":"2015-06-01T12:45:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/?p=15096"},"modified":"2015-06-01T15:45:55","modified_gmt":"2015-06-01T12:45:55","slug":"gurbetci-anne-ve-babalar-cocuklarini-skype-uzerinden-yetistiriyorlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/gurbetci-anne-ve-babalar-cocuklarini-skype-uzerinden-yetistiriyorlar\/","title":{"rendered":"Gurbet\u00e7i anne ve babalar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 Skype \u00fczerinden yeti\u015ftiriyorlar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>1 Haziran Uluslararas\u0131 \u00c7ocuk G\u00fcn\u00fc \u00fclkede her d\u00f6rt \u00e7ocuktan biri, annesi taraf\u0131ndan Skype \u00fczerinden selamlan\u0131p \u00f6p\u00fclecek. \u0130leti\u015fim a\u011f\u0131, yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bulunan ebeveynler i\u00e7in sadece bayramla\u015fmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 terbiye etmek i\u00e7in de tek ara\u00e7 durumundad\u0131r. Bulgaristan okullar\u0131nda 5. ile 11. s\u0131n\u0131f aras\u0131ndaki \u00f6\u011frencilerin y\u00fczde 26\u2019s\u0131n\u0131n bir veya her iki ebeveyni, yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. UN\u0130CEF finansman\u0131 ile \u201cRisk Monitor\u201d vakf\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan d\u00fczenlenen ara\u015ft\u0131rmadan al\u0131nan sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 proje \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan uzmanlardan Petya Kabak\u00e7ieva, \u015f\u00f6yle de\u011ferlendirdi:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u201eAnne ve babas\u0131 yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bulunan veya ebeveynleri ile birlikte yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131na giden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u00f6zel bir grup veya risk alt\u0131nda olan bir grup olarak ele al\u0131nmamas\u0131 gerekiyor. Onlar di\u011fer herkes gibi \u00e7ocuktur. Bu arada i\u00e7inde bulunduklar\u0131 durumdan dolay\u0131 ya\u015fda\u015flar\u0131ndan farkl\u0131 problemler ya\u015famalar\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Hem anne hem babas\u0131 yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bulunan, annesi yabanc\u0131 \u00fclkede \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan veya bir ebeveyni yabanc\u0131 olan \u00e7ocuklar s\u0131k s\u0131k problemli oluyorlar. Ne gibi problemler ya\u015fan\u0131yor? Okulda yeterince ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olam\u0131yorlar, s\u0131n\u0131fta kal\u0131yorlar ve di\u011ferlerine g\u00f6re daha s\u0131k hastalan\u0131yorlar. Yak\u0131n ve akrabalar\u0131 yan\u0131nda yeti\u015fenlerde sigara ve alkol kullan\u0131m\u0131 da daha yayg\u0131n oluyor. Bence i\u015fin en endi\u015fe verici taraf\u0131 da ebeveynleri yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n y\u00fczde 40\u2019l\u0131k b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn ona pedagoji odalar\u0131n\u0131n ziyaret\u00e7isi olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Onlar\u0131n i\u015fledikleri kabahatler s\u0131k s\u0131k alkol ve esrar kullan\u0131m\u0131 ile alakal\u0131 olmakta, oysa bu anne ve babas\u0131ndan uzak yeti\u015fen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kontrols\u00fcz olmalar\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r\u201d diyor Petya Kabak\u00e7ieva ve \u015funu da ekliyor: ara\u015ft\u0131rma, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u015fevkate muhta\u00e7 olduklar\u0131n\u0131 ve sevgisizlik \u00e7ektiklerini g\u00f6steriyor. En k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ak\u0131llar\u0131nda ise ebeveyn kavramlar\u0131 kar\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. Mevcut \u201cs\u0131cak telefon hatt\u0131nda\u201d \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan uzmanlar, problem ya\u015fayan \u00e7ocuklardan gelen aramalar\u0131n artt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131yorlar, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla okul psikologunun da m\u00fcdahale etmesi gerekiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Do\u00e7ent Petya Kabak\u00e7ieva, \u201cseyyar\u201d \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 hedef alan ba\u015fka bir ara\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 aktar\u0131rken \u015funlar\u0131 s\u00f6yledi:<\/p>\n<p><b>\u201c<\/b>Onlar \u00fc\u00e7 gruptur.Mevsimliki\u015f yapan ebeveynleri ile birlikte seyahat etmek i\u00e7in okuldan Nisan ay\u0131ndan ayr\u0131l\u0131p Ekim\u2019de d\u00f6nen \u00e7ocuklar, anne babas\u0131 ile bir s\u00fcreli\u011fine yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131na giderek, orada okuyan sonra da d\u00f6nen \u00e7ocuklar ve yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131na giderken belgeye muhta\u00e7 olanlar var. Yurda d\u00f6nen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun s\u0131n\u0131fa d\u00f6nmesi i\u00e7in en az 7 belge isteniyor. Bu y\u00fczden \u00e7ocuklar alt s\u0131n\u0131fa gitmek zorunda kalarak motivasyonunu yitiriyorlar. Blagoevgrad ve \u015eumen illerinde yap\u0131lan ara\u015ft\u0131rmadan al\u0131nan sonu\u00e7lara g\u00f6re gurbet\u00e7ilerin \u00e7o\u011fu Yunanistan, K\u0131br\u0131s, Hollanda ve \u0130spanya\u2019ya gidiyorlar.<\/p>\n<div id=\"bghab-2424515635\" class=\"bghab-yazi-altinda bghab-entity-placement\"><div class=\"bghab-adlabel\">Reklamlar<\/div><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- bghaber-yaz\u0131-sonu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-6203283170189293\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"4222328180\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1 Haziran Uluslararas\u0131 \u00c7ocuk G\u00fcn\u00fc \u00fclkede her d\u00f6rt \u00e7ocuktan biri, annesi taraf\u0131ndan Skype \u00fczerinden selamlan\u0131p \u00f6p\u00fclecek. \u0130leti\u015fim a\u011f\u0131, yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bulunan ebeveynler i\u00e7in sadece bayramla\u015fmak<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":15097,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15096","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kultur-sanat"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/f117f5cb649d26a67d181cc0983a7622.jpg?fit=850%2C478&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pc2PfJ-3Vu","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15096","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15096"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15096\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15097"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15096"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15096"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bghaber.org\/bghaber\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15096"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}